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Would you ever consider being in an open relationship so long as you have to tell the other person and you have to be safe about it?

So I've attempted many times to convince guys that want to date me that we should have an open relationship. That way if he wants to fuck another girl he can so long as he's safe and gets checked every time afterwards (as would I) but they always turn me down for the idea or randomly decide they want to be monogamous... some of them even cheated on me afterwards which I don't understand because they had the opportunity to be able to do that but they declined! So, would you go for this idea or do you think I'm just a loner here?
I'd be down!
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Nope. Not interested.
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I would only want to sleep with others, not my significant other.
Vote C
I would only want my significant other to sleep with others, not me.
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Thanks for all your responses! I think I have a pretty good understanding of the odds of having what I want.
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  • I think it's so rare that a women would want this that it's weird for guys when one suggests it. They may not even believe you and think it's some kind of "test" or "game". But it could also be just their beliefs.

    • I've heard the "I thought it was a test" before.

  • Full disclosure and safety is the only way I would consider having one.

  • No! He would sure don't want a family, he will try this drama and leave, fight for love

    https://youtu.be/BcA6muHkGXc

    • El 3alem sayer 2ahbal xD Nowadays people who want real stable families are getting rarer by the second! :/

    • @ElissaDido very true they need Na9ay7 fel7aya braka feh lesa some humanity fehm 😐

  • I will never do an open relationship ever.

    • Same, nothing more than a friends with benefits in my opinion. No real chemistry with just one person... how can you be in love with someone, and sleep with other people? Just makes no sense to me.

    • @Ferretman21 Exactly how can you say your in a relationship when your sleep with multiple people.

    • It's like wearing a mask really. Oh we're in a relationship together... then sleepers with others... wtf.

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  • I would have no problem doing that.

  • Nope! My husband is mine, and I am definitely not interested in sharing him.

  • Assuming we don't have any children together, then sure I'd be up for it, or at least up for giving it a try to see how it fits.

    If we have children though, I'd want to give it more serious thought given that there's more at stake.

    • I'm confused as what children have to do with the seriousness of a relationship?

    • Huh? That's not what I said. Children doesn't have anything to do with the seriousness of a relationship. Children means that decisions like opening up a relationship must be taken with more care.

    • Oh I see. I understand now, I thought you meant if you had children during your open relationship... you'd want to change. Excuse me for that

  • das a bit iffy

  • I am too possessive for that shit >___<

    • Thank you for your honesty.

  • I'm not much into the whole open relationship thing. But, I respect those that do. It's not my business how people manage their relationships.

  • I dislike open relationships.

    • Don't ever have one then.

    • I don't plan to.

  • Nah, I couldn't do it. When I'm interested in someone I want them and only them. I want someone who feels the same way about me.

  • That seems as good a reason as any to break up with someone.

  • I'm not the type who sleeps around... I wouldn't get anything out of it

  • Nah I wouldn't be up for it.

  • I don't think I would

    I like the idea of being with one person Per relationship.

    • Glad you shared! :)

  • I only need one, only want one, Want her to need me and only want me.

    • Thanks for your opinion.

  • Nope. Deal breaker

  • Everyone knows that you don't date sl*ts. You can't make a 'ho a housewife.

    If you're saying that you'd be loyal to me and that I can keep mistresses, maybe.

    • Do you even realize what you just said and how hypocritical and wrong that was? lmao You call someone a slut for doing exactly what you say you'd be okay doing!

    • @Mekkalyn If a key can open any lock, it's a master key. If a lock can be opened by any key, it's a shitty lock.

    • And if I fully understand what you're saying by the quote... you are exceptionally sexist lool

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  • my friend shares his girlfriend :P

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