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Why do girls prefer to see other girls nude?

So I help to manage two small strip clubs...1 is a regular female strip club, the other is a male strip club and they are located in the same building next to each other. Anyway, the one thing that shocked me at first... we often hire for servers (waitress/waiters) and girls that we hire as servers almost always prefer to work in the female strip club! Even girls who are 100% straight and are interested in men still prefer to work in the female strip club and be around other girls that are nude? Yet the guys that we hire almost always refuse to work in the male strip club unless it is a gay guy. Why is that? Why do girls that are completely straight still prefer to work in a female strip club and be around nude girls instead of working in a male club? Even when I ask the girls why, they just say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even though they are straight. Why is this?
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  • Because it feels safer. That's why! And because women are not scared of other naked female bodies, we feel very at ease around other naked women. From when we're young we are told female-female nudity is okay, nothing to be ashamed of as we all have the same body parts (they look different but they are the same).

    My question is why heterosexual male servers are so afraid to work in a male strip club (male strippers)? That's so weird to me. It's just another naked male body. You watch p*rn righjt, you see guys half naked there as well, especially their dicks are in your face. If you're comfortable with that, why should you be so uncomfortable around other naked men in real life? So weird..

    • Why are we uncomfortable? Because we are straight! We prefer to look at nude women not other guys! Why on earth would I want to be around a guy that's naked? That's why I can't understand why a straight female would prefer to be around nude women rather then guys.

  • That's a good question... I'm not sure why that is.

    But I can honestly tell you that while I was reading your question I automatically thought "Oh yeah, that makes sense I would rather work in a female strip club too." That was just my first reaction..

    It has nothing to do with me wanting to look at women, I'm straight. I just know that I would feel more comfortable around naked women, rather than men. Which is a little odd if you think about it. But I know that being around naked men would make me feel extremely uncomfortable, even though I'm attracted to men. I wouldn't want to look at them anyways, I don't know why. I just wouldn't look.

    • Thanks. That's how most of the girls respond to it, but none of them really seem to know why? lol So you feel that way too, but you can't really put your finger on why? Like you would feel weird around guys even though you are attracted to them? But you wouldn't feel weird at all being around naked girls? You would actually feel more comfortable seeing girls nude even though you have no interested in them?

    • Yeah, that's exactly it. I think I would feel more comfortable with naked women BECAUSE I have no interest in them. And I don't have to worry about them being interested in me. And being around ONE naked man in intimidating enough, let alone a room full of them. That's just uncomfortable and weird to me. I wouldn't be into it or anything. I would feel the opposite, really.

    • Interesting. You know one of the girls could be bi or a lesbian and be interested in you? Just curious... why is it 'intimidating' being around a guy, but perfectly fine being around girls?

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  • Personally I would feel more comfortable around a bunch of naked women than men, mainly because that is the body and parts I am most used to seeing (on myself). I also don't want my job to include seeing naked men and their parts all night, I don't think my boyfriend would be okay with that either.

    I also think about it this way, girl on girl action is a lot more socially acceptable than guy on guy action, a guy would be called gay for working at a male strip club, for girls it just doesn't really matter, not sure why that is though...

    • Thanks. So you feel that way too, mostly because it's more socially acceptable? Like you would feel weird around guys even though you are attracted to them? But you wouldn't feel weird at all being around naked girls? You would actually feel more comfortable seeing girls nude even though you have no interest in them?

    • I wouldn't say mostly because its socially acceptable, for girls it doesn't matter, for me the only man I have ever seen naked is my boyfriend, I wouldn't be caught dead going to a male strip club or working at one, a bunch of random naked men is just not something I'm interested in seeing, but walk through any female locker room and you will see tons of naked women, its not like I am going to be staring at them they are just there, and I am more used to naked women than naked men.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Haven't checked out all the women's responses, but I'm surprised none of the guys brought up science.

    Evolutionary psych says: because women in the past have been raped, the ones who get excited / lubed up over any nakedness are the ones who'll suffer less damage.

