Why do women compare eating pussy to sucking dick?

[Anonymous]

If a guy says that he doesn't eat pussy women say "then don't expect to get your dick sucked" but eating pussy and sucking dick are completely different. My dick doesn't have nasty shit leaking out of it every month or get yeast infections. My dick doesn't have a smell especially if it's clean. Pussy has a smell. Even if it's clean it still has a smell. Pussy has a taste and its not something I would say tastes amazing. Besides occasional precum dick doesn't have a taste unless he ejaculates in her mouth. Clean dick should be like licking your arm. Also, women take forever to climax and your tongue can get tired. Men can get off a lot faster. Women get wet and you could drown in pussy juice. When women pee it gets all over them and they have to wipe. So if she doesn't take a shower then you're licking urine. Urine doesn't get all over my dick when I piss. You don't have to worry about getting anywhere near an asshole when sucking dick but the asshole is like an inch away from the vagina. so unless you just lick the clit you are coming pretty close to licking her ass. I think I have made valid points and women should just suck dick without expecting to get eaten out in return. You can't compare the two. I would compare sucking dick to sucking on a womans tits or something.

[Ellie-V]

Your argument is stupid an laughable. To those that hate the idea of oral on a woman because of her period... don't eat her out on her period simple. And women have the "it's just blood" attitude because we know and understand what's happening. You guys are so clueless sometimes. The blood isn't anything gross or nasty. It's out of your norm so you would act childish about something so trivial. It's just a sign that the body isn't pregnant but it's ready to have a baby. Nothing but broken down skin cells. It's a natural part of life. Periods are what brought life to this world so suck it up and stop being a little bitch about it. Anyways, genitals have a smell clean or not. Sucking a dude off can just just as messy, if that's what he he wants. If you're "drowning in pussy juice" why are you complaining? THAT"S A GOOD THING. That means she likes it. Your problem is that you don't care to please your partner because you're so focused on you. You have a problem with vaginas so much? Get a dude. Seriously. It's really not hard to find a guy. Go get one. Guys are just as hairy, but guys don't really care to shave or trim. So i say, if you are all neat, then she should be neat too. Otherwise, stop bitching about it. Also, what rock do you live under? Men pee with the same hole, women do not. As far as your "pee gets everywhere"... what? My pee doesn't go everywhere, thank you very much. It can d that, when the woman is sitting at an odd angle, but either way, you seriously need to grow up. Sucking a dick takes jaw work, so it's not exactly a cake walk. Men have natural discharge as well as women. It all taste weird. You are just a selfish little boy acting like vaginas give you cooties. Go back to kindergarten with that weak frame of mind.

[KTraxTheAgenda]

Ok so would YOU be ok putting your tongue in a vagina that has blood constantly coming out of it?

[Ellie-V]

I enjoy women sexually, so duh. Penises have crap coming outta their holes too. So there’s no big difference

[rose_lynnn]

@KTraxTheAgenda You think we bleed constantly? Yeah no, I think you should go back to the 7th grade health class because that isn't what happens

[Cloudbabe17]

@rose_lynnn y’all don’t bleed and we don’t bleed all the time. It’s a bit ridiculous to say guys should get bjs and girls shouldn’t expect anything back bc we have vaginas? If a girl posted this saying guys shouldn’t get bjs or not expect on in return bc they are hairy, sweaty, and pre cum tastes nasty, this dude would have a seizure. Smh. Too immature to be grateful for the female body. He shouldn’t be having sex in this case. Or get a dude.

[Philyouup]

the dude that posted this question is certainly misogynistic

[SexyStudent]

I guess you are the expert and I have no comeback to your expertise.. You definitely win and your selfishness rides above all else in absolute authority. What you have described is probably the worst attitude coming from a guy that I have heard ever since I've been sexually active. Basically what you are saying is that you want to receive and not have to give an inch. A freshly washed female is just as nice as a freshly washed guy. It is all in your mind. If I were you I would speak to other guys if only to see how in the minority you are.. Turning on a girl by licking her clitoris until she reaches orgasm is the most loving thing you can do. If you choose not to then you will wind up with a girl who has the attitude of Cinderella before her prince arrives. If you are only with women who smell and that is reflected by their poor hygiene then I suggest you start dating a higher class of women. I keep wondering if you are a set up or a BS artist.

