so here is what I think goes on in most relationships. I've met a woman in which it was close to "fatal attraction" tho I wouldn't get physical but there was very intense emotions to the point if I couldn't have her all to myself I'd go insane. so I tend to get with women who I emotionally can't develope those deep emotions with because its simply not worth it unless it goes perfectly in a perfect world. women do the same and its to protect yourself from inevitable pain. when it comes to cuckold relationships there is simply no emotional involvement or connection. there are women who I can sleep with and not care if they were gangbanged right after with me in the room. I'm just giving you an example of how much I can disconnect emotionally from a woman. tho I wouldn't be okay with her being treated like a piece of meat like being "gangbanged" if we come to an agreement then the light is green. so yeah simply there is no emotional feelings deep enough to cause gealousy with guys that have cuckold fetishes and I think they would choose a girl not compatable to them. its all about insecurities that drive them to always be with a girl they couldn't become attached to
This is a good point
I think it was fatal attraction because I was a virgin at the time very immature and inexperianced and she was a master manipulater. but I'm very familiar with mind games now and working towards finding meaningful relationships and deeper connections the more I mature and I dont ever think I'll be in a fatal attraction relationship ever again.
but guess what. since your a woman your automatically playing mind games haha. why are you into cuckold relationships?
Not for me, but to each their own.
I think that if a person doesn't satisify their partner then if they really care about them they would want to learn how they could and get better at it. It is a gift that I give my girlfriend wanting to take care of her needs and not only think of my own needs in turn she also gives me the gift of wanting to take care of my needs too.
Remember, "it isn't the size of the dog in the fight it is the size of the fight in the dog" LOL or "it isn't the size that matters it is how you use it" & that is my.02 Cents ;)
Well said
It is all a matter of what your sexual preference is as well as the man you are seeing.
Some men are very turned on by the idea of cuckolding and if that is their ideal situation then they will seek out women who are into such a thing. Also each cuckolding relationship is different. Much the same way as Dom/Sub relationships differ from couple to couple.
It is a matter of making sure that everyone involved in the relationship gets what they need.
Personally, I'm not into the idea of cuckolding. That is probably because I have submissive tendencies. However if that is something that a future partner of mine wants, I would probably not pursue that relationship.
Straight white girl in a monogamous relationship here. To be honest, I think it's really hot. I don't do it anymore but last year when I was with my ex, I did cuckold him. No humiliation or sissy stuff, just had sex with another larger guy in front of him. But at no point did that make me lose respect for my ex. If anything it turned me on that he cared about me being fully satisfied. But I would be turned off if it in any way involved degrading my boyfriend. That is NOT hot
The Bible speaks of sex outside of marriage as immoral and adulterous (1 Corinthians 6:13, 18; 10:8; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3).
That sounds amazing
im a cuckquean
my husband has a girlfriend who lives with us.
i love watch them in sex and also do all house work.
she is more beautiful.
why my husband still loves me and keeps me is because i earn most of the family income.
Really?
@orangesundance really
your husband is soooooo luckyy
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Well, up until certain events in our lives, I thought that it would be a pretty strange lifestyle. But after watching some porn with my husband, that led to another type of porn, that led to even another type of porn. Then having open and honest communication about our fantasies, I love my husband even more than before we started participating in somewhat of this lifestyle.
I fit the definition of a cuckold (she gets an occasional one night stand, and asks me to stay monogamous), but I half agree with your post. Most cuckolds I've tried to talk to harass their wives and gfs into the lifestyle. Most women don't get married to see their men wear panties, they want someone with virility. It sounds like a nightmare to be harassed by a loser your whole life, and then to have to dedicate another part of your life to making him happy.
here is a good analogy a woman loves steak and is now getting a steady diet of steak and she has hamburger at home and why would a woman then settle on hamburger when she can have a steady diet of steak. She would have to be a moron
i wouldn't want to call them weak or pathetic because i don't know them personally. it seems that many of these people are very normal people who just find it sexy to see their partners have sex with other people.
it's fucked up
I don't get it. I mean, I've had men approach me because they want to see their wives fuck a real man, and that idea is hot, but I can't imagine how it can be hot to the guy trying to make this happen. I do not like being degraded or insulted. It does not appeal to me. But he'd have to be VERY big to make me look bad, so there's that. But who wants to see their wife enjoy a larger man more than she enjoys you? I understand there are different degrees of cuckolding. There are the ones where it's just letting another man pleasure her in ways you can't, and there is the humiliation version. The ones where she makes you suck off her bull, or clean up his seed as it oozes out of her. Not a hot idea to me, at all. But to each their own, right? I mean, sometimes I believe these men are really just closeted, and it's the best way to keep up appearances in public. I just can't wrap my head around what they get out of it.
these men who want this done to their wives have mental issues
i don't get it. won't ever get it. people can do whatever the fuck they want. lol. I think they're fucking weird.
