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Would you ever tell your girlfriend standing in front of you with lingerie to go away because you are too frustrated after sex?

Gave my boyfriend a orgasm. Afterwards we getting ready to grab some pizza. I put on my underwear and go to him to kiss him. He looks annoyed and says I must go away. Says shoo. Move away. I ask why and he says it is too frustrating to look at me after he had a orgasm? He was not making a joke or being funny. He was dead serious. News to me. I did not know it is so physically painful and disturbing to look at your girlfriend in lingerie after sex. Is this normal? I feel like never wearing anything hot again.
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  • Hmmmmm, I read above and also saw your response to someone else below. This sounds very odd. The fact that you and him have been together for 9 months and he often does this to you in other ways as well is not a good thing. At all.

    I would say talk with him about why he does this, but in my opinion, anyone who is so enigmatic is not really someone I'd want to be with. Certainly not long-term. Anyone who causes you self-doubt or causes you to wonder about his love and dedication to you is not a great life partner. In fact, if he is unable to willingly show his love and support for you on a consistent basis, he isn't capable of being a great life partner. TRULY great ones do not do this to you, or cause this kind of doubt and turmoil within you. True love doesn't do such things.

    Try talking with him, but if he puts up a fight and tried to defend his conduct, he is unwilling to change and I would dump him. Life is too short to have someone like this in your life who causes you to wonder about him and whether he truly loves you. If he tries to justify his actions, dump him and find a man who treats you in all the ways you inherently deserve as a woman. You deserve better than this.

  • No what he is saying is not normal. I’ve never heard or experienced that. I could understand if he was frustrated and upset that he didn’t orgasm. But if he did then he should be feeling pretty good and have no problem looking at you and kissing you. If my girlfriend was standing in front of me in sexy lingerie even after I orgasmed I’d pull her in for a deep kiss and start caressing her body all over again.

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  • I'm guessing he often does this

    • In other ways. Yes.

    • How long you been together

    • 9 months

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  • God, no; that would make me want to go again!

    No offense, but your boyfriend is crazy. 😣

    • Well apparently yes. I never knew it was wrong to go and be sexy for my boyfriend even if it is after sex.

    • Yeah, that makes no sense to me, at all.

  • Pfff that sounds fucked to me.

  • It does seem that his response to you was a bit harsh but try not to take it to heart. I think it is important that you can calmly talk to him and tell him that the way he responded was off putting for you.
    Now I can tell you that after a man has an orgasm there is often a refractory period during which he may have no interest in sex. With some men they may not even want to think of sex or see you naked after they have had an orgasm, although this is unusual. The refractory period is basically a short time after a man has had an orgasm that his sex hormone levels drop and he has no interest in sex and cannot be aroused. For most men this refractory period only lasts a short time, in some men (particularly young guys) the post orgasm refractory period may only be like 1 or 2 minutes and then they can get aroused again. But in some men the refractory period may last much longer and there response may be very different, they may be completely unaroused for some time. Perhaps this is the issue with your boyfriend maybe he has an unusually long and profound post orgasm refractory period.

  • He sounds weird

  • why not ask him what this is about? this doesn't seem normal. there must be an underlying issue.

  • okay, in order to give a better dignified answer to this perplexing situation, I think we are going to have to see a picture of you in this offending lingerie. For scientific purposes...

  • He is not into you the way a significant other should be. Maybe he is using you for something and because of arousal he let you suck him off but then afterwards his disdain for you won out and looking at you disgusts him. Not trying to be mean just my first thought after reading your question.

  • That was fucked up.

  • Sounds like not really interested in you because I would love it would be on you again dang

    • Yeah I am never doing anything hot for him again. Ungrateful.

    • Yeah because I wish I had that opportunity

    • My wife passed away 5 years ago been a lone it's lonely so he's crazy sorry

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  • He sounds insane to me. It's not something I've ever heard of before anyway

  • He's the American Psycho

    Would you ever tell your girlfriend standing in front of you with lingerie to go away because you are too frustrated after sex?

  • Ask him to explain that. I don't get it either. Makes no sense. Unless he's referring to something else and you're assuming it's your lingerie and/or you?

  • It doesn't make much sense to me.

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