[Asker]

I'm glad you realize I'm the expert

[SexyStudent]

Sir, your expertise could set back male-female relationships by I would say 25 years. Your ignorant attitude is a reflection of an ignorant upbringing.. And the lack of education

[Asker]

Wtf. All because of not eating pussy?

[SexyStudent]

Because your attitude is a reflection of lack of education. Go ahead and mark your territory like a deer urinating around trees. I doubt your reading comprehension or your IQ poses a threat to clear thinking people.

[Asker]

I drink water with my penis

[SexyStudent]

Again people take a listen to this answer and remember people like that are allowed to drive cars and spout their supposedly wisdom. And you wonder why the country is all screwed up

[Asker]

GO AMERICA!!! LET'S GO TRUMP!!!

[SexyStudent]

But watch where you're going

[jurgenmeister]

LOL good answer

[wildcatfan52]

LOL. Sarcasm. Are you even smart enough to understand It? I hope if you do have a woman she will get wise and leave your ass. A sick is one of the nastiest things on a body. But good luck to you. EXPERT!!!

[Darkfairie17]

Hahaha, I'm sorry but everything you said about a vagina could be equated to a penis.

Penis's can have a smell, and there are other discharges other than semen. Sometimes a guy doesn't taste very nice and sometimes people are not very clean down there regardless of gender.

Eating a girl out is the equivalent of giving someone a blow job. It's just a bit different because the mechanics of the genitalia is different. But it's basically the same idea. You do whatever to please the person.

You don't think women don't get tired? Sometimes it takes a guy a while to climax, sometimes longer than a woman. It really depends on the mood he's in and what's going on.

[Asker]

Lies. All lies

[Cloudbabe17]

Not lies. My boyfriend goes down on me all the time not expecting anything back and he’s happy to do it to see me happy. He gets really turned on by it. If you won’t go down on a girl and think her parts are grossed compared to hairy, sweaty, secreting man junk, then you obviously don’t need to be having sex at all. Get educated. I guarantee you most girls won’t be chill with your “blowjobs for me for days” and nada for her. That’s honestly sorta sad and a bit pathetic on ur part. Not to mention selfish.

[Supergirl0812]

1) dick does have a taste! All the time
2) dick does have a smell, all the time, clean or not clean
3) guys can also get yeast infections and other infections

I don't know what part of her you are eating but I usually just need my clit licked which is not where my hole is so he doesn't get wet at all, the actual hole doesn't have the nerve endings that my clit has so if he's does that way then he has no idea what he's doing.

We have a different hole for urine, while guys use the same hole... Which I think is worse.

There are the same thing, eating pussy and sucking dick are the same

[Asker]

******They're not the same thing, eating pussy and sucking dick are different.*** Fixed your mistakes. You're welcome.

[Supergirl0812]

Same thing! I stand with what I said.. No licking means no sucking :)

[Asker]

What a selfish person you are.

[WpCurious]

I don't think she is selfish, you are selfish. Sex is about giving and receiving. You can't expect a girl to suck you off if you are not willing to do something that will give her the same amount of pleasure. If you are having sex just to please yourself, I will not be surprised if girls are going around saying that you are not that great. This could ruin your reputation. Sometimes you have to sacrifice a bit in order to get the full experience. Some girls are very into sucking a guy of, and others are not, but they do it anyway to please their man. You have to stray from your selfish ways otherwise you'll have one boring ass sex life.

[Asker]

@WpCurious I could finger her.

[Asker]

👆🏻

[ak666]

I somewhat agree that maybe it's not a perfectly fair kind of thing. I've always been a bit sensitive to this kind of stuff, can go down on a girl time and time again but it helps if she's shaved and kind of keeps things very clean down there.

As a kind of gross story, first time I had sex and lost my virginity was with a girl who just came out of the bathroom, did #2. I could smell that going down the whole time, tried to be a champion anyway, but it kind of wrecked the whole intercourse that followed.