It's not my thing but I don't judge either. To each their own. I don't think any less of them for having that fantasy/desire. I don't think it necessarily says anything about his love for her either, it's just his fantasy or what turns him on. We all have fantasies/different turn ons.
Maybe but personally I find it disgusting and unattractive for a man to want that
I'm a guy who is bisexual, and enjoys cuckoldry. My wife isn't into it, but allowed me to pursue my fantasies, so I met other women who liked the idea, dated them, even slept with them, because it makes the cuckolding so much more intense. I've done it a handful of times with different women, men, and couples. It's a sexual kink and preference, nothing more and nothing less. The OP seems to be radically against the idea, but keep in mind you may also have kinks that would turn others off. You do you, as they say. I'm doing me :)
People see as it’s something bad or wrong. But it’s just a kink
The Bible speaks of sex outside of marriage as immoral and adulterous (1 Corinthians 6:13, 18; 10:8; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3).
@llcanon And while I have no right to tell you religion is delusional, you also have no right to hold me to your standards.
Im a dom and a very experienced BDSM/kink/taboo player. However once in a while simply for the kinkiness of it i enjoy letting my girlfriend fuck other men. Sometimes in front of me other times at their place. The best part is reclaiming her roughly afterwards.
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Despite the definition you posted at the bottom, your initial comments lead me to believe you think MFM threesomes and cuckoldry are synonymous. You know that's not true in most cases, right?
Hhhmm. Allowing another man to have sex with your partner makes a man a cuckold.
Read the definition you posted. Although it's from Urban Dictionary, it's correct when it implied a level of humiliation and/or denial is a large factor. People who have neither engaged in multiple sex partner acts nor know someone in the lifestyle often mistake cuckoldry as being any form of threesome.
The meaning of cuckold is like that of the word slut, just because you don't like that word doesn't mean it doesn't apply.
I messaged you
Are you into it?
whatever gets you off...
personally, find it revolting. and makes me want to go on a mass murder chain if i was forced to do that
The urban dictionary is giving a literal definition not the fetish one. Im a v exp kink player and a full blown dom. I allow my girlfriend to fuck other men who she chooses simply cos it turns us both on. I love watching her in action then roughly reclaiming her afterwards. Dont knock it til u try it.
The Bible speaks of sex outside of marriage as immoral and adulterous (1 Corinthians 6:13, 18; 10:8; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3).
I really don't like it, cause my wife fucking someone else and then I have to clean it yuck!! but ur r8 many people enjoy it, but not me it's a really turn off, in terms of porn I love student and teacher porn, cause there many young and sexy teachers in my school and I can fantasize about them by watching it (don't get wrong or that I'm disgusting but I really like teacher student porn)
Yeah I agree. I would never do that. fucking gross
I use "cuck" as an insult regularly so, that's just about how i feel on the topic
It's very unhealthy for relationships. The woman will naturally start looking down on the man.
Very true, it is like this. if woman is enjoying steak and she loves steak why would the same woman settle for hamburger
Cuckolding is actually a very healthy practice in long term relationships. Studies show cuckold relationships are more fulfilling to both partners and have much more communication and intimacy. So when faced with that information I would have to be supportive of such a thing.
Yes it is. My husband also loves to share me
The Bible speaks of sex outside of marriage as immoral and adulterous (1 Corinthians 6:13, 18; 10:8; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3). Reply
@Kelly6 Then your husband is one weird man
They must have some serious self steem problems. I imagine cuckolds relationships doesn't last.
Probably until the woman ends it and finds a better man or a man she can respect
Yeah, probably. There is no mutual respect in those type of relationships.
exactly
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