Why is it ok for men to do wrong but if women cheat or sleep around she is a slut?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Men can be sluts as well , but the term that is usually used for a man is a Man whore or player or fuck boy etc. so men can be sluts as well , It’s just based off of how you represent and carry yourself and your reputation, If a man or woman is having sex with multiple people , 1 after another then they are both considered sluts , it mainly comes down to fucking with people’s hearts and misleading people , some people choose the fact of being a slut , they love sex so much that they don’t care what others think, so they call themselves sluts and proud of it , Most people look at those type of people as being dirty and unsafe because of STD’s , and most people don’t like the fact that someone has got around a lot , if you are dating someone and you find out they had sex with a bunch of random people they look at you as a slut , it’s just the way it goes and how society labels each other.

Andres77 · Accepted Answer

Says who?
In court the dude is crucified.
I've got a buddy, faithful.
His wife was fking around for months. This is what the lawyer said:
"She could be the gangbang queen. You're not going to get your kids in this state."
If you want to be a pig/dog (guys) or a slut/whore... do it. Enjoy it. Get all you can. But when you meet someone who wants to be with you... either commit or tell them no.
If you commit, stop fucking around.
If you just want more cock/pussy then stay single.
Don't destroy the self-esteem of someone you "say" that you love just because you're a selfish prick.

HotPinkDominatrxSlut · Accepted Answer

I'm a dominatrix and a total slut ( a black cock loving blonde blue eyed white slut that is) and very damn proud of it! I take being called a slut as a compliment.

Markm3212 · Answer

it comes down to the chase.

women are considered sluts because, if they want sex they can just ask most guys and we will oblige (we have no morals lol)

man on the other had have to chat women up, play the game, woo them to get the final result (Sex). hence why when a guy does succeed he is considered a hero, a Man etc but when a woman does this she is considered a slut

not saying that its right but generally this is the case

Rob70 · Answer

Personally I don't feel it's ok for either sex. There are a lot of STD's that can take awhile to notice. I would not want to have to try contacting several people to tell them they might want to see a DR

Shizunk · Answer

It is not ok for men to sleep around either. Let alone cheat. That is the one thing I never understood people saying in the more traditional/conservative corner. What the hell? Why would we enable bad habits in men?
And especially if a man makes someone pregnant and refuses to stay with that woman for almost any reason, he is a piece of shit and will never be allowed to be my friend if I find out.

HighValue · Answer

It is not okay for either gender to cheat or sleep around. Just avoid anyone that has done hook ups/ONS/friends with benefits in their past.

billmunch · Answer

It's a huge turn on for me. I pretty much have to hound my SO to have sex with other men.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It isn't okay at all. However, the guys who do think it's okay justify it by saying that men are cheating for physical pleasure reasons, not emotional loyalty.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

It's not. Thats not something most people think, most people think it's not ok for anyone to do that.

Medhat-M · Answer

Men are less likely to have standards and women are more likely to have standards... Blame all the shitty guys that influenced this...

Iron_Man · Answer

Probably double standards for a man it’s like a trophy alright you scored congratulations another notch and a man’s belt but for a woman it’s like you dirty filthy whore How could you you are a disgrace