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For all straight girls who like lesbian porn...

Alot, if not most, girls that I've talked to get turned on by girl on girl action...but please answer me back with some answers because I'm curious as to why this is...My girlfriend is like this and I don't understand! If she's straight and attracted to guys, how do girls turn her on? Do guys still turn you on (in porn and day to day)? If so, more or less than girls? How long have you been getting turned on by girls? what is it that you like about girls that you don't like about guys? What made you be this way do you think? Would you ever kiss a girl? Have sex with one? Does that gross you out? Does anything about them gross you out? Finally, what exactly do you like to watch? A single girl masturbating? Two girls kissing? Two girls kissing naked? Straight porn, but you just focus on the girl?... Please, I really want to know what is going on in my gf's head. I worry I don't turn her on anymore or anything.
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  • I think that most these girls here are NOT really being honest with themselves. I've seen enough sensual boy/girl scenes, where the man goes down on the woman, and sensually kisses her, and the rest, to know that there are some out there. I think James Deen, who are popular with heterosexual women now, is an example of this, but I am not sure (all I know is that he is popular with many heterosexual female consumers) I agree that there should be more or even the norm with b/g, but I think it's the actresses (who mostly do not want to kiss men in scenes because I've heard they want to do that with their boyfriends) and directors who don't put more of that. Having said that, most of what these girls here that said they enjoy g/g p*rn but wouldn't do anything in "real life" should still be described as bi or at least partly bi and not what they described themselves as fully heterosexual.

    Most of these girls say they are heterosexual but say they achieve sexual satisfaction of g/g is because it is more sensual, even though there is no man present, which is supposedly the object of their sexual desires (since they claim they're fully heterosexual). How can one, who is fully heterosexual as they claim, be attracted to a scene where there are only girls present? Watching a scene where, a girl masturbates by herself with seductive looks and teases (which by the way I hear many heterosexual women love watching men masturbate, so why would a "heterosexual" woman love watching a girl masturbate?). A scene where two girls kiss and not boy/girl kissing. Where a girl goes down on another girl, and not when a boy goes down on a girl, and still claim to be only hetero? It can't be about sensuality, since there are b/g scenes like that, and gay p*rn is very sensual, there is kissing and groping in there like crazy, which would make sense for a fully heterosexual girl to watch and prefer since the object of her sexual desires are men, but most of these girls here still prefer to watch g/g p*rn and still claim to be fully heterosexual. The logic does not follow. It is like saying a man who claims to be fully heterosexual loves watching gay p*rn because he appreciates the male body or even loves it in p*rn, and loves when the men stroke their own penis and each others penises just because they can relate with the pleasure, because they stroke their penis too when they masturbate (even though for them the object of their desires would be, as they claim, the woman, but there is not even one single woman present in gay p*rn). But for fully heteros, seeing the opposite gender being pleasured should excite them, not the same sex being pleasured. These girls here then are partly bi, in that when it comes to p*rn, the object of their sexual desires is the woman, since she still prefers to watch g/g scenes over some b/g p*rn, and most gay p*rn, which can be as sensual as those sensual g/g scenes.

    • You know nothing about female sexuality, just go and find some articles on google. For the start you can search why lesbians are more acceptable than gays. Male sexuality tend to be more rigid while for females it is more fluid. Also for most males the focal point of the sex is their penis, if they cuddle in guy p*rn then obviously they aren't their most natural. And frankly you guys disappoint me. Don't you get turned on watching 2 women? Wouldn't it turn you on seeing your girl with another one?

    • @Jahanpanah hahaha the most helpful guy , he should be classified as the most unhelpful guy 😂🤣!

  • you need to stop panicking. Porn is like fantasy, its not real. Just because she likes lesbian porn doesn't mean she is one. Its still jut porn, I imagine she would enjoy most types of porn as well.

    I'm a girl, and I've watched lesbian porn. I wouldn't say its my favorite type, but it still gets the job done.

    I don't like the 'staged' type of porn, where a girl is masturbating but obviously faking orgasms. I like the natural stuff.

    Usually I watch straight porn, but focus on the guy. But there's nothing wrong with your girlfriend if she focuses on other girls.

    If she actually starts flirting with other girls or suggests a threesome with another girl, that's hen I would start worrying.

    You should just ask her. Say, 'i noticed you like lesbian porn. I think its pretty hot too. What is it in particular that you like about it? or something like that.