Depending on how much you're into the woman and how fresh and clean and trim she is down there and around the anus, it can be a bit off-putting. I don't always enjoy the experience, I do if she's very clean and trim and I'm really into her.

This is kind of stuff people don't talk about so much, but I've always been smell sensitive this way. If a girl can sit on my face and I don't smell anything horrid, that already heightens her attractiveness to me by like 3 points.

That said, about expecting free blowjobs, I think that's not quite fair. Plus it's about satisfying each other. Maybe a woman takes a bit more effort to satisfy, but ideally we enjoy the fact that she's enjoying it. That part I always enjoyed, if the woman is into it, even if I'm kind of put off by an odor.

[Asker]

did she just wipe or take a shower?

[ak666]

Also, this is probably a horrible confession, but one of the reasons I always slept with girls rather quickly after dating was to check how they smell down there. That's not the sole reason, but my idea of whether a girl is attractive inside a bedroom is at least 50% smell-oriented, and I can't find that part out until we sleep together.

[ak666]

Just got out of the toilet and then was ready to have sex.

[Likes2drive]

I'm the same way as you about it exactly, you always give really good well thought out answers

[Joc4Position]

Ewww. Heck no bro. If I smelt that it would be over. Nah no "champion" stuff for me hahahaha.

[MikeKane]

Maybe you are actually gay and should suck dick then? You obviously seem like you don't like vaginas and would much rather suck Dick because it doesn't "taste bad" leave the girls for the men who don't mind giving their tongue a work out.

[Joc4Position]

This guy.

[Asker]

Lol at all the girls that liked it

[RonnyDonny]

I really like your answer! So glad to know that I don't need to loose hope about men

[dorfmann]

*lose

[Me1333]

I agree completely but I’d say if a man really loves a girl and they’re married and she’s always giving him oral and she takes a good shower, isn’t on her period, and she’ likes to have oral he’d probably be willing to give it at least for a couple minutes or so just cuz he loves her and if she enjoys that kinda thing he wants to see her pleased but I do see what you mean completely!

[jackmcmillin83]

Ugh everyone be careful with oral sex. Definitely use an antibacterial penis health creme after your shower to make sure you got all of the odor and infection-causing bacteria down there.. this is the best way to keep things extra hygienic. Do this and you will be all set... so google them.

[PsycheAndEros]

I actually completely agree with you here xD vaginas can be gross even if you shower right before they still have that weird pussy smell. I love giving my boyfriend head and never expect anything in return. Might just be me though.

[MaskedSanity]

"women should just suck dick without expecting to get eaten out in return"

Makes sure to tell your dates that, they'll totally agree with you.😂

[Joc4Position]

Females do suck dick without expecting to get ate out though.

[MaskedSanity]

@Joc4Position If some women want to cut themselves short, that's their business. However, it's the selfish attitude in that quote that would bother most.

[Joc4Position]

I don't think it's cutting themselves short though. Now attitude is attitude. For what it's worth.

[MaskedSanity]

@Joc4Position It's pretty straight forward: out of two parties only one is getting oral. Whatever feelings you may have about female genitalia doesn't change that fact.

[Joc4Position]

Not doing the same exact things doesn't necessarily equate to cutting yourself short. People value different things more or less than others. It's not the same. You should understand that.

[MaskedSanity]

@Joc4Position People valuing different things doesn't change the fact that non-reciprocation is considered selfish. You should understand that.

[Joc4Position]

No. It's considered selfish to you because you value reciprocated actions during sex. Some people don't and they have every right not to.

[MaskedSanity]

@Joc4Position Most people value reciprocation, that's pretty much the basis for all human interaction. And nobody ever said you don't have the right not to value it, bruh. People considering you selfish for non-reciprocation do not impose on any of your rights, lol.

[Joc4Position]

No not really. In my personal experience and from what others have told me they don't value reciprocation during sex always. Are there people who do? Yes. Are there people who don't? Yes. What do you mean me? I didn't say I don't reciprocate or never have. People can consider it selfish just like people can say they don't care and don't think it's selfish.

[MaskedSanity]

@Joc4Position Your persistence in challenging every opinion that points out the selfishness of asker's position with "some women give oral without expecting it back" paints a different picture.

