Because it feels safer. That's why! And because women are not scared of other naked female bodies, we feel very at ease around other naked women. From when we're young we are told female-female nudity is okay, nothing to be ashamed of as we all have the same body parts (they look different but they are the same).
My question is why heterosexual male servers are so afraid to work in a male strip club (male strippers)? That's so weird to me. It's just another naked male body. You watch p*rn righjt, you see guys half naked there as well, especially their dicks are in your face. If you're comfortable with that, why should you be so uncomfortable around other naked men in real life? So weird..0 0 0 0Why are we uncomfortable? Because we are straight! We prefer to look at nude women not other guys! Why on earth would I want to be around a guy that's naked? That's why I can't understand why a straight female would prefer to be around nude women rather then guys.
That's a good question... I'm not sure why that is.
But I can honestly tell you that while I was reading your question I automatically thought "Oh yeah, that makes sense I would rather work in a female strip club too." That was just my first reaction..
It has nothing to do with me wanting to look at women, I'm straight. I just know that I would feel more comfortable around naked women, rather than men. Which is a little odd if you think about it. But I know that being around naked men would make me feel extremely uncomfortable, even though I'm attracted to men. I wouldn't want to look at them anyways, I don't know why. I just wouldn't look.0 1 0 0Thanks. That's how most of the girls respond to it, but none of them really seem to know why? lol So you feel that way too, but you can't really put your finger on why? Like you would feel weird around guys even though you are attracted to them? But you wouldn't feel weird at all being around naked girls? You would actually feel more comfortable seeing girls nude even though you have no interested in them?
Yeah, that's exactly it. I think I would feel more comfortable with naked women BECAUSE I have no interest in them. And I don't have to worry about them being interested in me. And being around ONE naked man in intimidating enough, let alone a room full of them. That's just uncomfortable and weird to me. I wouldn't be into it or anything. I would feel the opposite, really.
Interesting. You know one of the girls could be bi or a lesbian and be interested in you? Just curious... why is it 'intimidating' being around a guy, but perfectly fine being around girls?
Personally I would feel more comfortable around a bunch of naked women than men, mainly because that is the body and parts I am most used to seeing (on myself). I also don't want my job to include seeing naked men and their parts all night, I don't think my boyfriend would be okay with that either.
I also think about it this way, girl on girl action is a lot more socially acceptable than guy on guy action, a guy would be called gay for working at a male strip club, for girls it just doesn't really matter, not sure why that is though...0 0 0 0Thanks. So you feel that way too, mostly because it's more socially acceptable? Like you would feel weird around guys even though you are attracted to them? But you wouldn't feel weird at all being around naked girls? You would actually feel more comfortable seeing girls nude even though you have no interest in them?
I wouldn't say mostly because its socially acceptable, for girls it doesn't matter, for me the only man I have ever seen naked is my boyfriend, I wouldn't be caught dead going to a male strip club or working at one, a bunch of random naked men is just not something I'm interested in seeing, but walk through any female locker room and you will see tons of naked women, its not like I am going to be staring at them they are just there, and I am more used to naked women than naked men.
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Haven't checked out all the women's responses, but I'm surprised none of the guys brought up science.
Evolutionary psych says: because women in the past have been raped, the ones who get excited / lubed up over any nakedness are the ones who'll suffer less damage.
Plus, women are more likely to run into dudes in the female strip club, and since naked females turn them on (as much as naked males do), it's win-win. And, that's where the money's at.
Women clientele are pickier, and aren't going to hit on the servers (too much). So not much advantage to the guy to work the male strip club.0 0 0 0male sexuality and being free to express that is generally oppressed. I don't think it's anyone's fault it's just women have been working on their rights for everything especially freedom of expression (includes sexual expression) and as men we don't "get to feel oppressed" so we end up left behind in many "human" rights that woman have made possible.