    And remember, communication is the key to all successful relationships :)

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  • After reading all of the comments from women, saying it is girl on girl porn that turns them on more than guy on girl, there seems to be a common element. It appears that the guy on girl porn does not turn women on for two reasons. It is not focused on the woman's pleasure and guys are often ugly. Add the lack of sensuality to it, and we are classified as not visual. We are in fact very visual. You hear women say over and over again how girl porn turns them on by looking at it. Isn't that being visual? Now if we could only find porn where the men are actually pleasing women for real, are hot looking and filmed in a sensual way, we would probably be much more turned on by that as well. Seeing the beautiful outline of his body, and the strrength of his physique as he artfully pleases her, and she him, would turn on most any woman in my opinion. Just watching a penis plunging in and our of a vagina is not pleasurable to look at, nor is it sensual in any way.

    I have often felt, that women are sensual more than just merely visual. We need both to be turned on. If we cannot feel what is going on in the film in a way that is pleasing to us, it doesn't turn us on. It is just that girl on girl focuses on female pleasure, and on entire bodies rather than just just the genital area. In guy on girl porn, all anyone sees on the guy is his penis.

    I think that the reason why you are so confused, is that straight porn is made for the male eye, not ours. Girl on girl porn is visually stimulating to men, and it has the sensual element missing from straight porn. Women respond more to sensual than anything else, however the visual adds to it if the actors are beautiful to look at which in most cases the men are not. This is one of the reasons why there are many women who look at gay male porn. Some of it is actually very sensual, and the guys are often gorgeous to look at. I happen to like it very much myself. I am not a big fan of the anal sex, but there are many other choices to look at. If there was straight porn to fill that void, I would view it instead, but it is always so disappointing. Straight porn often looks painful, and I cannot telll often wether the women is moaning to play the part, or if she is actually in pain. Unfortunately, I think it is pain, not pleasure that she feels. No woman cares to relate to that.

    • You say that "all anyone sees on the guy is his penis" but in straight p*rn for men, the camera is on the woman most of the time. The camera is on the d*** but it's also on the vagina. Most girl on girl p*rn is made for me. It's not even intentionally focusing on female pleasure.

    • I am not sure that I understand what you are trying to say in your comment. Perhaps you could re-articulate what you want to say? On the point that the camera is on the woman most of the time, I tend to agree. Straiaght p*rn shows female bodies and penis. But as a visual woman who loves a beautiful male body, it is his sexuality that interests me, not just hers. Also, when a woman has sex with a man, she sees herself with a whole man, not just a penis.

  • Do guys still turn you on (in porn and day to day)? If so, more or less than girls?

    Guys definitely turn me on day to day, but only in some porn. most guy-girl porn is so quick. there's hardly any foreplay and the oral usually sucks (no pun intended). if I find homemade porn, it's usually better because the guy takes his time on the girl and pleases her because it's usually his girlfriend or wife.

    How long have you been getting turned on by girls?

    probably 5 or 6 years. lesbian porn was the first porn I stumbled upon.

    what is it that you like about girls that you don't like about guys?

    i like that they take their time on each other. it's make more sensual and pleasurable for both girls and I like to see how they please each other, especially during oral because it's usually the center focus of the porn. toys kinda annoy me because I don't use them, so I can't relate.

    What made you be this way do you think?

    i don't know... I guess not finding guy-girl porn this was as sensual?

    Would you ever kiss a girl? Have sex with one? Does that gross you out? Does anything about them gross you out?

    i've never and never will engage in any sexual activity with a female (including kissing). it doesn't...gross me out, per se, but I don't get turned on by actual girls walking around. I wouldn't want to do any of them, haha

    Finally, what exactly do you like to watch? A single girl masturbating? Two girls kissing? Two girls kissing naked? Straight porn, but you just focus on the girl?...

    all of the above. straight porn tho, I actually watch what the guy does. if he looks like he's pleasing her, I get turned on. I also listened for him and his moaning and groaning. that's a HUGE turn on for me. I love hearing a man lose control ;)

    Please, I really want to know what is going on in my gf's head. I worry I don't turn her on anymore or anything.

    you definitely still turn her on, man. why don't you watch it with her sometime and masturbate with her or something like that? it'll spice things up ;)

  • A lot, if not most, girls that I've talked to get turned on by girl on girl action...but please answer me back with some answers because I'm curious as to why this is...My girlfriend is like this and I don't understand! If she's straight and attracted to guys, how do girls turn her on?

    I'm totally straight and verry attracted to guys..but I think girls are like really pretty! And for me, I guess I've already seen guys and had sex with guys so I know what it's all about. But watching two girls is like new I guess and it's a little exciting lol

    Do guys still turn you on (in porn and day to day)? If so, more or less than girls?