[Joc4Position]

Well his attitude is his attitude.. which if you'd read I stated that.

[selmo93]

Piss still comes out the penis. Mens hygienes generally worse. Its still genitals. Men also have balls that they scratch all the time which is passing germs. Men are generally hairier. Which also stores germs. Our mouths get tired aswell as its using jaw muscles. Guys choke you or push your head down to choke you whereas you won't on a girl. Men can get urine infections and not every girl has them. Cum tastes vile.. and you won't 'drown in pussy juice' as half the time men dont even know what theyre doing down there so you have to fake it. And also they have the same senses down there as a guy gets on his penis so its fair that way.

[Asker]

Women are just as hairy down there. He doesn't have to cum in your mouth. I know piss comes out of the penis but it does get all over my penis when I piss. If guys don't know what they're doing and you have to fake it then why even get him to do it. Just suck his dick. I'm pretty sure women get infections down there more often than men do.

[Asker]

*doesnt get all over my penis

[selmo93]

Women are more likely to shave than men. Neither do women have to cum and i dont know many who do from that anyway. piss comes out of a different hole for women anyway and men hardly wash their hands again spreading infection and germs. On top of they just tap it not wipe. And you can't say men dont as I've been with plenty to see for myself. Im not sucking a guys dick whose that self righteous and lazy. That and half the time theyre sweaty so smell weird or you get hair in your mouth and clearly your around the wrong women then.

[Ghosted]

cuz the clit is homologous to the penis. it is the most comparable as u can get. and ur in denial about dicks being so pristine lol if u dont go down, thats ur business. but dont try to justify it as not being comparable and dont compare it to sucking tits cuz u got nipples too and no nipples eject urine.

[Hidden_P]

1. Dicks can have "nasty shit" leaking out. It could be an STI, urine or even cum.
2. Dicks do have a smell.
3. Dicks and cum have a taste and I wouldn't say it tastes amazing.
4. Depends on the woman and the technique. If you're having issues, maybe the problem is you.
5. Urine doesn't go everywhere? Beg to differ when you get a dribble.
6. Wow, so when you're licking his balls you're miles away from his asshole? No you're not.

I think I've made valid counter arguments, but just to be sure, the reason the two are compared is because they have something in common.

They are both called GENITALS. Crazy shit I know! It's in the DICKtionary and everything.

[Joc4Position]

1. What is this nasty shit you speak of? Cum and urine okay, but what else? I'm curious, but I don't think I should be lol. 2. Genitals can smell. End of story. 3. Depends on the guy's diet, but the same could be said for some vaginas too I imagine. Some females don't swallow. That should be noted. 4. Or it's her? 5. Last time I was pissing everywhere was when I was a little boy. Men have something to aim with. Just saying. Females it just comes out basically. 6. LOL the asker thought that? XD

[Joc4Position]

Dicktionary. Ha. You're an interesting person.

[Asker]

@Joc4Position I didn't say licking balls

[Asker]

That was supposed to be for Hidden_P

[Hidden_P]

@Joc4Position 1. Well I'm no expert but I'm sure you can have pus, blood, discharge, etc. Just the same as a girl. 2. Agreed. 3. Agreed. 4. Swings and roundabouts. 5. Happens when you're drunk, or ill. Yes, you have aim, but aim comes with it's downsides. Pissed with an erection recently? 6. No the asker said if you are licking a cock you're miles away from an asshole, because apparently the asker believes as part of his fantasy he's hung like an elephant. But, I'd like to point out whether the girl is deep throating or, as I said, licking balls (which is a common thing for girls to do), we are probably closer to the asshole than a guy with a pussy. And the asker clearly doesn't have the intelligence, or willpower, or has realised his argument isn't structurally sound to give any back up to his original points.

[Joc4Position]

1. Uh no. I've never had pus or blood come out my dick. Ever. That's a rare case. In a woman's case though? If she isn't bleeding every so often then that's not normal. So no. Not the same. 2. Okay. 3. Okay. 4. Ooooookaaaay. 5. Nope. I've never took a drink a day in my life. Are guys like me still guys? Or do we not count because we don't drink? I've been ill and still hit the toilet. You like talking about rare cases huh? My dick is big and I'm a shower so naturally I have to aim with a solid penis. Try again. 6. I say it's about the same.

