What to do if you’re loud in bed?

Question

Ok so I’m fairly loud in bed especially when I’m cumming. Even if I try to be quiet it doesn’t work because my body instinctually wants to scream 😅. It’s embarrassing though and I fear it can put guys off. Is there a way to keep my loud moans in? In the moment it’s extremely hard in all honesty.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

have your partner kiss you hard.

push your face down into the pillow (if you are face down)

have your partner put their hand over your mouth or a pillow.

Your partner SHOULD enjoy hearing you be loud.. it is showing how well they are pleasing you.

and other people like hearing a woman get a good fucking... even if they say they don't, they secretly love it.

Emilyis · Accepted Answer

I know I'm loud in bed but we live on a private road on the ranch that I grew up on and mom and dad are our only neighbors and they are 2 miles away so I can scream if I want but the oldest child may hear it but I probably have anyway.

cth96190 · Accepted Answer

I was always turned on by a woman who was loud.

You might consider moving to a rural area, though. If your closest neighbour was a mile away, you could make all the noise that you wanted.

I used to have BDSM events at my rural home. It was much easier because my closest neighbour was too far away to be seen.

CasaNorba · Accepted Answer

wear one of these though I highly doubt any man would dislike you being loud. a woman screaming while she cums is a major compliment

ohsheeT · Answer

My experiences if you are loud in bed you should probably move to the living room couch LOL

LikeALog · Answer

I love hearing a girl do that. No problem for me. It gets me more excited. But I don't live in an apartment or a tract house so neighbors won't hear you.

Sour-rose · Answer

Oh i can be loud... if i drank 6 glasses of caramel milk.  i'm such a child.

Morbid420 · Answer

A lot of guys would love that! I know I would, I don't think you should hold it in or tone it down either and if a guy doesn't liked hearing you enjoying sex and having orgasms I'd say it's time to find a new guy. Like I said I love a vocal girl who really gets into it, it's a huge turn on to know I'm making her feel so good.

PeteBy · Answer

It wouldn't put me off. It means you're enjoying it and that's a turn on for guys.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Buy earplugs for your neighbors.

Billlewis · Answer

If you're seeking a solution to your loud, vocal demeanor when you're having sex with your boyfriend, consider hanging some blankets, rugs, etc on the walls, to muffle some of the reverberations, and perhaps, if you have an ex whom you know is jealous as hell of your current body, consider calling his voice mail at a time when you know he's asleep, etc, and he'll have a very frustrating reminder of what he'd probably still have, if he hadn't pissed you off;)

RedStiletto88 · Answer

I have absolutely no shame about the noise I make . I just am completely enjoying the moments immensely ❤️

NathanDavis · Answer

G@G...

OlderThanILook · Answer

I don't know train yourself to be quieter? Wear a muzzle?

mrmonogamous · Answer

You think you're loud? You should hear me! I literally have to shove my face in a pillow sometimes.

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

Why would that be embarrassing? Own it girlie!

AviatorTom · Answer

Don't stop your loudness. Guys won't think anything bad of it, and most will like it. Enjoy!

JessJJ · Answer

No darling it's but it's nothing to be ashamed of! Let it out.

JustADudePlayinADude · Answer

As long as other people aren't hearing it, I would find it hot. Otherwise, try biting on something like a blanket or piece of clothing.

exitseven · Answer

Find guys that get off on making you scream.

bowenw · Answer

It's a turn-on for me if the girl is loud unless we're somewhere we have to be quiet to avoid getting caught. It may help if you play a game to see if you can remain totally silent.