Why do men cheat and still stay married to their wife?

My husband told me that he cheated on me because I wouldn’t suck you know what all the time.
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  • Because there are men who capitalize on women being attracted to married men. Your husband is a POS

  • Even more baffling to me is why the cheat down. I’ve known guys with beautiful, intelligent wives who cheated with white trash pigs.

  • Because their wife still give them a chance, and they just horny

    • I rather make passionate love with the one I'm with. Then I will only have eyes for her. How about you?

  • Cause most people are horrible pieces of shit these days, men and women alike, to varying degrees

  • Is it worth continuing the unfaithful relationship.

  • They are looking for good time, men cheat when times are tough and a relationship is rocky, they are not looking for a change or a breakup, just a good time out of frustration.

    This is a question I actually had to search and I found a lot of videos and asked various men about it because I wondered about this few months ago

  • In my parents' case it was because of me

    • They cannot blame you for that that’s not fair

    • @CA4444 They didn't divorce because of me. The cheating is on my mom, cuz she's shit in bed

  • Usually people cheat because they aren’t getting a need met that’s important to them. In this instance sucking his dick. You didn’t fulfill that so he cheated on you to get it. But stays married because he still wants that connection. He was just getting his needed fulfillment from someone else. I’ve known people who are okay with that and there marriage works because they each get their needs met that there spouse won’t do by someone else. I’m not a fan of this method but to each their own.

  • Because they are getting away with it.

    • Totally agree once I found out he said he stop cheating , I only found out about the cheating because I checked his email and it said please reset your Facebook password and he didn’t have a Facebook before. We had a huge fight and then he promised never to do it again Years later I found out that he was looking her up again but he told me he was just wanted to see how her picture and how she looked but I also saw another picture of another woman that he worked with and he said told me nothing was going on and that he was just looking at her picture, I did find out that he had also search for porn which later on he admitted he masturbated while thinking about these two women. Couple years went by again and he told me the truth he said that he was having an affair with a second person and that the reason he was looking the other woman was because he wanted to go see her and sleep with her. He also confessed to me that he thinks about affairs and he masturbates to it my life is just crazy I don’t know

    • Why have you stayed married to him?

    • I was blind and stupid

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  • cause he doesn't want you taking half his shit.

  • Some guys are sex crazed maniacs. Others will have better sex with their partners, and don't need anyone else. And some guys just are not loyal.

  • Maybe cause they still love there wife and the girl they had sex with was a fling and also the girl was a homewrecker and manipulated him. Some girls love being homewreckers and are very vindictive.

  • My guess would be it's (overall) the exact same reasons why women do the same to their husbands.

  • I hope he's an ex-husband. It's one thing to do something wrong, it's another to insult your spouse for it.

  • Why woman stay married to the husband who confess cheated her? Stupid.

    • If I would’ve known of the cheating when it happened I would’ve left him immediately but he confessed years later and I didn’t leave because of my kids and financial in economic reasons, but at this point I’m a very successful business woman and I can do whatever I need to do and I am filing for divorce as we speak. But I agree with you it’s stupid to stay and it’s stupid to say that I didn’t leave him because of my kids I think I was just afraid to be by myself.

    • That's the point "financial freedom" is more important for every woman... I m happy for you that you took harsh decision.

  • All the time, as in every day?

  • People cheat because they are trash

  • Usually for the kids…. Remaining at home for them even after the wife decides she doesn’t need to have sex anymore.

  • Some people like being in a relationship but also want to be single kinda

  • Same reason women do

    TO GET AWAY WITH IT

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