Why do some men have these strange views?

I have seen some say that it's worse for men to have sex with underage girls because they have to take in the guy, as in the girl gets fucked.

Isn't just me who thinks this is an absolute travesty? That's how nature made it. I can't see that being a reason at all.
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  • Perspectives on the exact same thing can appear differently depending on gender.
    Perspectives on the exact same thing can appear differently depending on gender.

    I could write a book on this issue, and it's the basis of one off my often used realization to justify so many things. Don't worry, I'm not about to go on a rant, since a short summary is all that is needed.

    The question proposed, actually answers that very question on its own. Since the same can be seen from a male perspective as we wonder why women have such strange views.

    Men and women see things differently, and it is one of the many reasons that I find women fascinating and so interested in what they think. I often find that women can point out and provide insights into things that I miss, dismiss or find irrelevant. The fact that can generally justify it enough for me to accept it... makes a woman's perspective valuable to me.

    In truth, we are not that different from each other. However, that slight difference makes for a rather large difference in our perspectives. We really have no Idea what it would be like to have been born and raised as the other gender, and it makes us see each other's perspective as strange.

    To answer the question, I'm sure that you would think it a travesty... Simply because you can't and will never be able to see it from a males point of view. Just like I have to accept what a woman's perspective is on things, even if I have no clue why she sees things that way. I don't consider it to be a travesty, just reality.

    • This would be a great response to @thisdudehere

    • Yeah. Thought process are slightly different based on gender. In my personal experience women are pricky about slightest thing when men mostly think on a bigger picture. That's only an example of a different thought process. Anyways I think the drawing that you have provided here is the thing that's at fault here. Sometimes, society should try to represent everything vividly. If not factions would form based on different views. And that's something is not dependent of gender.

    • "Thought process are slightly different based on gender." Exactly.

  • Statutory rape is rape, irrespective of the gender of the under age victim. The "men" you've encountered - and I use the word in its broadest sense - probably think that an underage boy would "enjoy" the experience.

    Actually it just proves they have more feet than IQ points. Assuming they're double amputees.

    • Haha nice

    • Fun fact: In California, until a few years ago, the statutory rape law only referenced women (and not men) as victims. It was changed by a lawyer friend of mine who sued the state. Unfortunately, those laws are still unchanged in many other states.

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  • Ignorance, when you are too prideful and want to find everything out for yourself you will end up with someone who is unbelievably stupid.

  • They assume consequences for the victim can only be measured in physical aftermath. Mindless materialism.

  • It sounds crazy to me 😳

  • Maybe they are just seeing the physical aspects, not emotional/mental. You have to understand many of the guys on here are desperate for sex so anything sounds good to them.

  • You saw a wrong opinion is all.

    Underage is underage as consent cannot be given, thus it's a crime regardless of how it's rationalised. Just as bestiality is a crime, an animal cannot give consent. Even though some dipshits try for the "but evolution tells us we're all mammals!" line.

    No court has bought it yet.

  • A lot of men tend to hold man-hood based upon the sense of how much they get their man part wet. Also younger women have been broadcasted as an asset of success by anyone with financial value.

  • I'm not quite sure if this made sense. You're right about the nature bit. I just can't make any sense of that strange view...

    • Agree

  • I really can't understand your question.
    Actually the age of an adult being 18 years or so is based on the Success rate of delivery of a child as far as I can remember. We all know females and males feel the urge to copulate far before the 18 age mark.
    So, Biologically speaking there shouldn’t be anything wrong with that as long as both parties are ok with it.
    However, legally speaking it the ability of reasoning of underage girls is considered less than average human standard (or so) and even when both sides agree upon the act, it is considered that underage girls can easily be taken over by emotions rather than reasoning and thus is not taken as something right. (It's something like they cannot express their approval before coming to the age)

    Now what was your question again? I really didn’t get it. In my case I do feel affection towards girls starting from 15/16 years i guess (with proper physical and mental maturity). Before that I consider them as a kid and don't even look at them as someone of opposite gender.

    • Maybe It's shortly because of me not being a native English speaker. I couldn’t understand your question properly. Can you explain a little more?

    • They are saying its worse because girls get fucked. I think it's dumb

    • Umm... It's just the law of nature. What’s wrong with that? It’s not like human don't like sex. (Really I can't find any reason not to say it.) Just enjoy it together (lol, why not?)

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  • I think no matter who the gender is if their underage then the culprit should be responsible especially if their a 40-year having sex with a 15-year-old?

    • Yeah

  • It is worse for the underage girl being used. Some men are happy to have sex with anyone they can regardless of whether or not it is legal.