    Plus, women are more likely to run into dudes in the female strip club, and since naked females turn them on (as much as naked males do), it's win-win. And, that's where the money's at.

    Women clientele are pickier, and aren't going to hit on the servers (too much). So not much advantage to the guy to work the male strip club.

  • male sexuality and being free to express that is generally oppressed. I don't think it's anyone's fault it's just women have been working on their rights for everything especially freedom of expression (includes sexual expression) and as men we don't "get to feel oppressed" so we end up left behind in many "human" rights that woman have made possible.

    I just want to add I'm all for equal rights I just think in Some situations men have been left behind.

    • While you raise some interesting points, I don't think this has as much to do with rights. Most guys I know are completely honest when they say they don't want to see another guy nude. I myself do not even want to see other guys nude unless I really needed to. But women generally have no problem seeing other girls nude. Yes I agree it is more acceptable for women to say that... but I don't think most men are lying when they say they don't want to see another guy naked.

    • Maybe as guys the only time we generally see another guy naked (short of being gay) is in the gym or during sports. As where many girls from what I understand feel free to change and be nude around other girls. you'll need a girl's point of view when it comes to why they don't want to work around naked men because the only one I can come up with is they are afraid.

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  • Very easy.. the girls know they will get better tips working in the female strip club since there will be guys there and guys tip females better. Guys don't want to work in the male club because they are uncomfortable with seeing other guys naked… it is the same stereotype where girls can see each other naked and go to the bathroom together and no one questions their sexual orientation where as for guys they would.

    • I know that's one reason, but even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight?

  • I'd be choose to work in the female strip
    club too. The reason being that because I am also female, I'm used to seeing female anatomy. I won't get flustered or distracted while working, so I'll be able to do my job better.

    • So basically your reason is only that you also have boobs and a vagina? Where if you were around guys you would be turned on or distracted?

    • Pretty much. I'm desensitized to that stuff, seeing it doesn't phase me. If I were around the indecent males I'd be flustered and distracted, I wouldn't say 'turned on' though. When I get a job, I don't go in so I can have fun and stare at things, I go in so I can be precise, focused, and effective in my work no matter what it may be. It only makes sense to go for a position with minimal distractions.

    • So you really think guys are that big of a distraction that you couldn't be professional around them? But being around nude girls wouldn't be distracting at all? Also if I can ask... since you would prefer to work at the female strip club... Would you ever feel weird that the girls are essentially being objectified? That guys are coming just to see the other girls nude? Would that bother you that the club is dedicated to showing off girls' bodies for entertainment? Or you wouldn't care that the girls are nude and showing off for the guy customers?

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  • Personnally, it has nothing to do with attractiveness. It's just we feel more confortable around each other because we have the same body.
    And it's the same with men/women toilets. Men are confortable to be around each others to pee. Once I came in the men toilets by mistake and all the guys face went red.

    • So you only feel more comfortable because you have the same boobs and vagina? And that story sounds fake... honestly I would say most guys could care less if a girl was around when they went to the bathroom. And men aren't comfortable around each other in the bathroom... it's often an awkward silence and don't look at each other type thing. And lastly, if that were true then why would anyone go to a strip club? They would be embarrassed to see the opposite sex nude then wouldn't they be?

    • Lol why are you waiting for answers if you tell to everyone you don't believe them? You just want to hear your fantasm that lots of girls are bi, but sorry dude that's not my case.

    • I'm not telling people I don't believe them, I'm trying to make sense of it. From a guys perspective it's weird to see the same sex nude, we would much rather be around nude girls. So it would seem logical that a straight female would prefer to be around guys... but that's not the case. I'm just trying to see why girls feel that way, but it seems most of them don't really know why other then that's how they feel.

  • More money.
    And since we have all the female parts ourselves, we're more used to the concept of naked women.

    • I know that's one reason, but even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight? So honestly you would feel more comfortable around nude girls just because you have boobs/vagina? If you don't mind me asking, would you consider yourself bi?

