Why are guys so insecure if a girl prefers a larger penis?

Why are guys so insecure about girls preferences for dick size?
Like guys have all sorts of preferences. Big boobs, small boobs, skinny, thick, athletic, petite etc etc etc.

But then if I say I prefer the feel of a bigger dick around the 7-8in size they go all weird and insecure.
Why?
Some guys like small boobs and some like big boobs.
Some girls like big penises and some prefer smaller or medium sizes.

I'm sorry for the vent.
I've been talking to a guy on a dating app that seemed cool. He asked me the question, I gave him an honest, polite answer and he abused me. I didn't even know what he looked like naked at this point.
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  • What you like is what you like, but probably the same reason a girl would feel slighted if a guy knocked her back because her boobs are too small.

  • Because we can’t change the size of our penis. Or our height. Or how much Jaír we have. Y’all can hop on the treadmill and burn off that Burger King you stress ate last night. Also I guarantee you, far less guys wouldn’t date a girl due to having small boobs than there are girls who wouldn’t date a guy with a 3 in dick.

  • He shouldn't have been impolite in response to your honest answer. He should have just accepted it and moved on.

  • I think most guys are just worried they won't live up to your expectations and the sexual experience will be bad.

  • The same reason if guys like big boobs.

  • Aren’t girls just as often insecure regarding guys preferences? Doesn’t it go both ways?

  • Insecure.
    Doesn't have what you prefer.

    Very common no matter what it is and what gender there something isn't within the preferred spec's.
    It gets usually perceived as a requirement and that they aren't good enough to pass.
    Also just that they aren't good enough even if it is just a preference.

    Have lost count how many female's that have reacted in that way about something they doesn't fit into no matter if it was a preference or a requirement.

    The best thing is to just move on if someone has problems like that no matter what it is.
    It usually turns into shit later on since the other one build up shit inside their heads and self sabotag the relationship.

  • Ego. Penis size is often associated with virility and masculinity. It can affect self-esteem.

  • Stupidity and immaturity.

  • It is funny when someone complains about why men get insecure about physical things when there is over a billion dollar industry that caters to women’s physical insecurities. Let’s be honest. Men are not the ones spending thousands of dollars “fixing” their insecurities.

  • That guy it seems has small one, I used to be insecure about my small size but once I accepted reality and got into SPH I've been much happier, tbh girls who say they prefer bigger are a turn on for me, actually always have been but didn't realise why until I was older,,,

  • No one likes being rejected. When there is comparison there is always insecurity.

  • You can change your weight and boob size. We can't change our height or penis size

  • I have a fat 7 inch dick, its big enough to hurt about 90% of girls if i ram it in full. If a girl said she only liked dicks around my size id be completely turned off and not date her even though i could satisfy her fully. in my opinion its an unhealthy attitude about sex, one that leads to issues down the road where you base satisfaction on a specific feature. Men might prefer big tits but even men who like big tits dont need big tits to have great sex. If they did then i would tell you they have a sexual dysfunction as well.

  • For the same reasons girls go crazy about guys having preferences despite having their own. Everyone want to be wanted, few can allow themselves to want.

  • Because it's something we can't change unlike if a guy prefers skinnier girls instead of bigger girls, except for some reason that's not considered a preference and is instead somehow body shaming and sexist? Doesn't make sense to me how that's body shaming but making fun of guys with dicks smaller than entire legs is not considered sexist or body shaming since it's something guys can't change.

  • why does a human being react emotionally to someone having standards they dont reach?

    I don't know, that doesn't really make much sense to me

    • Makes you think fellow weeb 🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • Not at all insecure, I think that is a myth... It goes both ways. So if a girl wants a larger penis I have not problem with it. It probably means she had a larger vagina that an average penis would not feel much from anyway. To each their own as for what satisfies them.

  • Why would any guy feel insecure about that? This infers a lot more about the "type" of woman, due to a compulsion for an otherwise trivial attribute.

  • I just feel sorry that you have a void in you so large you need someone bigger than me….

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