Would you care if your girlfriend wanted to experiment in bed with another girl?

So I would describe myself as a bit of a thrill seeker and I don't like the idea of ever missing out on things I'm curious about, not just in the bedroom but in general throughout life.

Anyway, I've always wondered what it would be like to have sex with another woman and try a few things like 69 etc.
The problem is I have a boyfriend and we are in a stable relationship. I don't want to leave him and I love him. But Im so curious just to see what it feels like with another woman.

Do you think he would get really upset if I told him I wanted to experiment?
I don't mind if he watches or we could even make it a threesome (as long as I get a little time 1on1 with her). But I don't want him to think I'm a full blown lesbian and that I'm going to leave him. I just feel like I'm relatively young and I don't want to miss out on what life has to offer. We do plenty of kinky stuff but obviously being with a woman is the 1 thing he can't do for me on his own.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Such a easy fantazy. Go for it, you don't even need to tell him, olso if you are olso open for a threesome 100% he will accept. Don't be afraid and ask him straight away. (Are you from Asia?) Because all this shy question come from arabic country and east Asia part.
    In America (all the big continent NORD AND SOUD) is very normal olso in Europ even in East Europ.
    In the guy place i will olso ask you if you girls want a drink, if you need something, a cooky some music and if i can just wach or even have the posibility to join i will be in haven.

  • 1. It will never be what you thought or hoped.
    2. You will destroy your primary relationship in the process.
    3. Adults have fantasies and desires, but maturity allows us to DECIDE what we act on. Or not.
    4. You're not missing out on anything.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think if your boyfriend is in your age range, he'd probably get off on the idea of watching you with another woman. If you want to do it privately, he
    ll probably still get off on the other because now you've planted the idea in his head (unintentionally) that you might be willing to have a threesome at some point.

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  • I've dated 3 bi girls, so obviously this isn't anything I'd have a problem with.

  • I expect relationships I am in to be exclusive. So yes.

  • Unless it's an open relationship, cheating on him is not going to go well for you.
    You could tactfully ask him about a threesome though. Some guys fantasise about that. Emphasise that you don't want to leave him and you love him so.

  • Dude I think anyone will be thrilled to have athreesome in which 2 girls are involved
    Lesbian sex is the hottest
    And since you want it, it will be super steamy

  • Hmmm, how would you feel if your boyfriend wanted to experiment with another girl?

  • I'd especially if it includes a threesome, that's such a turn on.

  • Sounds good, but would love to watch...

  • You should tell him

  • Talking to him is a must. Because if you try to sneak around you will truly ruin it.

  • I think he'd be most amenable to a threesome if he's okay with another girl at all. Make sure you make it clear how far you are willing to let him go, and vice versa.

  • The woman I love with all my heart is bi and I don't mind if she's with another woman just as long as the woman she's with is clean and std free BUT under no circumstances any other guys allowed

  • If it's with a girl we know yes because that would mean that she might have messed around with her before

  • I don't mind as long as I get to watch

  • no such thing as "bi curious"

    I GUARAN FUCKING TEE IT

  • Id be so up for that

  • Go for it ask and I'm sure he will say yes

  • He'll love it

  • Yes but I should join them..

  • Definitely talk to him about it. I think most guys as long as they trust you that you just want the experience he would definitely let you. This is definitely something you need to discuss in length and set rules. Everyone needs to consent to the rules. Definitely give him the option of the threesome and your request for 1 on 1 is completely understandable.

    Definitely talk about it with him. Hopefully you find someone willing.

  • Mmm you can ask him his fantasy... and then suggest about the threesome just once... may be he ok with it or if not then u can say that I am just kidding...😂😂😂

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