Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health When reading a lot of men’s post on here, most of them talk about raw sex.
Does it ever connect you better with the person that you’re having sex with? Or does it still not matter and it just feels good?
Why do men like raw sex, does it connect you better to that person?
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Raw sex: means without the condom. Do you guys not think about the consequences?
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12 47Because condoms dull the feeling
yeah, fluid bonding is a good connection
They do think about the consequences, but the assumption is that you'll get on some form of birth control. The pill, an IUD, dam, something. Getting a vasectomy was the best thing that ever happened to me in my entire life!
Sex with a condom is like taking a shower with a raincoat on. It completely sucks. It doesn't 'connect you better', it just FEELS way better.
Let's see, it would be like a guy trying to have sex with you but your parts are all covered over with saran wrap.
I've tried both, but the condom is just going to fall off anyway. You're better off just going with mutual masturbation, a sex doll, or best of all, actually trying to have children.
The main problem with condom's is it requires constant care to keep them from falling off, which distracts from the moment you are trying to enjoy.
It feels better to both male and female. Yes there is a more animalistic feeling/connection when going raw. For the guy there Condom will desensitize them. Plus with the condom it can cause the woman to dry out faster and cause discomfort
What's raw sex?
Why would there be any problem with it? Isn't it good to touch a girl and for her to feel him as close as possible?
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The difference is simple... you're having sex with a protective layer on your dick, so the feeling won't be natural. When it's raw its skin to skin
i only with condom. it might feel like it's a barrier in between intimacy
Of course everyone knows the consiquenses. But have you felt the difference? And what consequences are there if you trust your partner?
I’m not saying that everyone should go raw and just claim “I trusted you”. If you are having sex with anyone random. Then wear a condom. But if you are going to be loyal to your partner and have a loyal partner. Then really what need is there for a condom?
I think exchanging fluids and being directly connected in the instinctual act of coitus allows you to bond in a very close way as you both release emotions and pent energies. Also, cum type play with her is one of my bigger turn ons which is impeded by a condom.
Most girls I've found don't get nearly as into it when you have a condom, don't like the smell or taste, etc. Sometimes a condom is good especially with anal or to last longer but it's kind of frustrating to have the impediment.
I have heard a lot of people say it feels better. And I'm sure it does. But I don't think I would mind either way. If my wife wants me to wear a condom, I'll wear a condom.
It does feel more natural.
Yes it enhances the connection in a committed relationship.
Sex during menstruation is also a very intimate experience and only for a committed relationship.
I never used a condom. My wife, and after she died, any women I connected with, were on the pill. I like cumming and I really like cumming inside a vagina. If she wants to give me a blowjob I really like cumming in her mouth, especially if she swallows.
Yes it is far better. My exgfs preferred it as well.
much sexier and feels better
It feels a lot better. The only downside for me are STDs. You can prevent that by testing
I have a vasectomy for that reason.
I want the feel of skin on skin like nature intended.
the fact that it's feeling 'better' does increase the connection, it just means it feels better...
It feels much better without a condom. That said there are times a condom is absolutely necessary. When in a committed relationship where there is no risk of disease and there is birth control measures in place then raw is the much preferred method and to me it adds to the intimacy.