Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health One thing I’ve noticed is that guys I tend to like, whether black or white, fetishize me for being latina. And I’m okay with that as long as they get that I have the temper too. Don’t expect the Spanish without this temper 👌🏼
But my point is that they either fetishize me (usually), or it’s more like “I’ve never really been into latinas, but you stand out to me.”
And I get that the bad thing about fetishizing somebody is that you’re obviously assuming the typical stereotypes are 100% true, but again I’m kind of okay with it because I pretty much do fit it so 🤷🏻♀️😂 and if he loves me for that and also who I am then I’m having the cake and eating it too lol
But there are some who apparently haven’t really been into latinas but apparently find me exceptional, and I don’t really get that because like I said I don’t see myself exceptional in that category. I see how he can love me for me, but that doesn’t explain why he’s never been into latinas. Or am I just overthinking that part? That part I kinda don’t like, because my whole family is Hispanic, obviously, and that’s kind of a problem-starter, I think, since my family means so much to me. I think if he’s less open to the culture then we might have a problem.
Would you rather a potential partner fetishize you or not really be into your ethnicity but find you exceptional?
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A lot of very different views so thanks for sharing your views 💕
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10 30I want my partner to fall in love or like me for who i am as a person. Just because i look white or i am latino or native American or any other ancestral DNA i have shouldn't matter. Its what is inside that counts not just the surface. Me gustas por quien eres mi amor. 💓🌹
Let's be real, romance and all those lofty concepts wouldn't exist without sexual attraction. Sex is what separates lovers from friends.
@Juxtapose love is what defines sex not the other way around.
Care to explain that thought process?
@Juxtapose I’m with Commodore on this one. Nowadays to people sex means nothing, just a casual activity and not what it’s meant to be. But that’s a debate for another day and time
I'm just going with biology. All those feelings evolved to help facilitate sex, not the other way around. Romantic relationships wouldn't exist if we could reproduce asexually. But many animals can have sex with no feelings, including us.
@Juxtapose care to explain that thought process?
I asked you first man.
@Juxtapose 1) Other sexually reproducing species don’t have those romantic relationships. 2) We have such advanced minds compared to other species to know better than to have sex with every potential mate that comes along. So even without morals involved here (because to me they are but let’s leave them out for the sake of both sides), that point of view is not valid. Commodore’s and mine, where we are supposed to be more selective and make smarter decisions when mating/making love, is usually rejected not because it’s invalid but because it’s hated.
@yads_is_back you are right
I never said some animals aren't selective. And some animals *do* form LIFELONG bonds (penguins, etc). It's romantic, 100%. Penguins can feel angry, sad, affectionate, in love, etc. Why do they romantically love in terms of natural selection? To facilitate reproduction. Again, sex is the basis for courtship and romance. Sex *MUST* exist for romance to even be possible for a species.
@Juxtapose When romance and love - I should say love since romance now people just say is a dreamy concept - when love is present that’s great. The point here is that it’s to be present with sex, as in sex not come without the love like you are saying. That’s why people fuss about having bad relationships now. They’re all for being whores instead of caring to know what love is. It is not as complicated as you’re trying to make it by going around in a circle lol
And I’m done with this. I even at first said I wasn’t going to debate this rn. I expressed the point. So I’d appreciate it if you stop blowing up my question, especially if you’re just on here to cause problems. So I’m asking please 🙏
"So I’d appreciate it if you stop blowing up my question, especially if you’re just on here to cause problems." Don't fucking make these questions or reply then if you don't want engagement. Like, wtf?
@Juxtapose Engagement with the question is one thing. Trying to debate something off topic is another. Thank you.
I don’t think anyone would fall in love with you over looks, although from experience it’s more likely to be men than women who will “fall in love” over looks. It’s just an initial attraction.
If I went to some Asian country for example and one woman was fascinated with me at first because I was white, why not just start with that and then get them to know me?
I really don't care much about race or fetishes towards different races either cause i go for body type and personality, skin color doesn't matter to me
I think a lot of it - sometimes most - is to do with culture, and the two get combined. But I agree 👍🏼
thank you and nice hair by the way you look good and thanks for the like
Isn't it better that he won't find anyone else in your family physically attractive.
I wouldn't mind both
I mean I think I could love any woman for being themselves and fetishize them for their ethnicity (I do find some ethnicities more desirable than others) and I would expect the same from them in return. But love is part of the bigger picture, ethnicity shouldn't matter. If ethnicity is all you're focused on, I don't think you can build much of a relationship based on on that.
And why'd the fuck I get downvoted?
I would be happy either way myself I love Latina women that I have never dated one I think it would be a fun experience
Neither both actually sound back to me but if I had to pick I guess B
I'm good either way. If they likes me due to my ethnicity, I'm fine with it, or if they find me exceptional, still that feels good
Yeah I dont see it at all you still be cute trying to act all like your in temper, awe bless
Shut up 😂
I don't think I can but I could try
Yes I think you know my view little lady
A means more than a lot in a relationship.
Honestly either is good I guess, I was thinking about this earlier, there is this Asian girl I went to school with and I'm not really into Asian women (no offense to any) but she is exceptional
Well take jom home see if there's fireworks if so bye dude
? Huh
It depends on healthy the exceptional things are.
True 👍🏼
I'd rather have a fetish for body parts.. like a$$, boobs. Why would you date with those sick puppies?
I don’t date the ones who only fetishize me. Usually guys of my fetish don’t either. We are smart enough to get somebody who appreciates us for more than our ethnicities. That is mentioned in the description.
Ewwwww
None of these honestly.