Most Helpful Guys

  • Most guys don't particularly care how much experience a girl has had. But to the degree that some do, and of those, that some prefer girls with more experience, it's usually because those girls tend to be less shy about sex and also make much less of a game or a test before having it - they're more apt to be straightforward and not make it some huge big deal where the guy has to run the gauntlet before getting some.

    Again, though, most guys really don't care either way - as long as they are going to get sex themselves, that's what matters (I'm referring to just the having of sex - not the broader question of whether it's in a relationship, etc.).

  • I don't prefer one over the other. But I DO enjoy a girl who sends VERY clear signals of consent and what she likes. Experienced or not. You ask further about deferring sex? This some men will find a turn off. There's a lot of pressure on men to find and have sex with multiple partners. Men are trained to expect it of themselves, women respect it and reward it with their attentions. While inexperienced women are valued most highly by many men, perhaps most, male virgins are a dime a dozen and valued very lowly by women.

    • I prefer a virgin over a fuckboy

Most Helpful Girls

  • I feel most older men like an experienced younger woman.

    However, some do love the challenge of teaching a girl how to please a man AND those men also love to teach a girl to enjoy her body so much so that when he makes her orgasm, it is a mind blowing experience and she comes back for more coz it was incredible.

  • Generally speaking it makes total sense that people (men and women alike) would prefer a partner with at the very least more than zero experience.

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  • It sounds like the guys you know are letting their hormones control them, allowing to to perpetuate the toxic masculine role they are encouraged to fill.

    I don't care if my partner has had no previous partners or a thousand. Women aren't a sexual object for the gratification of men. They are divine beings worthy of love and respect and sex is something that can create an amazing energy between two people rather than just a physical act for self gratification.

  • If just meeting, then inexperience is hot. But if you offered me the 19 year old version of my wife tonight, I’d take my 35 year old wife instead. She does WAY more than she did back then, and is less prideful and doesn’t think she’s too good to do things I like. She is a million times better in bed now than back then.

  • I want my lady to have as little sex partners as possible...

  • Many desperate guys on GAG? also easy girls are easy.

  • I prefer inexperience. A virgin preferably. And yes, I married as a virgin.

  • Don't believe everything you read or polls you see, many guys claim they prefer someone experienced but often they say that because they think that's what everyone wants

    But there is nothing nicer than being with an inexperienced girl and the 2 of us learning how to be sexual with each other, finding out what is most sexually exciting to her and helping her develop sexual skills that will make our sexual lovemaking pleasurable beyond imagination

  • It's simply not requiring a girl to be a virgin

    • if that was the case they would have voted that they do not care

    • Guys on gag don't tend to be the normal opinion

  • ideally someone who ranges from 0-5 sexual partners before me is fine. any more then that seems like she might not be my kind of girl.

  • I actually prefer younger girls that don't have any experience. I like teaching them. I like their innocence and I like when they are submissive and obedient.

    • I'm always stuck in treat-them-like-princess mode. Always scared they'll accuse me of objectifying them or worse, assaulting them. I get to spend money and have nice conversations, but we don't end up in bed often at all.

    • Sounds like you're trying to date girls for their looks instead of who they are. Find someone you actually enjoy, not some princess you put on a pedestal. You'd be surprised at the difference. Be yourself, be genuine. Don't be an incel.

    • Their looks AND who they are. That doesn't make me immoral, women have their preferences too. And unless you sex anyone who interested in you, you're no different.

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  • Do they? I'll take an inexperienced girl! It wouldn't bother me at all!

  • I dont know if the girl I spend my time on sees me as the right guy to have sex with. I don't know I just feel like I'm jumping through hoops with these kinds of girls and they could just decide on a whim that they dont like me anymore.

  • I don't prefer that

  • People who are sexually loose prefer partners who are sexually loose - and vice versa.

    If you only get in touch with guys that are sexually loose, then your partnerchoice might simply be off.

  • I don't really care how much experience she has, and if anything I'd prefer someone with less experience

  • Experienced women are more comfortable with touching men in a way that actually feels good. Inexperienced women tend to be a bit too shy physically, and there are more games being played. You have to take more time to reassure her of things that, you just shouldn't have to reassure a woman of passed a certain age.

  • I'd prefer if she never even kissed anyone before. I know it is too much to expect, but if she has never had strong feelings for anyone else I think it would be best.

  • I prefer a woman who knows what she likes and what she wants. This is why I like a woman with some experience. There's plenty of men who think otherwise so you're fine.

  • Um... because they're hypocrites? Think about it.

  • Enough to know what she likes the most/best. So she can show me how best to please her. No single woman enjoys sex exactly like the next.

  • Some of us don't, actually.

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