You're thinking about this backwards. What SHOULD be happening is that they should be getting you to orgasm BEFORE they start intercourse - through foreplay and oral/fingering. This may also have the side effect of helping you have additional orgasms via penetration, but even if it doesn't, you are at least brought to completion.
The problem with sex is that once a guy has an orgasm, he is hit with a big dose of hormones that makes him sleepy, and for most guys, it's nearly impossible to continue or do very much for a while. That's why you don't want to build up any expectations of a guy doing things AFTER he orgasms - even if he has the best of intentions, it's not likely to happen. That's why he needs to put in the work BEFORE penetration begins.
Yes, there are a few guys who out-of-the-ordinary - who don't get sleepy after orgasms or can even go a second time immediately, but they're the rare exceptions. You should plan around the ordinary, so make sure that foreplay and oral/fingering happens before penetration starts, and you'll be a much happier girl!
You're putting the cart before the horse. To help with that issue you need to change up your foreplay and get more touching, rubbing and licking in before 2 pumps and a splash of baby batter.
Also maybe try making them wear condoms, not for safe sex or anything, but to lessen the sensitivity so they last longer.
If you really want to take it to an extreme get burn relief spray as it has lidocaine, spray your partners dick, roll the condom on, and they'll furiously and desperately pump away as it's a local anesthetic. That could just hurt though, and the excitement, or comfort to relax, let go, and let yourself get off could be missing. It doesn't matter if a guy humps for an hour if your head is going different places... You'll just get chaffed and bored.
Young guys aren’t typically very good in bed (no offence guys but it’s just that age where everyone is learning). You could masturbate to figure out what feels good for your body and next time you’re with a guy, politely show him (he’ll appreciate it). Also, really they should be spending some time to help get you off. Sometimes it doesn’t always happen regardless and that’s okay, but if no effort is put in then they’re likely just using you. I found the best way to achieve great orgasms was within a relationship where you both learn what each other likes, and for woman it’s also more mental so once you feel cared for that adds comfort which then adds a huge part of the pleasure too. If you’re just having hook ups then it’s not likely to be very good in that sense.
A smart guy will always go last. Or at least, he'll go second. No one can say that God doesn't have sense of humor. He's the one who designed all of this. He knows that as soon as a guy cums, he just wants a ham sandwich and a nap.
lol. And I like a roast beef sandwich before cumming. :-)
@Red_Arrow LOL I'm stealing jokes from comedians. I can't take credit for them. But the other one about God laughing at us, is when he made guys' sexual peak at a young age, and gals' sexual peak an a considerably older age. You just know that him and his friends got a great laugh out of that one. :)
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He should use his fingers, tongue, and if he's still hard, his cock to get you off.
He should probably go down on you and make u orgasm
I want my boyfriend, when he cums while fucking to continue hitting me, if it's possible for him. Otherwise I wish he would do oral on me (I would allow him a little rest).
Most man can regenerate cum in 5 to 10 min and last longer in second round like maybe 20 min.
So if he couldn't resist give him 5 to 10 min talk to him or let he play with you so he can regenerate then start the next round.
Try it maybe it worked?
He should make sure you cum first! He can do that with lots of foreplay, including oral.
This
Have him help u get off.
After popping a cork it doesn’t have to be party over & tell your partner to keep on going.
Maybe you need to find guys that will get you off a few times with oral sex and some heavy petting before they climb on top of you.
Usually I get my girl off a few times so she is all revved up and ready to go by the time I finally climb on top. That way she will feel that we both got off and it was worth the time.
Find guys that care a little and know what foreplay is. A good kitty licking will do wonders for you.
I prefer to bring a girl to a beautifully pleasurable orgasm during foreplay and possibly (hopefully !) again during penis-vagina sex
On a few occasions when p-v sex was initiated first - mostly tbh by the girl wanting to go straight to that - and I've cum first inside her, then I've followed on by massaging her sensually/sexually to especially intense orgasm
But best of all is when she can cum again - even more intensely than the first time during foreplay - at the same time as me during p-v sexual lovemaking
? What says I have to stop after I orgasm. Why can't I wrap it up again and keep going? Never understood, is it just lazyness?
Simple. He shouldn't. He should thoroughly bring you off by hand or oral before he mounts up. Then, if you surge again, lucky you and him.
My rule of thumb is, if she doesn't orgasm, neither do I.
It it always happens, consider fingering yourself while you're having sex so you are more likely to reach orgasm at the same time. You may want to try other positions that are a less tight fit to reduce the friction and use some lube. You could also ask him to wear a cock ring or to use some desensitizing lube to slow him down. It's also important that there is enough foreplay. Ask him to eat you until you are very turned on. If he's getting close during intercourse and you aren't there yet, stop for a minute. Do something to keep you turned on while he settles down, for example return to him eating you.
Emphasize foreplay. Try to cum before he even fucks you. Try for better quality of man that actually cares about your pleasure.
There's a lot more involved in this situation other than him cumming before you.
bad practice xD make them get you off at least once before they even get started. that's how i do it.
The guy should help her orgasm.
Before he does
Ok first off if the guy you are banging care about you he will engage in foreplay with you. He should be getting you off before he even sticks his dick inside of you. Second off if he finishes before you do... I don't know honestly gotta ask a girl for that advice because they have experienced that.
It shouldn't matter, the most important thing is that the both of you have an orgasm.
Best thing is to make her orgasm first before you, because when you cum, your sex drive has gone and you will fall asleep
She will then hear the quote from that classic movie
"If you ain't first, your last"
The poet
Ricky Bobby.
You're**
I always make sure the woman orgasms. I rub her clit during sex to help her orgasm. If we don't orgasm together I'll definitely give her one after I finish. I don't ever not give her an orgasm.
Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Superb Opinion