[Asker]

👃🏻 👆🏻

[Hidden_P]

@Joc4Position, I never said that my examples were specific to you. I do not know anything about you, nor really want to. The asker made a sweeping generalising set of statements. I responded with my own. And now I'm being criticised because I had the balls to call him out on it and your responding by saying I'm not including your life story? You know that's not how this site works. I'm very sorry that I don't know your entire personal life and can reference it for you. At least myself and you have the balls to post without hiding who we are.

[Joc4Position]

Yeah that's true. He is generalizing.

[Joc4Position]

I see your point.

[Joc4Position]

Sorry.

[AzureGirl]

Cool story. It's still oral sex. So if you don't want to give then don't expect to receive.

[Asker]

Eat my ass. It's still oral sex.

[Joc4Position]

LMAO!!! Perfect response by the Asker.

[AzureGirl]

Only if you're prepared to do the same

[Asker]

I don't think I'm flexible enough to eat my ass.

[AzureGirl]

Gotta do the same to your partner

[AzureGirl]

What I said was pretty obvious

[Asker]

I know plenty of girls who will let a guy eat their ass but they will not eat ass.

[AzureGirl]

And there are plenty of guys who like eating girls out with no complaints. But it's only fair to return the favor

[Missandei8869]

you should suck a dick then

[NeerajBagat18]

Did you had any

[NeerajBagat18]

Dick sucked

[GirlOfApathy25]

Then why don't you hook up with a guy? I'm sure plenty of them will accept your dick.

[Bum22]

Bullshit, after getting pubes inbetween my teeth, and smelling piss and balls, TASTING piss and who knows what else. Dicks can be and are dirtier than pussy. My vagina and labia are always clean thankyou everymuch.

[reea23]

It stupidity max level. It like give me then you can get. If you don't have to suck vegina then it okay to say because some woman also say I don't like to suck a penis.

[Paige90]

Stupidity level and you can't even spell "vagina" or write a sentence correctly?

[BigGuy8]

The vagina is self cleaning, unlike your penis. If you don't like vagina, you're probably just gay. I love eating pussy. It's fun and I'm very good at it. I've had women who will not suck cock if there's no reciprocation. It's only fair. If you expect to get oral, you should give it. If not, you're selfish and don't deserve a blowjob in the first place. That's a misogynistic sense of entitlement you have not earned.

[neilsmart]

i agree with you - i think girls should be submissive anyway and please the guy, so i would never expect him to do that. he makes me suck several times a week cos he's dominant and thats how it should be

[TrainwreckAdvice]

Dude, just say no haha I know chicks who think like you do so just be open about how you feel.

[CompleteStranger1234]

But would you expect him to get any without giving?

[Tschil200]

I think you might be wrong on some points one point is the Dick and the Pussy are not easy in oral sex, pussy is pure licking with occasional sucking of the clitorois and labia, the dick is an actual muscle if the mouth is on it you are expanding the jaw and possibly the throat if your big enough, also uncircumcised men have the same issues with maintaining hygiene, we might not have periods but our underwear and when we intimate and or masturbate causing smells and disshaping of our penises, the vagina is cleaning with washing or wiping in the restroom and often women use PH balance washes to perfect a great taste. Also there is nothing wrong with the asshole being close because a woman would be smart enough to keep it clean and there is nothing wrong with licking it if you are man enough to do so, not mention most men are very cautious if the balls are sucked or licked considering the sensitivity of it as an outer organ and requires a lot of trust. So yeah I would say a man shouldn’t compare the two because it is easier to eat pussy than suck dick, my advice grow the fuck up or you won’t be getting that top choice

[HersheysBabe]

You know you're in the minority, right? 😅 Most guys love eating pussy and some even prefer giving over receiving 😄 Good luck in your dating life 😁 With this attitude, you'll need it ✌🏽

[Joc4Position]

No that's not true. Most guys don't prefer eating pussy more than getting a BJ.

