Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why do guys invite you to their house and are low key about wanting to have sex with you?
julie10123 Xper 5
Why do some guys just invite you to their house, pretending they just want a convo with u? but at the same time they say they want you and, how you can go to their bedroom. (which it obvious they want sex) why can't they just straight up admit it. Do they expect girls to go there thinking they will agree to have sex all of a sudden?
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 73Maybe he wants you as a friend, maybe he wants to fuck you. Nobody knows except for him. If you wanna find out if finds you sexually attractive, then try and get his dick hard. Why are you asking us about this when we aren't there with you to understand the situation. No amount of you asking the internet can give you the truth. Feelings can't be discovered from writing, especially when the writer has only one perspective of the experience which was shared by two people.
No one should ever expect sex or be obligated to have sex. Sex is supposed to be spontaneous and in the moment dont allow anyone to cheapen the experience if you think someone is just expecting you to give it up then shut them down.
yes want to sex
A lot of women get weird if you are straight up about wanting to have sex with them, especially if she's not 110% into having sex with you.
If he came straight out and told you he would like to have sex with you how insulted would you be scale 1-10 ? He suggested so you won’t be offended trying to set the opportunity for sex. But you got your guard up and ready for anything good for you.
Cuz they're guys.
The reason is that most girls might get offended if you just say "hey come on over so I can screw you".
Cuz they hope that since ur alone then it will be bound to happen at some point.
It's just a lame seduction strategy
they are afraid to ask bc they are embarrassed
"Expect?" No. Want? Yes.
Look if you don't want to have sex with him, don't. In our perspectives, you coming over to our place just the two of us is, obviously, a sign of interest from you. So you're basically saying that you're confused by us thinking that you're showing interest. If you don't want to go over to a guy's house, cool no worries, then don't. It's your life man.
Well, one can't come and say, let's go have sex that would be quite embarrassing.
For me, I don't like inviting guests.
Because 99% of the time if you ask a girl, hey want to have sex? they're gunna take it the wrong way. Plus women like a way out. If you leave it at "want to come over?" The woman can be like "Whoah just because I came to your house doesn't mean I want to have sex" even tho they both know what it really means
Why hang out with a guy u don't plan on having sex with?
Some think it's obvious, some want to seduce you when you get there and some don't actually want it.
Some might want sex while others want to impress you either with their decorations, cleanliness, or with their cooking
Pretty much I would imagine. By the time I invite a woman to my home out side of a party or gathering, we both know why I’m inviting her. Up front, honest.
Never done it! Some guys are weird haha. 😂
I would just want to cuddle and get close and watch netflix together or something. But I would never just ask for sex straight up because it feels like it can ruin your relation and it's very weird and awkward.
I don't come over without communicating thats what I want ahead of time