Women do all the work during sex. Feeling resentful, help please?
As in, I have to initiate, I have to dress up, I give him blowjobs, I have to seduce, I have to fuck him even if I'm not wet. What does he do? Play games on his phone and I'm suppose to be turned on by that.
I told him multiple times that I want him to make some effort as well. He always responds with it's not the guys' job, guys don't do stuff like that. It's up to the girl.
But that can't be true can it? I'm growing more and more resentful everyday. I don't enjoy sex, I actually dread it. I see it as a chore that must be done so I can move on with my day.
If it matters, he's been with many girls in the past, he's had previous long term relationships, he's in his late 30's.
Tell me this isn't what sex is suppose to be like! Cause I'm dreading it //
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