I just want to add I'm all for equal rights I just think in Some situations men have been left behind.0 0 0 0While you raise some interesting points, I don't think this has as much to do with rights. Most guys I know are completely honest when they say they don't want to see another guy nude. I myself do not even want to see other guys nude unless I really needed to. But women generally have no problem seeing other girls nude. Yes I agree it is more acceptable for women to say that... but I don't think most men are lying when they say they don't want to see another guy naked.
Maybe as guys the only time we generally see another guy naked (short of being gay) is in the gym or during sports. As where many girls from what I understand feel free to change and be nude around other girls. you'll need a girl's point of view when it comes to why they don't want to work around naked men because the only one I can come up with is they are afraid.
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39 15Very easy.. the girls know they will get better tips working in the female strip club since there will be guys there and guys tip females better. Guys don't want to work in the male club because they are uncomfortable with seeing other guys naked… it is the same stereotype where girls can see each other naked and go to the bathroom together and no one questions their sexual orientation where as for guys they would.
0 0 0 0I know that's one reason, but even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight?
I'd be choose to work in the female strip
club too. The reason being that because I am also female, I'm used to seeing female anatomy. I won't get flustered or distracted while working, so I'll be able to do my job better.0 2 0 0So basically your reason is only that you also have boobs and a vagina? Where if you were around guys you would be turned on or distracted?
Pretty much. I'm desensitized to that stuff, seeing it doesn't phase me. If I were around the indecent males I'd be flustered and distracted, I wouldn't say 'turned on' though. When I get a job, I don't go in so I can have fun and stare at things, I go in so I can be precise, focused, and effective in my work no matter what it may be. It only makes sense to go for a position with minimal distractions.
So you really think guys are that big of a distraction that you couldn't be professional around them? But being around nude girls wouldn't be distracting at all? Also if I can ask... since you would prefer to work at the female strip club... Would you ever feel weird that the girls are essentially being objectified? That guys are coming just to see the other girls nude? Would that bother you that the club is dedicated to showing off girls' bodies for entertainment? Or you wouldn't care that the girls are nude and showing off for the guy customers?
Personnally, it has nothing to do with attractiveness. It's just we feel more confortable around each other because we have the same body.
And it's the same with men/women toilets. Men are confortable to be around each others to pee. Once I came in the men toilets by mistake and all the guys face went red.0 0 0 0So you only feel more comfortable because you have the same boobs and vagina? And that story sounds fake... honestly I would say most guys could care less if a girl was around when they went to the bathroom. And men aren't comfortable around each other in the bathroom... it's often an awkward silence and don't look at each other type thing. And lastly, if that were true then why would anyone go to a strip club? They would be embarrassed to see the opposite sex nude then wouldn't they be?
Lol why are you waiting for answers if you tell to everyone you don't believe them? You just want to hear your fantasm that lots of girls are bi, but sorry dude that's not my case.
I'm not telling people I don't believe them, I'm trying to make sense of it. From a guys perspective it's weird to see the same sex nude, we would much rather be around nude girls. So it would seem logical that a straight female would prefer to be around guys... but that's not the case. I'm just trying to see why girls feel that way, but it seems most of them don't really know why other then that's how they feel.
More money.
And since we have all the female parts ourselves, we're more used to the concept of naked women.4 3 1 0I know that's one reason, but even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight? So honestly you would feel more comfortable around nude girls just because you have boobs/vagina? If you don't mind me asking, would you consider yourself bi?
Yes. No, I don't consider myself bi, or lesbian. I'm straight.
That's interesting. The only reason is because you have the same parts? Or do you feel there are other reasons as well?
It's not that. In a strip club with naked women, customers are mostly horny men. They probably tip a waitress better than women.
0 0 0 0Besides seeing the same sex naked is less exciting and weird than the opposite sex.
But even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight? Honestly, would you personally prefer to work at a female strip club instead of a male club?
No, I'd rather work with male strippers. Not because I'd enjoy the show, but because I tend to compare myself to other women a lot. I wouldn't want to feel insecure.
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