[dovido]

@Joc4Position U both are right.. But I don't agree with ur opinion of course iI lovelove receiving more but I'm more than willing to go down on a girl I like. I love seeing her getting pleasure and satisfy her. That's love man!

[HersheysBabe]

@Joc4Position Tell that to my 2 ex boyfriends who couldn't get enough of my pussy 😂 They were almost obsessed with giving me oral 🙈 Maybe I'm just a lucky girl 😋

[Joc4Position]

Maybe you just have a pussy that taste like Hershey chocolate?

[HersheysBabe]

@Joc4Position Hahaha dude 😅 You're right, that has to be it 😎😂

[Joc4Position]

See I know these things 👍😁😉

[sweetlivy]

I would personally love to give pleasure to my man, he's the best boyfriend in the world. And he would give me pleasure in return. It's only fair. <3

[AleDeEurope]

It is what it is, just suck it up. What are you gonna do, not give her the pleasure she's giving you?
You decided to be with a woman, you gotta deal with what being with a woman means, if not, you can change the woman for a man, and you can both suck dick and live happily ever after.

[Joc4Position]

I've never HAD to eat a female out. Ever.

[Joc4Position]

And they'd still give me a BJ.

[AleDeEurope]

@Joc4Position It doesn't mean you're doing the right thing. Most girls have this idea that they must give a guy a bj, but they don't have to get eaten out, that's why there are many women that are sexually frustrated, cause she's not getting off.

[Joc4Position]

There's really no right or wrong to it. Honestly I can't climax through anything the female does. BJ, handjob, penetration. All of it feels good, but doesn't make me cum. So is she wrong or right or what if she doesn't do some of these things? The truth is that yeah some females like to orgasm and helping her get there can be nice, but that's not what sex is about really. Sex isn't about me getting an orgasm, because if it was I wouldn't need the female. Same with some females. If it's about them getting an orgasm some don't need men. All they need is a vibrator.

[AleDeEurope]

@Joc4Position Yeah, but they're trying to give you a good time, while you aren't doing the same for them.

[Joc4Position]

And that's the point. To give each other a good time. That doesn't mean make each other climax.

[Joc4Position]

While I'm not doing the same for them? What are you talking about? Like I said I often times can't get an orgasm from penetration, but the female enjoys me penetrating her. How that's not giving her a good time is beyond me. Especially after the girl literally says she had a great time. Lol.

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

Guys get yeast infections too homie. Dick and balls smell, just to let you know it smells very musty if you haven't washed for a few hours, . cum comes out the same hole you pee. I don't get wet from my urethra like you, girls wipe most of you shake. and vagina bacteria is actually healthy and being used for future meds can't say the same for penis bacteria,

[Joc4Position]

Yeah but women are more at risk of a yeast infection. Bodies in general during sex smell musty. Vagina bacteria can be healthy, but if there's an imbalance that's not healthy and very harmful. Not to mention vaginas are more susceptible to outside stimuli than penises. Great thing y'all wipe y'all's vaginas. Also, there's the menstruation cycle and that is far more gross than pee ever will be.

[Joc4Position]

Also, both genders have good and bad bacteria. Just not when it comes to genitals entirely.

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

@Joc4Position.. When the girl is in on her period her vagina cleanse itself. That is literally what it is doing, it self cleanses. But i mean there are transgender women you can look into if you are flexible with your sexuality

[Joc4Position]

Yeah but that "cleanse" stuff is coming out lol. That's the point. The stuff that's coming out is inside there. Blood, eggs, bacteria, dead cells, etc. But I mean I've ate pussy before and fucked while a female just started her period (wasn't too happy about it, but ehh). Maybe you should look into being a lesbian?

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

@Joc4Position hmmm, vagina isn't my thing.

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

@Joc4Position and literally sometimes periods are in unpredictable

[Joc4Position]

She knew it might would start that day, but she had a reason. It was just a little blood. It wasn't that bad.

[GingerGuy]

You make some valid points. I think dicks smells to though like a vagina, even clean. Everyone has a natural body odour. We can say the same back to them though, don't expect if you aren't willing.