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Sexual Health What should a 22 year old girls body count be in your opinion?
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I saw a post like this for someone that was 18 and was surprised at the answers lol so I'm curious what people would say for my age
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For the people asking, mine is 16.
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What Girls & Guys Said
27 101I hope it was all fun.
For the most part is was lol
it was*
ZERO.
She must save herself for me.
Is that because of a religious reason?
That’s up to her and nine of your business.
You think the number should be kept a secret?
I don’t think it’s anyone’s business, especially complete strangers or even friends. In fact, I’m not sure why so many red pills are obsessed with it. You have no problem with men screaming everything that walks.
I'm pretty open so I don't mind telling people but especially if it was my partner I would tell though. What do you mean by red pills?
It's a long story
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manosphere?wprov=sfla1
Haha screaming- sorry meant screwing.
we know what you meant
If there is some kind of standard that dictates what your body should count should be by a certain age, then there must be some system of propriety or morality that has influence and jurisdiction over your age and your body count. But I'm guessing you would reject any substandard. Therefore, if there's any answer that contradicts what you feel, you'll just reject it out of hand.
So why even ask the question?
Well I don't think there is like a set thing for this, I was just curious on like other peoples standards and wanted to see what they'd think about me. I don't just reject every answer that goes against what I like, it gives me perspective.
Well that's interesting. So even though you don't think there is an objective standard, you are open to being influenced by other perspectives. I can appreciate that. For my personal perspective, I want to marry a virgin. So I would say zero
Is that because of any religious reasons?
Yep. It is. And I also like it for practical reasons. But the religious one is the most fundamental
I can understand that, I used to be somewhat religious myself.
Really? I'm glad to hear you can understand it and it's not an off-putting perspective to you
As long as the person is happy, that's all that matters 🤷♀️
Is it? Is that really a good standard to measure actions by?
There are always exceptions but I think it's an okay way to think
I don't know. We humans are notoriously bad at knowing what makes us happy. And some things ew think make us happy, but in the long term they destroy us
That makes sense, it's a good point
Yeah. So I hear a lot that we should follow what makes us happy. But something that makes me happy for 5 minutes or for one night might make me feel horrible for years. Or the reverse. So I don't actually think it's a very good standard
Woah 16 different partners already 😨. It's your life and your choice... Wish more people would look for the one, rather then pointless loveless sex with little to no feelings for each other involved.
Anywho 18 in most countries I'd expect 0. Some countries have super strict parents. On a grand scale I guess 0 or 1 at that age.
Well I'm just not willing to commit for a relationship rn. I had pretty strict parents and that did not end well.
0-10. 16 too much.
You have a wider range than a lot of people at least lol
So now we have body count standards?
Some people do, that's why I asked
So in your opinion, a girl your age would have to had at least 16 body counts or else she's what exactly? Weird or something? Why is it even a thing, its not really hard to get into hookups these days
It's nothing like that lol, idc what anyone's body count is I was just curious to see how people think
Zero
Is that because of religious reasons?
Yes Plus she gets a bad reputation
I understand
Thank you
Less than one but it is different for most people
Yeah everyone has their own preferences
Oh I didn't notice the update. 16 is pretty high.
It means you had a man for less than half a year
That's not true though
What do you mean?
My longest relationship was like a year lol
Oh, why did you have so short relationships and how come you let 16 people share bed with you in such a short time?
Well my longest relationship ending was out of our control kind of. Also like it wasn't over a super short period of time.
Oh , sad to know. I think you should try sticking to one person and don't tell them about your past relationships early. People will judge you badly unfortunately
@ameerx Don't feel bad for sluts...
Well I'm not ready to commit for a relationship right now but don't you think it would be better if they know early on rather than telling them later? I hope people wouldn't judge me too much for it but I guess I wouldn't be compatible with those people anyways.
@adolfohittando of course there us nothing to feel bad about. They choose to do what they want so they know what they are getting into
Why do you need to tell it early. If you delay it till later then the man might love you enough to let it go
@zaharuh what happens is people start thinking if she has such a high count as a girl she cannot be content with a single person and she will sleep with anyone if she slept with so many people already.
The reason I'm not committing for a relationship is because i dont feel like I'm ready to be in one, I have things I need to work on personally before I think I'm ready. Also I don't understand that like just because someone has slept with people doesn't mean they can't do things long term
I am just telling a general mindset. What things you want to do? And for most part even pornstars have been married happily. So the general notion that sluts can lead stable life is just a gross generalization. Though it is better to avoid being a slut
What do you mean what things do I want to do? Well at least you can see that girls with higher amounts of partners can still be married.
The reason I'm not committing for a relationship is because i dont feel like I'm ready to be in one, I have things I need to work on personally before I think I'm ready. I didn't understand what you meant by things you want to work on personally
And of course, many girls settle down even though they work in adult industry. So, people really should avoid making remarks. It is not like if a person is virgin then they are automatically going to make marriage a success
Well for example I'd like to have more money before I start looking for a relationship but that's just one of a few things. Also yeah like the way people think is so flawed, they think they're going to have a better marriage since they've been with less people.
Oh man, stop thinking about money and don't let it get in the way of your happiness.
Yeah but being financially stable is important, I don't want to be all dependent.
It really doesn't make much difference. Don't lose on the relationship out of fear of dependency
Well it's more than just that, it was an example lol
I understand. What were you thinking when you asked this question?
