Not in my experience. I have found that if I do a few things to help us along that we both cum all we want or can, whichever cums first, so to speak. An example is that if we're having penatrative vag sex, when she's getting close, I slow down to a little faster than one stroke per second. That's the normal orgasmic rhythm for women. It lets her come much more easily. Also, I feel like most men think that when she likes it, going harder and/or faster makes it better and that's not necessarily true. Women are more cumulative animals in terms of orgasmic energy so just feed the beast as you are and you'll get there.
Fair point and pretty similar to what I'm saying in terms setting a rhythm, a lot of guys have raced to the point and I wasn't even stimulated.
Shame on them. When she squirts, it's just heaven for me. That's undeniable evidence that she's cum, hard.
Glad some people get it😂
so long as we both get to feel pleasure from each other and both get to orgasm at least once. I am fine with the girl taking the lead during sex once in a while. it's nice to be able to switch back and forth now and then. as to who as more control during sex.
That's the aim! It's less about control and more setting a rhythm so we both get pleasure
I'm willing and available
Sexual compatibility is best for mutual sexual pleasure.
yeahh... true... but see women getting fucked themselves by us is utmost satisfying
I agree that's what I'm aiming at
yeahhh... it would be fucking sexyyyy seeing u lead
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Less about control more about understanding one another rhythm
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Probably?
I've stopped having sex with her so I couldn't say for sure. Never enjoyed it that much.
Bad or good, I still make a point to avoid any form of sex with her.
I certainly find that when the girl is totally involved - and creative - in both the foreplay and actual sexual lovemaking it makes it so much more pleasurable for us both and often leads to more than one intensely beautiful orgasm for each of us
I guess that depends on what those two people like. I take the lead and am dominant and she likes that, and I always make sure she orgasms.
dominant women are the best!
Almost any kind of sex will lead to an orgasm for most guys. It can be more complex for women, so letting the woman lead or share in the control is more likely to lead to mutual satisfaction.
Maybe you are just naturally dominant when it comes to sex or dominant when it comes to those men.
Less about being dominant more about both enjoying the experience
Give women control? Nah I'm good lol. I'll pretend at first then I'm taking over.
yeah... its fucking sexy to seee u getting fucked urself with ur effort with mine inside u is kinda satisfying
Sure
I'd say the woman needs to lead once, so her man can learn, but after that he should be serving and performing what you want, when you want. Sex is best when both sides are comfortable enough to completely let go and be all the way raw.
I don't think so, I believe real man is the one who takes the controll and dominates his woman.
Again not about dominance, about understanding someone else's rhythm and not just your own
I care about the woman I fuck tho and I like to make her feel satisfied, however she should also satisfy me with giving me the ropes.
You should really understand that we sometimes fake being satisfied
mutual understanding is the best for better sexual pleasure
I agree try to fulfil each others need
I think the opposite, when a woman has no control. When a man bigger stronger and forcible it triggers a womans rape response and she can't help but be highly aroused. in my opinion this is the best sex for both parties.
Joking?
No. Thats how i am with all the girls i have sex with mostly. And they mostly keep calling me back for more. Im pretty built and i just tackle my friends with benefits and pin her down and she fights but ill slap her around or choke her out and by the time i go to put it in she's super wet. But almost all girls are like this. Its an involuntary response thats not fully studied but they think its biological like if a girl was to be raped the body is going to make it better for the girl. Anyways it turns girls on in a way that regular sex doesn't. It also turns me on in a way regular sex doesn't. Thats why i say its the best.
Maybe rephrase it to rough sex than rape otherwise fair enough
I agree if it's a first time or a first few times. I think communication is best but if the ladies got the confidence, knows what she wants and takes charge? That's best.
Rhythm comes naturally with partners who've been together for a while
Agreed.
Whenever I initiate, the sex is so so.
When she initiates, it doesn’t get hotter than that.
I mean does it matter have to try something new?
What'd you mean?
I make it so it's all new and amazing
I don't see any grounds for arguing with that tbh
Seemed like when I took the lead it worked best for me and my ex
Maybe that's why she's an ex?😂
Sorry was mean, mean more rhythm setting by listening and feeling where your partner is at
Maybe not like I would know cause she's a dishonest tramp but yeah I mean I would do that with any partner
Definitely it is
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