Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, Your favorite porn star vs your girlfriend?
Anonymous
my boyfrien and I were having an argument because I found him saving pics of girls with large busts (models etc). Im only a 33b. I said it makes me feel like he isn't attracted to me cause of my small bust. As an attempt to tell me that he loves my body type too he told me one of his favorite porn stars who is also somewhat small chested (34b). But now whenever i watch porn i always have the thoight of him getting off to this girl and this kills my self esteem. I know im thinking things negatively, but I just wanted your input.
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What Guys Said
(19)Of course my girlfriend. Why would I even compare my girlfriend to a pornstar? That's messed up...
If you think you're hot, then you're hot. And if you can see a similarity between the porn stars and you, then you're more than awesome to go! :)
Porn is a fantasy not a reality
my favorite porn star look very much like my ex... I am single now.
Don't be insecure about porn. My tastes in women change daily. One day, big titties, the next small, one day big ass, the next small... guys are programmed like this
Fantasy is not reality. WE do NOT compare women to other women!!
It is no different that you fantasizing / masturbating to Christian Grey or the idea of him (or something like that). You wouldn't compare him to your partner, its just fantasy.
Leave the guy and his fantasy alone. Don't shame it, or try and stop it. No one stops you from yours.
Your self esteem is YOUR issue not his.
You compare yourself to other women, he doesn't. YOU Need to get over it not try and force him to change to suit it.
Nothing alike, and tell you what, I am much more attracted to my girlfriend.
Also, lets face it: Large busts is what you will get in 95% of the cases when it comes to porn. There really is no need to compare yourself. Porn is to men what a dildo is to a woman.
Yeah, it gets us off but it isn't anywhere near as fun as a real partner.
Oh and, we're talking the non-vibrating bland-type of brand of dildo. Not anything edgy or vibrating with fun here.