I actually do, when I was with my ex boyfriend and I found that he was into "BDSM" stuff with his ex girlfriend before me and he was also a "submissive partner" in that relationship.
I asked him about little bit of details as to what they used to do he simply said, "We used to mimic porn scenes".
And I know what they do in porn as I've seen it few times. I just wouldn't look at him in the same way. I really can't date a guy who was or likes to be "treated like that".
I just apologized and broke up with him within next week.
Have you moved on yet? ... like do you have a new boy?
Nope:/ I still love him
Yes, I can tell, that's why I asked.
So sorry, that is a heart breaker. Another boy will come along for you even better.
Here is a myTake I wrote about a week ago, maybe it will give you some hope.
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So many great pictures and details. Thank you
OK, were you a sexual dynamo, and sure that's nice. BUT - were you a potential financial partner for the lifelong haul? A potential great mom to children he one day may want? Of course sex is fun, but it isn't *everything*.
In fact, as I try to tell the frustrated young "InCel" men I run across, sure getting a sexual partner and lover is nice, but it doesn't get their studies done or put the proverbial bread on their tables (in fact, on the contrary it can be costly financially for men!)
No, I don't care if she's been fucked 2000 times or what sex acts she has performed with a partner. I'm not into skanks who suck and fuck strangers or participate in group sex. But I expect emotionally healthy women with strong libidos, who have been in relationships before, to have engaged in lots of enthusiastic, uninhibited sex.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!why would i care what my partners history was? she may have the same... i would just be glad that they were with me and not with the ex as that means that i am number 1 for now.
sounds like you haven't really let him go or you wouldn't care?
Nope and I'd want to hear stories and see if I could outdo the ex.
you're pretty much irrelevant now no matter what you did.
I didn't even read all that just the fact he has someone new you are history.
as if we all get a new unused boyfriend girlfriend every time? c'mon we all know most people we meet will have done something with someone.
not being his first does not mean she is his charm.
get over yourself
find yourself someone new and move on.
I mean it doesn't mean she is NOT his charm.. she very well could be the "one" it's usually when they've done it all that they find love in someone else and done experimenting and such.
Read it to change your mind
you don't get it.. I T. D O E S N O T M A T T E R. You're in the past. The end.
The fact that you are thinking about this tells me that you are still very much involved with the idea of having him in your life.
You sound really bitter he’s found someone else to happily share all that knowledge with. Go find your own new man. This will make you sick.
No just means they're experienced
And? Lol.
She's probably doing the same stuff with him now.
Who cares?
No she looks boring
Not to him apparently. Focus on yourself and move on. You trying to get some sort of satisfaction of having him first literally does/means nothing. You're just hurting yourself. Find some girlfriends that can help you get over it.
You never forget your first so it does mean something
Everyone has a past, what's the big deal?
Depends who is telling me, if it's the dude bragging, I'd take off my sock, put a brick in it and smack his face to a pulp with it
If she is telling me just to not hold secrets, I'd just have to accept it I guess.
You do know this happens in most relationships and they still break up and find new ones, right?
I still had him so
And you're gonna end up with a guy who did the same with multiple girls so
Yeah, you too so
Okay
Most normal adults have a past, and that sounds like a pretty vanilla one so wouldn’t be too concerned
You make this like you did something special, but this is all normal.
when is the movie coming out
I would mind if he was pegged by her
Seems like the one who was doing hard was you, not the other way round. He'll probably be pleased of the more normal types of sex rather than er whatever it is you guys were doing.
It is cheating and if i was there in your place i would think i was jus used.
She'll do all of that and more with him. He won't even remember who you are in a short while
Lol 😂 sure thing
Nah. Why should I mind? I wasn't a virgin when I met him and he wasn't wither.
It's kind of to be expected tbh
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