I was just curious what different people would say. I got worse responses than I thought I would
What were you expecting? Don't take it to heart and remember the tale of the old man , his son and the donkey
I was expecting like people to be a little more lenient compared to the 18 year old post lol and what is the story?
Oh yeah 🤣, people really treated you much worst. The moral of the story is people will never be happy with whatever choice you do to be exactly like what they want
It's okay lol I just thought people would be a little nicer about it. That's true like you can't make everyone happy so you should just do what you like.
A high body count means she doesn't value long term relationships.
Okay but what if the girl is starting to value that and just wasn't before because she wasn't ready to
that's not true!! i have quite a high body count and i would value a long term relationship over anything!!! Body count really doesn't mean anything in my opinion
Lmaoo who told you that? Even so if you are 18-24 you are going to want to have fun, not settle down. She/he may not want a relationship at that moment. I dont know anyone who wanted to be married by 21 and if they did get married they were divorced by 24 lol you are not fully grown mentally until 25. If they got in a relationship at 24 they still won't be thinking about marriage or settling down until 26, 27. This just screams insecurity like "you are afraid to sleep with girls with high body counts, because you lie about yours and you are afraid she will have more experience than you, and she will spread your name through the dirt about how trash your sex is" at least that's what I get when guys say things like this. My best friend is a few years older than me 28, she did porn from 18-25 while in school. She met her Fiance while doing porn although they weren't "dating" she was trying to save up to open her own, nail salon. They got together after she stopped doing porn and have been together since, they are engaged now. He knew about the porn, some people don't want to start building relationships if they are not ready for one, you want to de reckless shit, but also grow in finances, mentally and emotionally. if you are blaming being single on a girls body count or how they dress and blaming others for everything wrong in your life you haven't matured yet, and you have a long way to go. And if you don't work on it you will die alone.
@Jennahymen27 That is exactly me lol like I'm just not looking for anything long term rn but I will be looking for something in the future.
Exactly, maybe we aren't looking now. Have some fun, nobody gets married at 19 anymore and the only reason those marriages lasted back theb is because if a woman got a divorce she would have nothing, they were taboo, you had to put up with the abuse, cheating etc. Doing everything and anything if you wanted to be admired by friends, not anymore If guy get married at 19 or 20 looking for the "love" their great grand father had. They will be divorced in less than 2 years. Enjoy yourself, actually live life so you can be sure you want to be with a certain person, not try to hurry up and be married with two kids before 21, then wishing you could have talked to more women or had more freedom then you go to cheat and " Bam!" Divorce. Thats how it happens
@Jennahymen27 Let's stop with the nonsense. People love each other and don't cheat when they really love each other and I had long term relationships for years with one girl so there wasn't some high body count in high school and college. Sure, do what you want, but a high body count means she doesn't have boyfriends just fuck buddies, so no relationship experience. People with a high body count can get married to other people with a high body count.
I'd say maybe 4 or 5 is alright. What's your magic number?
16 lol
Thats higher than I'd have expected 😅 Maybe I need to be a bit less judgmental
I think one person would be a reasonable number for someone who is 22.
It doesn't matter what her body count is, she should be confident in herself whether it's 0 it 20.
I agree
I'm glad to hear it. A lot of people are self conscious about it, but do what you want and be proud of yourself!
Exactly like there's no reason for me to hide it, its who I am
I think its the starting of being fresh and full of feminity, your deep taste will begin to grow up
What do you mean by that?
I think being round 10 is cool I'm p high myself but not higher then u, u be on some hoe shit, 16?
Why does 16 make me a hoe if you're close to it too?
@zaharuh bc I be on my hoe shit too 💀🤣
Lol 😆 🤣 😂
@yofuknutz I got her ass with that one
I guess we could call that a hole-in-one she did kind of her leave herself open.
There should be no set number, live how you wish to live girl! Personally I think 16 is quite high for your age but who cares what I think. If it makes ya feel any better I'm at 25 lol
I know what you mean but I was asking to see the different opinions of people. I agree that there should be no set number.
25 miss waters I do declare
My wife had 30 men when we married, and I asked her to tell me about all of them, not out of jealousy or anger, but out of voyeuristic curiosity
I guess a few, like two or three?
slut alert
How kind of you
Zero: as far as body count goes, it's the best, the safest, the smartest number.
Is that because you're religious?
Religion has nothing to do with it; ideally I'd buy a brand new machine rather than a (foreign) used one.
That's fair I guess
The brand new machine metaphor doesn't make sense because 1. it assumes there is some permanent damage to the body due to sex 2. It assumes that there no improvement due to sex mentally or physically.
That's actually true
Its half the age so around 11 would be the norm
You're not the only one that has said that method lmao
Lol tbh i dont really care about how many guys a girl had sex with she could be a pornstar or a sex worker for all i care! Personally all i care about is her personality and if we are compatible physically and mentally. As long as she is healthy and she was safe doing it and does not have any stds then its all good.
Like why would i hold her to a higher standard then i would for myself? It makes no sense to me
I feel the same, as long as they're clean I don't see the issue with them having a lot of past partners.
The whole counting thing is kind of bizarre tbh i mean what other things do people count other people do besides sex? Lol do we count how many times a person has shaken hands or given hugs or how many kisses they have given?
Nothing I can think of lol
Best answer I've seen 👏👏
@Jennahymen27 thanks! 😊