    Guys still turn me on more in real life (obvi..lol) I still think a lot of girls are attractive, tho

    How long have you been getting turned on by girls?

    Umm, I'm not sure? Since the beginning of high school maybe?

    what is it that you like about girls that you don't like about guys?

    Girls are just like softer than guys. I don't know its hard to explain lol

    What made you be this way do you think?

    Idk? lol..I'm just curious about stuff!

    Would you ever kiss a girl? Have sex with one? Does that gross you out? Does anything about them gross you out?

    I have kissed girls before..and I'm totally straight lol. I have never had sex with a girl..but it doesn't gross me out or anything.

    Finally, what exactly do you like to watch? A single girl masturbating? Two girls kissing? Two girls kissing naked? Straight porn, but you just focus on the girl?...

    Two girls kissing naked is a turn on for me..I like boobs lol. And umm..sometimes it's kind of hot to watch a girl go down on another girl. :o)

  • Okay so I'm just going to answer all your questions straight down.

    -girls turn girls on for a lot of girls, we don't know why. I personally get turned on by lesbain porn but I am 100% straight

    -yeah, guys still totally turn me on,

    in porn, girl on girl turns me on more than girl - guy action, but in real life, guys turn me on more and girls not really. It's hard to say why

    -since I was like 12 ahahah

    -all girls have little crushes on other girls, it's just the way we work, ask katy perry. girls like girls for all the same reasons guys like girls

    -I wouldn't want to have any real interactions with girls, it's just watching it turns me on, and nothing about them really grosses me out since I am a girl, besides HUGE nipples

    -i like to watch two girls either kissing naked or straight porn, since your girl is turned on by this, you should watch it with her while doing whatever you guys do so far, because it will turn both of you on

    don't worry, a lot of girls are like this and still totally straight and attracted to their man.

    hope this helps! (:

    • Thanks a ton!! I have three more, main questions. you say girls like girls for the same reason guys like girls. We like them because they're hot and sexy. So...question #1 - if you think girls are so hot and sexy, why wouldn't you wanna kiss them?? #2 - are you not lesbian just because you like guys more? #3 - How can you not want to kiss them, but you get turned on watching them kiss? (kinda the same as the first question)

    • -in real life, I don't really think girls are that hot and sexy, I don't really know why but, a lot of my friends, and other girls I know like watching girl on girl too. maybe its because in this kind of porn they use vibrators and all that shit and that's the kind of stuff we do to ourselves when guys aren't around. -no, I mean I don't like girls in real life, just in porn. so its not that I like guys more because in real life I only like guys hah -i can't answer that one, idk, girls are complex(:

    • Girls are complex? Sounds more like they are screwed up!

  • Okay girl on girl action is really hot! But I'm straight! I love boobs and the faces/noises girls make during sex it a turn on for me and I don't know why ! I've watched lesbian porn for years now! Guys still turn me on but not in porn! In case you haven't noticed porno guys are all ugly as long as you have a big shlong you can be a male porn star! That's why It doesn't turn me on! But when a guy I like is around I go crazy! I've Been sexually attracted to girls but never emotionally.. Bottom line: I appreciate the female body.. It's beautiful and sexy ! But I love men at the end of the day I could never have feelings for a woman she can be hot but that's it! I'd have sex with a girl but just like a one night stand to see what it's like! I couldn't date a girl!

    • You're a lot like my gf. I still turn her on like crazy, but I can't stand the fact that she thinks girl-girl is hot! I'm scared with every lesbian porno she sees, that that will be the one where she decides she wants to try it, or that she only likes girls ya know? She claims to not watch it anymore, but I don't believe her. Can you give me any more insight into this??? What's so hot about guys that keeps you liking them?

    • Okay have you ever had a huge crush on a girl, like butterflies in your stomach, heart races think about them 24/7 ? That's what I feel for BOYS I like.. For girls it's strictly physical .. I could think a girl is hot but I could never feel the attraction that I described earlier , I have also never thought about one of my friends sexualy usually just people I don't know like porn stars! Etc.. Your girlfriend probe isn't a lesbo she's probs just curious and adventurous but don't worry about her leaving

    • You're a verger. you're bi despite what you think. I admit that guys and girls can have equally good personalities. the reason I'm straight is because I'm sexually attracted to girls - that's all it is. if you're sexually attracted to both, all you need is to find a gal with an awesome personality and you'll be lesb. i avoid bi's for nything other than hookups and sex because there's a 50% chance they swing either way or NEED sexual attention from both sides

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  • ski_stud_mike,

    Thanks for this thread, man. I've learned a lot.

