Why does my boyfriend want to watch another guy fuck me?

My boyfriend is my first. I was a virgin before him. Recently, he has asked about the idea of a MMF threesome or even cuckolding. Is the reasomn he wants this because I have only had sex with him? He just left it at "watching anouther guy fuck you would be hot". what does this mean? Do guys actually like that idea? As a girl, I'd never want to watch him fuck another girl!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Some guys find it hot, and others don't. Personally, I would murder anyone who touched my girl, but it's a surprisingly common fetish among a lot of guys.

    Unfortunately, what many of them don't realize is that it can very easily destroy a relationship. Some guys view it as "living porn"; they think it's hot to watch their girl getting fucked, but they'll change their mind, once it starts.

    Some guys can handle seeing their girl with another guy, and some can't, even if they think they can. It brings up all sorts of jealous emotions, that they didn't realize they had.

    I've been a "bull" before (a guy that's invited to fuck someone's wife), and it doesn't always work out the way the guy expects.

  • Ok, everyone has their niche... some guys like to watch their woman be fucked by another guy. Third person perspective I guess... like porn but without the screen and an "I know that girl" mindset.
    some girls want their guy to fuck another girl, just so they can brag about what that girl is missing out on... blah blah blah.
    everyone has their thing. The thing is... if thats what he wants... let him have it. At the end of the day... he is still YOUR man. Do you want to make him happy or not?
    If that is not your thing... leave.

    • thanks for mh :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • As a woman, I have no idea why that turns them on. But it does. I don't do anything I'm not comfortable with. Period. If it was a problem for him, then I would move on.

  • The woman who understands a guys way of thinking, has yet to be born! .. Please do not, or become engaged in, doing anything at all that makes you feel uncomfortable.

  • It's not an uncommon fantasy, but one that for most people, should be left in their fantasy world, and not enter into real life.

    • ^^ remember, asker, this is the same woman who comes onto every porn thread and checks in with "I <3 MMF porn". And SHE's tellin ya this. Consider.

    • @redeyemindtricks calm your tits catfish. I do say that WHEN I do watch porn, that's the kind that I prefer. I also say that its JUST FANTASY - which is what I just told the @Asker. It's a common fantasy, and one that should usually be kept JUST fantasy. Stalk much?

    • Nah I just remember you writing that a couple times.

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  • My suggestion is, don't do it. Instead, work on having better sex with him.

    • do you think he thinks our sex is bad? :(

    • I think he's disgusting and mentally ill. No sane man enjoys watching his girlfriend get fucked by someone else. Thats fucking disgusting

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  • some guys really like, and I mean REALLY LIKE watching their girlfriend/wife have sex with other guys.
    As for why, I can't explain it. Because I don't get it. Not my thing at all.

  • Because he is one if the worse kinds of beta male, and your virginity was wasted on him.

  • He likes watching.

  • I would've dumped him big time.

  • yeah he's got issues

    anyone to tell me otherwise can suck their own dick

    • what do you mean by "issues"?

    • im aware of the fetish, but seriously, fools should realize it's really not cool or a good idea to watch the girl you like, possibly love, getting rammed by someone else. like just picture that whole scenario, its on the pinnacles of fucking patheticsville.

    • You mean Fucked Up issues

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