Would you date a 25 years old female virgin?

Thats my case. I never had sex because the thought of pain was scaring me so much. I go to psychotherapy for it.
Otherwise I am a „normal” young adult. I get asked out pretty often, guys like me, call me hot/beautiful, I am friendly, I volunteer, I have a stable job. So nothing wrong with me except my idea that sex is something scary and painful.
So, guys would you date a girl like me?
Did you date in the past?
Girls, have you ever been in my situation?

I have to say this: I do intend to have sex with a future partner. So, I dont plan waiting till marriage or something. I am just very scared of physical pain or rejection.

Like:

Yes, I wanna date you, have sex with you. But I have to tell you I never had sex before.
And... he dumps me for being a weirdo.

Can you consider a 25 years old hot/sexy even is she is a virgin?
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  • Not an issue for me. Every person has their reasons for leading their life as they see fit. I would date such a lady: I am an introvert, so sex in the first minutes of a date is not my style.

  • I would date you. 😎

  • If anyone dumped you, it wasn't cause you were a weirdo... it's cause they want an easy fuck without having to worry about being your first heartbreak and dealing with all those emotions. A cold, dead hearted woman makes a better hookup for such creatures

  • It's fine to be a virgin at any age as long as its not 35 and up you should be fine. If your 35 and still a virgin then i feel sorry for you

  • Nothing wrong with that. I'd still date you if you like me too.

  • Yeah. My girlfriend was one until 33.

  • Definitely, no problem to me at all, might even be a bonus.

  • Sure, that wouldn't be a problem.

  • I do not think you are a weirdo or anything like that just because you have not had sex. No one has had sex until they have sex... You have just taken a little longer and that is okay too.

    Can you message me?

  • Sure. Where we going?

  • You lost me at psychotherapy.

  • Oh hell, yes.
    When you do decide, make sure you are sexually aroused and soaking wet.

  • ''Yes, I wanna date you, have sex with you''
    If this how she feels, np

  • let me se.. i am 38 / 2= 19 +7= 26... ok you pass as my maximun age gap... so yes... , now about being virgin... is never a problem, you have to see once you feel , with whom, were, when, do not plan... but feel your guts... and try that hapen with a good guy... not with an idiot... look for someone tender to you... tbat keeps cuddling with you all the time you want.. its not gonna be like the best stuff of the worls... but not with an idiot.

  • Yes defenetnetly as i only had sex once so we can learn together

    • I never dated she was a young sex worker 18-20 and yes girls your age are hot and young still

  • I would absolutely be interested. Showing you how to do it and seeing what you like could be fun.

  • I think virgin with 25 years is gold for me. I'll date definitely

  • Will you be my girlfriend?

  • no cause i'm straight :P

  • nothing wrong with you

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