Why does sex have to finish when the guy cums?

Real life isn't porn... Most of you are selfish for this reason, and if she cums, well, that was just luck.
Why does sex have to finish when the guy cums?
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  • Because he'll have to go through a refractory period before Round 2.

  • You haven't met the right guy then. A caring non-selfish guy will take care of you even if he already finished.

    • I talk in general really.

  • I dont think it should unless the girl has had enough and is satisfied with what her male partner has done.

    After I cum, I wanna keep playing with the girls boobs and rubbing her pussy, because I wanna see if she still has energy to go 1 more round. Then if not I like to cuddle and talk about it, ask her if she enjoyed it or what could we have done differently or better. I always like feedback as I makes me a better lover.

  • It's not selfish that a dick goes limp after nutting cause we can not change that willfully. It's just the biology of it.

  • Well, after the guy cums, his penis gets soft again. If she doesn’t want it to be over, she has to get his penis hard again or they can cuddle and get all tangled up in skin!

  • You're with the wrong guys if that's your experience.

  • My question is who the fuck stops? I enjoy hearing her moan as she cumming.

  • After a guy cums, there’s no more desire for sex

  • Their job is done?

  • Me and my friends with benefits usually keep going. I can cum 2-3 time's if it all goes well. If not , I'll go back to eating her out or something anyway.

  • Normally, after ejaculation, many of us not only lose interest in sex for a few minutes or so, but the simple idea of it is a turn-off. Also, sometimes (but not always), it actually physically hurts to keep going after we're done.
    That's why the best advice I can give for those kinds of men (which includes me) is to in general try to take care of HER first. Make sure that you can both get the physical pleasure of an orgasm without having to keep going when you've reached the point where you're not able to.

  • It's not necessarily true. If a man cums, he loses interest, but sex can still go on without penetration of course. Sex is more than only penetration. Pleasure the woman, foreplay, afterplay etc.

  • It doesn't have to finish. But it will probably pause for an intermission.

  • Because I fall asleep, which is why I hold off on getting off myself.

  • I’m virgin, but guessing I’d want her have the first orgasm.

  • That's why guys should use oral to bring her to an orgasm first. Or if he does cum without her, then oral afterwards on her

    • For real though

    • Well I do hope you find the guy out there who will do that for you. Seems like a no brainer concept, but guys are dumb

    • I have disappointed on the last but oh well

  • That's what a gentelman does

    • Not*

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  • Well, once a guy cums he generally loses his erection so penetrative sex is not possible. For me if I came before the lady I would finish her off with my mouth then when I do become hard again I find I can last longer.

  • Guys lose interest right after cumming, there is still oral and toys though, if the lady needs more,,,
    At my age I need a bit of a rest right cumming, before starting again, although it takes a few hours to get hard again these days,,,

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