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Hairy or Shaved Pussy? What's the importance of both?

My guyfriend and me had sort of planned to lose our virginity to each other and the topic of our appearances came up. He asked if my p**** was shaved, and I being clueless said no, I don't do that. He said that I should because he'd like to go "down" on me ( I don't know what that means), and I wanted to know, preferrably from boys, do you like a girl to have her p**** shaved or all natural? And what does going down on someone mean? Sorry I am a girl who isn't notified about sex and any other events that take place between a boy and girl, intimately.
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After a long talk, I got over my fear, and ... we did it! We both agreed to a trim, and though I didn't give him bj, he was quite satisfied with my p****. He went down on me before he put his d***. It was exciting and pleasurable for me. Thank you for the advice :)
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  • Went through a similar situation with a girlfriend who was a virgin before me. She also didn't really tend to her lady garden. One time I was fingering her and I said if she trimmed I would go down on her (it means performing oral sex on you, licking and kissing your vagina). She promptly shaved everything off. It just makes everything neater and easier to see and navigate my way around down there. I think most guys feel the same way, and wouldn't you rather blow a guy who was trimmed down in his man zone rather than have a jungle of pubic hair?

    • not to mention when your have everythign shaved off it makes a girl feel more girly. cause most relate hairy to a manly type thing

    • Yeah, actually after reading just how many women on this site find male body hair gross I've taken a trimmer to a lot of the rest of my body hair too. I mean, I know some like it but there were some pretty virulent things said against it, so better safe than sorry/. One time at a pool party in high school, my buddy's girlfriend came up to me and said I had an Austin Powers chest (all that thick hair). Pretty embarrassing at the time.

  • 1) Not shaved, not natural... Neatly groomed, yes. It is not a necesity to me to ask a woman to shave, just be neatly groomed. Trimmed, no excessively long hairs. No dreadlocks... LOL

    2) "Going Down" is an euphamism for cunnilingus, OR oral sex. He just want to try oral sex on you. If you want that, go for it. I am not going to say if you will like it or not, because I know a lot of women that don't like to have oral sex on them.

Most Helpful Girls

  • i both have been trimed, and shaven guys will basically "go down" on any vag that don't have hairs long enough to come off in the mouth cause hun that's not hot to loose your pubes in his mouth.

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  • as a girl I would definitely want mine shaved it just feels weird for me if you have a freaking forest down there ugh!

    • Haha! My name is Forest. :D

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  • Going down means he wants to tongue your pussy.

    I think shaved is a lot of trouble to maintain for a girl. I don't require that. I hate stubble.

    Bushy wilderness bush is fine but gets in the way if I'm going down on a girl.

    Ideal setup is trimmed. Perhaps 3/4 an inch long. Long enough not be prickly and short enough to look neat and be very lick-able.

    You should just sit down sometime and give yourself a haircut down there. You'll find what you like.

  • By going "down" on you, he means giving you oral sex. And for that I definitely prefer shaved. I do NOT want hair getting caught in my teeth.

    Generally speaking, shaved is better than natural. It just looks nicer. If you're not comfortable with shaving, at least trim your bush, make it nice and neat. I do the same for girls, as it is my understanding that they have a somewhat similar preference for a guy's pubic area.

  • I,M going to try and help you guy lie a girl to be clean down the and by shaving you,r self he won,t get you,r hair in his mouth and what he what to is lick you p----y be for you have sex with you and most guy like a it shaved down there because licking p---y is a way of have sex be for sex

  • If you have to ask all these questions, you're not ready, sorry.

  • Untrimmed Full bush= gross

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