    • Yes. No, I don't consider myself bi, or lesbian. I'm straight.

    • That's interesting. The only reason is because you have the same parts? Or do you feel there are other reasons as well?

  • It's not that. In a strip club with naked women, customers are mostly horny men. They probably tip a waitress better than women.

    • Besides seeing the same sex naked is less exciting and weird than the opposite sex.

    • But even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight? Honestly, would you personally prefer to work at a female strip club instead of a male club?

    • No, I'd rather work with male strippers. Not because I'd enjoy the show, but because I tend to compare myself to other women a lot. I wouldn't want to feel insecure.

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  • Well, it could be for multiple reasons. One is that the girl may feel like a pervert or like people will treat her like a pervert if she works in the male strip club; another could be that it may feel creepy to have multiple guys flashing her their stuff every night; or if she has a boyfriend/husband she may feel that they wouldn't like her working in a male strip club, so she goes with the female one instead. They could also have their own reasons that are none of these. the possibilities are endless!

    • Thanks. So honestly would you prefer to work at a female strip club or male one?

    • Hmm, probably female. I'd feel gross at a male one, and I really admire female pole dancers for their muscles. Some of those women have arms that could snap a bear's neck! It's just really impressive to me.

    • Interesting. What makes you prefer the female strip club? Just curious, would you consider yourself bi or no?

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  • Because they'll get bigger tips duh! Plus women don't enjoy objectifying men like guys do with girls. It makes us a bit uncomfortable being around male strippers, unless you're a desperate housewife. Then its wring the knickers out.

    • I know the tips are one reason, but even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight? And as far as not wanting to objectify men... aren't they in a sense objectifying other women then by choosing to work in a female strip club?

    • Yeah of course they are but they're in with the girls so it probably doesn't feel like they are objectifying them.

    • Okay. So if you had to work in one of the clubs... I assume you would also pick the female strip club?

  • I don't know, it'd be a little strange to work with a bunch of naked dudes flopping their dicks anywhere near me. Even if it's for work. (I wouldn't wanna work at a strip club regardless though)
    Male patrons in female strip clubs (most likely straight) are more likely to tip a female server than male patrons at a male strip club (most likely gay). Female patrons at a female strip club (most likely lesbians) are also more likely to tip female servers than female patrons at male strip clubs (most likely straight).

    Plus, who doesn't wanna see bouncing titties?

    • So you would feel more comfortable being around nude girls? And you would enjoy watching their boobs? If you don't mind me asking, are you bi?

    • I wouldn't be around anyone naked, especially not some skeezy strip club. But yea, I guess more comfortable with females, since we have the same parts. It'd kill my self esteem though, cuz they'd have their natural or fake perfect titties and I'll be there in my training bra :( lol Yea, boobs are sexy. I like guys and girls. So yea, but I've never been with a girl.

    • lol So you would never want to work in a strip club? But you consider yourself bi?

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  • It has nothing to do with sex in that case.

  • Male strip club would be my pick, personally. I don't gawk at bodies other than my boyfriend's, male or female, doesn't matter. Now, why's that? Because in the male strip club, the patrons are usually sexually attracted to men, not women - meaning that I wouldn't need to deal with idiots hitting on me.

    I can see how girls can feel more neutral toward nude female bodies, though.

    • Yeah I mean if i see a nude girl I dont really care. But if I see a nude guy Im either all hot and bothered or extremely grossed out depending on how he looks x3

    • @Slavanna... Interesting. You are one of the few to pick that. So basically your reason is that you would be less likely to be hit on by the customers correct? But overall you feel just as comfortable seeing either guys or girls nude?

    • Yup, I'm perfectly comfortable seeing both guys and girls nude. I mean, I think that human body is one of the most beautiful things out there.

  • She probably gets better tips from all the horny dudes and even the lesbians who go there, especially if she flirts a bit. I really don't think it's because she just wants to look at nude women.

    • I know that's one reason, but even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight?

    • I guess that's why then.

