Why do some people think women can't use men for sex?

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I met few people who think women don't use men for sex because men penetrate the woman. I think anyone who has sex is using the other person regardless the gender or age.

Create21 · Accepted Answer

It happens often. I have been used for sex before, but it was usually to get something or get back at someone. And, yes, guys can feel cheapened just like women can when they get used for sex.

MasterKS · Accepted Answer

They are fool who think so. Both can use each other.

MrOracle · Answer

I don't think many people actually believe that they can't - but some think it's such a bad idea that they don't want to admit that it's possible.

Most people are all to aware that they can, and that it happens a lot these days. Many are not happy about it - including many women and even some of the women who do it.

RoseySarah · Answer

Very true and happens very often. More the medias fault for this then anything. Women also love using Thier exs to play with

PetLover24 · Answer

Because until the last 20 years women were considered the gate keepers of sex. They were supposed to have something called self respect, standards, etc.

Not fuck any loser who said hello to them at the bar, not become a bicycle that has been with half the town, and not sleep with more men than an actual prostitute, etc.

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In today's age, however, this is what cheap more or less valueless women have become. I say valueless because they contribute little value to a relationship aside from sex but actually believe they have value when they are being USED and tossed aside like yesterday's leftover pizza by men who are taking advantage of their stupidity.

Such women actually think they're empowering themselves by sleeping around when men AND decent respectable women are LAUGHING at them. Because by their late 30s, 40s, and 50s they'll only ever end up married to some douchebag who likely cheats and/or beats the shit out of her because bluntly... no good man wants such sluts.

Lliam · Answer

I agree with you.

Women love sex, and need a man to satisfy that craving. Obviously.
I mean, men aren't the only ones with sexual desires.

Some people love sex for sex sake and don't need or even want emotional connection. With emotional connection that craving also exists, often to an even greater degree. But it's still about sexual satisfaction. Some women like to get laid... well and often.

I'm guessing that this question is referring to women who just use men and leave them. That can hurt a sincere man's feelings as much as it hurts a sincere woman who gets used and tossed away like she's nothing. It can make them wonder "What's wrong with me? Why doesn't he (or she) like me?" But it was never about connection. It was just about sex, fun, recreation, thrill, excitement, and even conquest.

But there are also people who know full well that they are being used and don't mind, because it can feel real good being used and used hard.

This song immediately popped into my head when I read your question:
Use Me - by Bill Withers

https://www.youtube.com/embed/NuYDKzky4z0

… My friends
Feel it's their appointed duty
They keep tryin' to tell me
All you want to do is use me
Ah-huh, but my answer (Ah-huh)
Yeah to all that use me stuff
… I, I, I, I
Yes, I wanna spread the news
That if it feels this good gettin' used
Oh, you just keep on usin' me
Until you use me up
Until you use me up

… My brother
Sit me right down and he talked to me
He told me
That I ought not to let you just walk on me
And I'm sure he meant well
Yeah, but when our talk was through
… I, I, I said brother if you only knew
You'd wish that you were in my shoes
You just keep on usin' me
Until you use me up
Until you use me up

… Ah-huh, sometimes
It's true you really do abuse me
Ah, you get me crowd of high class people
And then you act real rude to me
Ah-huh, but oh, baby, baby, baby, baby
When you love me I can't get enough
… Ah-huh and I wanna spread the news
That it feels this good gettin' used
Oh, you just keep on usin' me
Until you use me up
Ah, until you use me up

… Talkin' 'bout you usin' people
It all depends on what you do
It ain't too bad the way you're usin' me
'Cause I sure am usin' you to do the things that you do
Ah-huh, to do the things that you do

Drew-1990 · Answer

I agree women can definitely use men just as much as men can use them. It's cruel from both sides too because one person can be expecting more than just sex and the other is just having fun using them.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I’m not sure that anyone would think that.

lightbulb27 · Answer

they use men in all sorts of ways. because they are self centered and arrogant, uninformed?

BadApple69 · Answer

I agree with what you say... But I didn't always. I felt in my youth that sex was a man's thing and women just tolerated it. Never for the life of me thought that women enjoyed sex. Now this incorrect thought of mine was reinforced with the lady I picked to be my wife, now ex-wife. She hated sex and the the mention of it made me a sex fiend. This just played into the thoughts I had in my youth.
Thank goodness that life and the incorrect thoughts that went with it are done.

Berethor · Answer

Yea it because women are the ones who get penetrated, also women tend to be less sexual.

Billlewis · Answer

I agree wholeheartedly with your position on this subject. Also, a woman can use a guy for oral service exclusively, without ever letting him have intercourse with her. This is the manner in which I've been used by women for decades now, and I'm happier than I've ever been, although it's very humiliating... lol

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

Women use men for sex all the time. Many of us (really!) like it.

normalice · Answer

Probably because men don't get treated like they have been used when men have sex.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Because feminism.

I saw a question here about two years that all but said the woman was using the man for sex and treating him like a conquest. He was a devout Christian and wanted to wait until marriage, but she convinced him not to. You could very easily see the exasperation and sense of victory in the details. I seem to remember phrases like "I've taken a lots of virgin men before, but I've never had to work this hard".

She wanted to make the first time special "for him". No, it was for her.

Yes, women use men too. Women treat men like conquests too.

ManOnFire · Answer

I don't think most people think this, in fact I think they are very aware of it. Women most definitely use men for sex, but it's specific kinds of men they use. If she's at a bar literally looking to get picked up, she's obviously using whatever guy she goes home with just for that. If it's a guy online she's talking to and looking to hook up, she's obviously intending to use him just for sex.

But also: many women use men of low quality and low character for sex if they think he is in some way masculine. And those guys know they're being used by her but they are okay with it as well.

firenine909 · Answer

Most people don’t think women want sex in the first place

Dargil · Answer

Because the think the thirst for sex is limited to men.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I think I have been used for sex, but since I was having sex it really didn't care. you can ride me like a rented mule for all I care.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

"Using" in a positive context - I can very much agree to this.

laly520 · Answer

I see lot of men enjoying the idea of it

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