  • Its cuz the control. But really its exactly the same. Just control in different wayz

    • Agree

    • I have wrote my thoughts about in some comments above. Please go through it. Lol.

    • And agree with me or not that's how most men and women think currently. People are placing less importance in interpersonal relations nowadays. Don’t get angry at me for reflecting some of those thoughts, lol.

  • That homer guy on here continued to reply to my comment about how a young 19 yr old girl having sex with a 55 plus yr old man is equal to a man having sex with a young minor kid

    As in the old men can be taken advantage of because most if not all elderly men have dementia by that age and they are like children too, so the 19 yr old girl is a sexual predator for fucking the older men

    You see that's a view point for ya

    I felt he was fucking with me because on his own opinion he said anything above 18 is legal

    But then he replies on my comment with that bullshit

    So he was contradicting himself

    That's why i deleted and blocked him which is something i rarely do, because i don't accept trolling , either you are here to tell me how you really feel or you can get to steppin.

    • Hey it was actually your question where my interaction with him happened happened 19 yr old having sex with a 56 yr old Lol

    • What does this have to do with my question

    • I mean this question

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  • It isn't a competition, peadophilles are all bad

  • I don't know about other guys points of view concerning the reason why but I do know that during my sex education in high school it was usually more risky for the female than it was for the male to have sex before a certain age. I don't think it has anything to do with the vagina as you claim people have mentioned in your post. From what I've been given to understand it's because the female is the one that bears the child and as far as reproduction goes their body will not be fully developed until at least age 18. That being said if a boy under that age has sex we don't run the risk of getting pregnant. in fact regardless of our age guys don't get pregnant at all. So as far as I can deduce the age restriction is for the safety of the mother and the unborn child. Regardless of physical attractiveness and personal choice. Obviously this age seems to vary for different nations and the reasons behind it seem to very as well. So unless you happen to be a biological expert on human anatomy and reproduction I wouldn't expect any expert opinions on this forum. And before any of you cocky bastards out there get any smart alec ideas in your head, when I say a biological expert on human anatomy and reproduction I don't mean your amount of experience shoving your dick inside another person's orifices.

    • Then why are they OK with boys their age fucking them? They get fucked regardless if it's a 40 year old or 15 year old. It makes no sense

    • An older man will know what he is doing at least

    • Most people are more emotional than logical. 99% of people alive have the capability to think for themselves and make independent decisions and are capable of learning new information. However most people are not capable of checking their emotions at the door so to speak. In fact I would venture to say it's probably less than 10% of the world's population that have the ability to completely forgo emotion altogether by choice. Those that do possess this ability are usually referred to as sociopaths even though that may not always be the case. by definition a sociopath is a person that is incapable of feeling emotion, or is emotionally stunted do to a traumatic experience. That's not what I'm referring to. I'm referring to people who have so much complete and total control over their emotion that they are able to successfully suppress it completely at will and pick it back up later when they feel like it. These kinds of people are the people that will agree with you on this subject because they look at things from a complete and total logical perspective without being influenced by personal beliefs or emotions. However these types of people are few and far between so don't expect to get the majority here.

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  • I'm confused by the question. what exactly are you asking?

  • Sounds like rape talk

  • I have generally thought it's worse, but tbh Jessie I am starting to question myself, like with an experienced underage girl, and an of age guy, maybe lacks confidence in himself, perhaps it's ok for her to seduce him, or maybe an underage girl has a high sex drive and needs an experienced guy to satisfy her,,,

  • I wouldn’t say it’s any worse than the opposite

    • Agreed

    • I’d say they both are about equal

  • That’s why I like girls that are turned on as much as I am.
    She fucks me, and I fuck her

  • A view is not "strange" just because you disagree with it. Some of your problems with getting angry at people who disagree with you could probably be resolved more readily if you were to consider that opinions are generally based on experience, history, and education, and these things vary from person to person and also change over time.

    Perfect agreement would give you a very boring echo chamber that you probably would not enjoy at all. I myself would prefer to argue or discuss issues with people who disagree with me, because that gives me a chance to teach them new things, and also a chance for me to learn new things. My closest friend, for example, is a conservative, right-wing, serious Republican, and while I disagree completely with his politics, we have wonderful discussions. That would not happen if all we did was to agree with each other.

    Just a suggestion, but maybe you should try some new approaches to all of this, since what you are doing (getting really angry at people who don't agree with you and very frustrated) seems to be pushing others away, and making you very unhappy as well. There is a way to discuss even the most sensitive things that you feel the most strongly about without triggering others and evoking chaos.

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