Some guys find it hot, and others don't. Personally, I would murder anyone who touched my girl, but it's a surprisingly common fetish among a lot of guys.
Unfortunately, what many of them don't realize is that it can very easily destroy a relationship. Some guys view it as "living porn"; they think it's hot to watch their girl getting fucked, but they'll change their mind, once it starts.
Some guys can handle seeing their girl with another guy, and some can't, even if they think they can. It brings up all sorts of jealous emotions, that they didn't realize they had.
I've been a "bull" before (a guy that's invited to fuck someone's wife), and it doesn't always work out the way the guy expects.
Ok, everyone has their niche... some guys like to watch their woman be fucked by another guy. Third person perspective I guess... like porn but without the screen and an "I know that girl" mindset.
some girls want their guy to fuck another girl, just so they can brag about what that girl is missing out on... blah blah blah.
everyone has their thing. The thing is... if thats what he wants... let him have it. At the end of the day... he is still YOUR man. Do you want to make him happy or not?
If that is not your thing... leave.
thanks for mh :)
As a woman, I have no idea why that turns them on. But it does. I don't do anything I'm not comfortable with. Period. If it was a problem for him, then I would move on.
The woman who understands a guys way of thinking, has yet to be born! .. Please do not, or become engaged in, doing anything at all that makes you feel uncomfortable.
It's not an uncommon fantasy, but one that for most people, should be left in their fantasy world, and not enter into real life.
^^ remember, asker, this is the same woman who comes onto every porn thread and checks in with "I <3 MMF porn". And SHE's tellin ya this. Consider.
@redeyemindtricks calm your tits catfish. I do say that WHEN I do watch porn, that's the kind that I prefer. I also say that its JUST FANTASY - which is what I just told the @Asker. It's a common fantasy, and one that should usually be kept JUST fantasy. Stalk much?
Nah I just remember you writing that a couple times.
My suggestion is, don't do it. Instead, work on having better sex with him.
do you think he thinks our sex is bad? :(
I think he's disgusting and mentally ill. No sane man enjoys watching his girlfriend get fucked by someone else. Thats fucking disgusting
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!some guys really like, and I mean REALLY LIKE watching their girlfriend/wife have sex with other guys.
As for why, I can't explain it. Because I don't get it. Not my thing at all.
Because he is one if the worse kinds of beta male, and your virginity was wasted on him.
He likes watching.
I would've dumped him big time.
yeah he's got issues
anyone to tell me otherwise can suck their own dick
what do you mean by "issues"?
im aware of the fetish, but seriously, fools should realize it's really not cool or a good idea to watch the girl you like, possibly love, getting rammed by someone else. like just picture that whole scenario, its on the pinnacles of fucking patheticsville.
You mean Fucked Up issues
He's just a submissive cuckold!
It's quite simple really: He's a pussy, and likes to see other men dominate him by having sex with his girl. It's a deprevation and submissive fetish.
Is it really that weird? I feel bad for asking this question now :/ But he's so dominate with me though.
Some guys have that fetish, I'd say not a majority, but it's just a fantasy for him. The question is, do you think you could oblige? If not then let him know in a way that doesn't make him feel messed up for being open enough to ask you.
Tell him you're gonna find the most hung guy you can to do it, see if that changes his mind, lol.
Thats what he wants to see! He particularly wants to see a black guy fuck me. I don't get where this comes from. He is not small either! He is big as well!!
Oh shit, then never mind. I don't get guys that are into it, personally.
Me + 2 girls, that I would get into!
Punch him in the face and move ahead.
Ditch him and tell him to get counseling.
Some guys have that fetish. Ge likes to see you getting pleasure from different perspectives... yes it seems weird, but we are complex creatures :p
The thing is... are you into that?
You should not do it unless you want it
Do you mean hot as volcano?
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Kick his bony ass out of your life.
he might be bi-curious
because there's something wrong with him.
Some guys like this... most don't...
It sounds like her does, and hey if you are open to it why not? You would get to experience other guys, but it might be weird with him watching.
Also, it might tear you guys apart, but also could bring you closer together. You really just have to talk about every possible situation and feel for yourself if you think it is right.
Some guys get turned on by that.
My husband and I did an MMF and we had a LOT of fun. (Especially me.)
its a fantasy... not all guys would want it,,, but some do enjoy
i would never like it...
you can always opt out n share how you feel to your boyfriend
Each & every guy has different fetish. You boyfriend has one different fetush like this.
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