    • Okay. So let me ask, honestly would you prefer to work at the female strip club or the male one if you had to pick?

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  • Most girls are more comfortable with naked girls than naked men unless it's their partner of course but otherwise girls are our safe bet

    • And why is that? Why would you prefer to work around nude girls when you are straight?

    • Yeah I guess I don't know I feel weird around naked guys who are not my partner. And some girls might not feel as safe. And in your case a strip club. If a girl works at at female strip club she'll get more money because usually guys go there but if they work at a male strip club then most of the customers are females and they could not make as much money or sometimes the clients can start shit

    • So basically you feel uncomfortable around guys that are not your partner... but you feel completely comfortable around girls that are nude? And may not feel as safe? Wouldn't a girl feel safer working at a male club, because in a female strip club the clients are mostly men who are hitting on and interested in women, no?

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  • Women aren't afraid of being sexually coerced or pressured by women. They have a natural fear of sexual men.

    Men to be honest are the same way. They aren't afraid of women. They might feel uncomfortable if they're walking down an alley alone and a gay man cat calls them. It's not that men are homophobic or women are lesbians. It's that female sexuality is very rarely -threatening-.

    Beyond that I have to think a reasonably hot women would make far better tips in the female strip club than the male.

  • The guys at the female club will tip them more AND seeing rando naked men is awkward and uncomfortable.

    Seeing a naked chick is... meh.

    • I know that's one reason, but even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight? So you are saying you are more comfortable seeing a nude girl? Any particular reason? If you don't mind me asking are you bi or no?

    • I'm straight. I think it's more comfortable because it's non-sexual. Seeing a dude naked is kind of inherently sexual... and if it's a guy you don't want to have sex with it's just really awkward.

    • So basically for you, you would feel more comfortable seeing a girl nude because you are not looking at her in a sexual way correct? But with a guy you would feel awkward because you would be thinking of it more in a sexual way even though you wouldn't want sex with a random guy? Is that basically what you mean?

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  • tips tips tips

    • I know that's one reason, but even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight?

    • Women overall feel threatened by dicks. Makes them uncomfortable.

  • Dude, you have your answer! They're most comfortable around other nude women. It seems to me like you already know this and all you want is attention. Personally, after reading your comments, I think you're rude and that you've overstepped your boundaries.

    • How am I rude? I asked a question and as people answer I try to clarify. I KNOW women are generally more comfortable around nude women... yet women don't seem to know why!

    • It doesn't matter why! Get over it! It's not some life altering piece of info that'll kill you not to know. People like you get on my nerves. You have your stupid answer!

    • Wow. Rude people like you get on my nerves. I have a right to ask questions if I want to... if you think my questions are stupid then don't answer them! How does it effect you if I'm curious and want to know? Most of the questions on this site are stupid minor questions that aren't important... but that's what this site is for! To ask questions and discuss it! Grow up!

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  • Because we have better downstairs grooming habits and boobs

    • So you prefer to be around nude girls just because they have boobs and look better nude? Just curious, are you bi or no?

    • Well I guess men and women agree on one thing is that women have beautiful sculptured bodies men like women agree looking at a naked man is gross

  • The girls will be serving men customers so probably better tips.

    Men are generally grossed out with anything to do with men as sex objects.

    To this part:
    "but even if I ask the girls, a lot of them say they feel more comfortable being around nude girls even if they are straight?"

    Women have learned to repel men in a sense. They generally get that attention and gaze from men which can become annoying and they are just taught by society to repel a lot of male sexual advances. It's similar to why a male is much less likely to feel uncomfortable nude in front of a female doctor while women will often request a female doctor. It's really a complicated topic.

  • What's the downside of a nude female? Nuff said bro

    • For us obviously nothing. But you would think a straight girl would prefer to see the guys?

  • Have you seen naked men? we're not the most aesthetically pleasing out of the pair.

    • As a guy I understand that... but you would think for a girl who is straight and interested in guys she would prefer to see a guy?

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