    I think it's important that we recognize that our society tends to sexualize the female form more so than the male. With the exception of GQ, nearly every magazine on the rack will feature a beautifully airbrushed female cover model. Swimsuit design in America tends to vary along the gender lines with female suits trying to reveal as much as possible and with male suits providing as much utility as possible. Males tend to look more attractive the more clothing they wear and females tend to look more attractive with the less they leave to the imagination (exceptions do apply, these are just tendencies). It's only natural that we all, men and women alike, would gravitate toward finding a sexual appeal for those we've determined to be aesthetically pleasing.

    The only way to test this would be to restructure society for a few generations and utilize male models predominantly for product endorsements and to design their clothing for easier objectification. Then we could see if at some point the young men out there would ever adopt the tone of, "Dude, that guy looks totally hot. I wonder what he looks like performing fellatio on another man. But, you know, not in a gay way." If it happens, then the theory of societal endorsement of beauty hold true. But that means that for years all the naked women would be replaced by naked men... Ummm, come to think of it, I'm pretty happy with the way things are. Never mind.

    Your girl's predilections are not unusual, and she's comfortable enough with you to share her feelings. Take it as a good sign, friend.

    • In case you haven't noticed, Even GQ is putting scantily clad women on the cover. It never stops. Get prepared for more women preferring other women in their fantasies over men. We are being conditioned in a huge way. Unfortunately, I think for men, they will be the ultimate losers.

    • Marion as long as I have hands..I can never lose.

    • I agree vangor to a certain extent. First 80-90% of women can't have a vaginal orgasm. They have orgasm through their clitoris which essentially is a very tiny d***. It even erects just like one. However wonmen are conditioned by society to the men pleasers so on the end they moan and fake to please their men while they are not satisfied

  • I haven't read through all the posts so forgive me if I say pretty much what everyone else said.

    On the whole girl & guy porn is NOTHING like what having sex with a guy is like, women know what turn us on and that what we want to see. We don't want to see some fake woman making all the 'right noises' while she's being banged in every orrifice by guys and pretending she likes it! I mean, I am sure some women do, but most don't.

    Usually girl on girl stuff has a more sensual side to it, its not raw and wild...and in straight sex porn there is very little kissing, girl on girl stuff relates to our emotional side.

  • 1.) yes guys still turn me on

    2.) I think I've been getting turned on by girls since like 8th maybe 9th grade

    3.) Girls seem less, I guess dangerous? Like, autoaticly girls wonder if the guy is a pervery or discusting, or going to take advantage of you.

    4.) I think like the media and also its just how girls think.

    5.) I would kiss a girl, not have sex with one. It doesn't gross me out. I think lesbians kind of maybe gross me out, becasue it's like when I'm doing it I know that I'n straight so it's kind of ok. It's complicated.

    6.) I don't really get turned on by just one grl by herself masterbating. Maybe two girls kissing naked. In straight porn, I definitly don't just focus on the girl.

    Check out my question please :]

    • Thanks! on #5-why would you wanna kiss a girl, if having sex with one grosses you out? Like why would you wanna kiss one if you know it won't go further? What do you like about it? #6-why/how do you get turned on by two girls and not one? And what's hot about two girls? I guess since most guys (like me) are so straight, its hard for me to imagine a straight girl liking another girl... I'm going to check out your question now...

    • Well for #5 because kissing is different than sex, it's like a kiss is kind of innocent but sex is kind of like I'm a lesbian. And also, I know that it turns guys on and they find it sexy. and for #6 I get turned on by 2 girls cause idk, it just seems like less lesbian like. also its lik girl on girl like "damn, I could do that that'd be so hot!" and yeah, I totally understand your position as a guy!

  • Um...girl on girl is just as gross as guy on guy to me. I'm not big into porn, but once in a while I do watch it with my husband. I much rather think about how to turn my husband on and what to do to him than anything else ;)

  • I always had the idea women are not sexually turned on by guys..even if they are 100% straight as an arrow. These answers pretty much confirm what I already knew. Women just admire the male physique the same way guys admire a really cool sportscar or motorcycle.

    From reading some of these answers from the ladies it seems to me its not that they like watching lesbian porn just because of womens physiques...the turn on is watching the lady on the recieving end of the sexual play. they enjoy the gentleness and attention. I have to admit really good lesbian porn makes me feel more relaxed than turned on. there's something there to be learned.

    • Edit to my fist sentence: "not sexually turned on by the male physique" is what I should have typed.

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