A recent analysis of 20 studies indicates that between 31% and 57% of women have rape fantasies. Rape was ranked as third most popular fantasy for women.
Do women actually want to be raped as long as it's by a hot guy with a big penis?
well it's kind of sick and rape is illegal and women like bad guy types and it rough
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Anonymous
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This site is filled with that.
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Anonymous
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I don't think that's true, I never had such fantasies, but that's probably because I'm always dominant in bed.
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Anonymous
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I guess the women with lowest self asteem have rape fantasies. I have them sometimes because I think that is all I will ever get. I was still molested at a younger age and it was absolutely terrible, but I don't know why I have those kinds of fantasies. I guess it's become normal and I can't always help it...
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Grkgod12
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Its amazing how so many people are interested in and turned on by force/rape, and yet are too afraid or ashamed to admit it!
GenaBaby1995
10 mo
It's common after being molested I replay it in head all the time and play it out with guys on here. Don't feel bad about thinking it, I liked it and posted about it.
Anonymous
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There's a difference between rape fantasy and rough sex The society seems to not understand the difference
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Anonymous
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No, women do not hope to be raped anymore than YOU hope for a man bigger than you to overpower you and jam his dick in your ass.
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Asker
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I don't fantasize about it though
Opinion Owner
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Women don't fantasize about realistic rape either though. They fantasize about having someone so into them they can't control it, who gives them a sexual experience full of pleasure that they can just succumb to and not feel guilty. (Because we are socialized to believe that for a woman to want and enjoy sex might mean she is bad, or a slut.) Women do not fantasize about what being raped or abused is really like.
Straightedge_Atheist
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50 Shades of Grey disagrees.
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Opinion Owner
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@Straightedge_Atheist 50 Shades of Grey (poorly) describes a consenting BDSM relationship, not rape. Dumbass.
Straightedge_Atheist
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But you women fantasize whatever it is that 50 Shades of Grey fetishes which by the way sets unrealistic standards on men.
Opinion Owner
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@Straightedge_Atheist I'm certainly not here to defend 50 Shades, but if you don't get the difference between consenting masochism/submission and rape, you have a problem, and you should probably get help for it. In the BDSM world, consent is KING. No one forces anything on someone who has not agreed to it in some way - if they do, then it isn't BDSM anymore, it's rape. No person's possible fantasy makes it ok not to seek and gain consent in your sex relations.
Straightedge_Atheist
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Where did I say 50 shades of grey is rape?
Opinion Owner
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You're commenting on a thread about rape fantasies, forgive me thinking you were on topic.
Anonymous
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I have a rape fantasy but it's me doing the "raping" not the other way around...
That gif my reaction when Doms try to hit on me :)
Asker
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What is your height and weight?
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Opinion Owner
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Doesn't really matter if you've got the right technique :) I
Asker
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What's your technique?
TatyanaTheEmpress
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CT_CD I agree with her, but why would you care about such fantasies, you said you were asexual, right? ;)
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@TatyanaTheEmpress Is it your fantasy to rape someone too?
TatyanaTheEmpress
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Yeah, if the guy is cute and shy ;)
Anonymous
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I don't think they do fantasy about being raped, but about BDSM and rough sex. Maybe a bit 50 shades of Gray style or a bit "violent" one. But it's not rape if you're consenting, enjoying and wishing for it. If they wants a hot guy with a big dick to bang them, it's not rape. I had horrible nightmares and sleeping paralysis about rape, and that wasn't fun at all. It was Mother of dragons from Game of Thrones that did it. :/ Sure she's gorgeous, but I wasn't interested.
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well it's kind of sick and rape is illegal and women like bad guy types and it rough
This site is filled with that.
I don't think that's true, I never had such fantasies, but that's probably because I'm always dominant in bed.
I guess the women with lowest self asteem have rape fantasies. I have them sometimes because I think that is all I will ever get. I was still molested at a younger age and it was absolutely terrible, but I don't know why I have those kinds of fantasies. I guess it's become normal and I can't always help it...
Its amazing how so many people are interested in and turned on by force/rape, and yet are too afraid or ashamed to admit it!
It's common after being molested I replay it in head all the time and play it out with guys on here. Don't feel bad about thinking it, I liked it and posted about it.
There's a difference between rape fantasy and rough sex
The society seems to not understand the difference
No, women do not hope to be raped anymore than YOU hope for a man bigger than you to overpower you and jam his dick in your ass.
I don't fantasize about it though
Women don't fantasize about realistic rape either though. They fantasize about having someone so into them they can't control it, who gives them a sexual experience full of pleasure that they can just succumb to and not feel guilty. (Because we are socialized to believe that for a woman to want and enjoy sex might mean she is bad, or a slut.) Women do not fantasize about what being raped or abused is really like.
50 Shades of Grey disagrees.
@Straightedge_Atheist 50 Shades of Grey (poorly) describes a consenting BDSM relationship, not rape. Dumbass.
But you women fantasize whatever it is that 50 Shades of Grey fetishes which by the way sets unrealistic standards on men.
@Straightedge_Atheist I'm certainly not here to defend 50 Shades, but if you don't get the difference between consenting masochism/submission and rape, you have a problem, and you should probably get help for it. In the BDSM world, consent is KING. No one forces anything on someone who has not agreed to it in some way - if they do, then it isn't BDSM anymore, it's rape. No person's possible fantasy makes it ok not to seek and gain consent in your sex relations.
Where did I say 50 shades of grey is rape?
You're commenting on a thread about rape fantasies, forgive me thinking you were on topic.
I have a rape fantasy but it's me doing the "raping" not the other way around...
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That gif my reaction when Doms try to hit on me :)
What is your height and weight?
Doesn't really matter if you've got the right technique :) I
What's your technique?
CT_CD I agree with her, but why would you care about such fantasies, you said you were asexual, right? ;)
@TatyanaTheEmpress Is it your fantasy to rape someone too?
Yeah, if the guy is cute and shy ;)
I don't think they do fantasy about being raped, but about BDSM and rough sex. Maybe a bit 50 shades of Gray style or a bit "violent" one. But it's not rape if you're consenting, enjoying and wishing for it. If they wants a hot guy with a big dick to bang them, it's not rape. I had horrible nightmares and sleeping paralysis about rape, and that wasn't fun at all. It was Mother of dragons from Game of Thrones that did it. :/ Sure she's gorgeous, but I wasn't interested.