Would you date someone who doesn't do oral sex?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I voted Yes, but it's not QUITE that simple. I don't think I would date someone who simply CHOSE not to give oral sex, because that's just selfish. I *did* have a girlfriend who *couldn't* give oral sex, because she had really severe TMJ and had enough trouble with it as it was (she couldn't take bites of hot dogs or burgers - she either had to use silverware or break off small bites with her fingers). She felt really guilty about it, but I completely understood - it wasn't her fault at all. It certainly helped that she was willing to do virtually anything else enthusiastically. It was her positive attitude that really made me not really miss it when I was with her.

b_lova · Accepted Answer

No I will not. I like the variety it brings to the bedroom.

I married someone who would do blowjobs but over the course of our marriage decided it wasn't something she enjoyed and the next thing I knew it was only on special occasions then none at all for years.

That wasn't the deciding factor, but we are no longer together.

DaisyM23 · Accepted Answer

I think I could but it depends on the reason, if you were assaulted or it's a taste/texture thing okay that's fine, but if it's some weird power dynamic thing that oral sex is something too low for you, then that's not really valid

douride2 · Accepted Answer

As long as he/she isn't expecting to get oral.

RobT312 · Answer

I kinda need oral. Im an oral person

MsProsperity · Answer

Yes I can

Apple1996 · Answer

Definitely not

Berethor · Answer

Yes, oral has made common by prostitution, oral is not the normal way of having sex.

Billlewis · Answer

I have no desire to have a woman service me orally, but if she doesn't let me perform cunnilingus, and especially anilingus for her, I probably won't date her for very long.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

It's not like I'm going to ask them to fill in a questionnaire asking for their sexual preferences. If they aren't up for it, it's not a deal breaker to me.

Maybehislady67 · Answer

I can because I prefer penetration

NathanDavis · Answer

which are her reasons to not wanting to do something like that? that is the pertinent question here..

strateguy632 · Answer

yes n did date those. others, several offered but i said no.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Of course

Bricealan · Answer

Wouldn't matter to me as long as they let me DO THEM! I get more pleasure out of doing all things oral to an appreciative partner... Exploring a woman's clean and healthy body is the optimum for me when it comes to sexual activity

Dargil · Answer

I would not know that right away but if she declined me, I would discuss it and p! an my exit if it was not on the menu.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

No that’s a no for me

The_Sexpert · Answer

Probably no  I'd prefer she loves giving and receiving oral

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Giving or receiving?

MicroJ · Answer

I'd be ok with it. Definitely, not a deal breaker. Not every woman or man is into oral.

exitseven · Answer

Yes. She might change her mind later

Kreneman · Answer

Now that I am much older now, a woman doesn't have to give me oral sex because when it comes to sensational pleasure, penetration is the best feel for me and as well as finishing.