I have small boobs?

I read that guys associate big boobs with sex, but that when they fall in love, they don't care about breast size. Therein lies my issue! I came out of a draining, really long relationship a while ago... the last thing I want is another relationship, or love, or flowers, or a boyfriend or a man who is in love with me... but I'm not a nun either. I have needs. I just want casual flings, not that I'm a whore, but I want sex, of course, I'm human... however, it seems that my breasts condemn me to the "great boobs, IF he's in love with you" syndrome... meaning... for what I want, which is sex without love, my breasts will never be fully appreciated. Is this true? Do guys looking for sex prioritize for big breasts? And before anyone insists, NOOOOO I don't want to wait for a guy to love me, I'm sick of love and relationships, doesn't mean I don't have needs though!
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  • Yeah probably. Bigger t*ts are more fun. What size are you anyways?

    • 34A

    • There are guys who can appreciate that size too you know. They aren't hard to find.

    • thats like the perfect size

  • Guys love boobs, does not matter what size

  • Yes, which is why a padded bra will bring boys to you while you sit quietly at the bar. I wear an Exsil prosthetic bra often. If you don't find the thought appealing, try a micro skirt and stockings. Boys do care about other things than breasts, although a girl with big breasts in proportion to her height has a big advantage. A pretty face and hair are powerful lures. If he's in love with you, your measurements cease to matter to him as much.

  • God made us in diffrent flavors bacause we all have diffrent taste there's plenty of man that will not care how big your boobs are, they like the vanilla part lol so if you have one your safe lol.And it won't take you long to get laid just weat a skimpy dress to the club and dance hardcore

  • No, I have had girls with smaller petite breast and I find it a big turn on. I just love a woman's nipples, I actually think too large is a turn off. I guess this could be similar to how guys have confidence issues with penis size.

  • Hey, don't put such emphasis on breasts! Believe it or not, we're not all obsessed with them. Some of us prefer a cute butt...some like long, sexy legs...some (like myself) are more atracted to a girl's face (the rest is bonus). Whether you're looking for a relationship OR just a fling, I'm sure you can find a way to get a guy's attention. Besides that, guys who are only interested in one-night-stands are not nearly as picky as the relationship-type might be. After all, they're just looking for sex, right? Don't worry; if you want some male attention, just dress to accentuate your assets and go flirt. It won't take you long to get a bite, I'm sure.

  • I depends on there size, there is also a thing as to big, after about F your staring to get in the ungodly area to me. you don't need to post a pic, but tell us your cup size. you might not be a small as you think. as for is guys are turned on more by bigger breasted women. beyond that I have to admit I am a One women for life kinda guy and am not into the Idea of flings so I can't say anything on that front

  • Honestly it is more the attitude, women with large breast tend to exude more confidence. A girl with hershey kisses and the attitude that she is going to score is just as likely to get what she came for as long as you look feminine you should do alright.

  • The breast don't make the girl, the girl makes the breast. In other words the breast don't matter if the girl is attractive to me. I despite the stereo typing of men, the first thing I notice is her face. And if she's not attractive to me there then there's no point looking any where else.

  • I love cute/attractive girls with beautiful face and not overweight

    Breast and Butt size are my second priority. However, I don't really care how large are girls boobs. Well its a plus but I am not going to date a girl just because of her large boobs

    Just be yourself and if you have small boobs don't get a larger once with a surgery. Please!

  • Breast size can be small but I don't like breasts, I prefer no hair from neck and lower and just a average butt and a nice face.

  • haha, word you can do excercises to enlarge them... but no best way is to just have a FWB, all guys want sex from girls so you could tell one of your guy friends you want sex but do not want a relationship, I'm sure almost all of them will willingly oblige

    • You can't do exercises to enlarge them

    • idk, I heard some girl talking about it... here's a sight that says you can " link but as I said FWBS for life

  • I prefer smaller chested girls when it comes to sex or a girlfriend. I don't like how big chests looks when the underwear comes off. They are always so visually unappealing and flop everywhere during rough sex. One time I got boob slapped because of it, and it just turned me off from sex with big (like C cup and up) breasts. :)

    • I thought guys loved the bouncing of big breasts... most guys I know cite that as one of the biggest turn ons of big breasts...

    • Nope, I am not an "average" guy. I prefer a nice perky chest and a tight little ass. Big boobs actually are a negative to me with girls and who I decide to date or sleep with in general. I'm not lying, look at my other answers on the subject :p

  • some guys do, but honestly guys just want a hot chick to bang you don't need big boobs for that just make yourself look hot, heels, skirts, really tight clothes etc..

  • i like boobs but its not a big deal, I like all parts of a girls body. no prioritizing here, some guys will tho.

  • You should feel lucky, I'd love to have small boobs.

    • Where I live (not the US), men think big breasts are waaay better... sure they pair up with small chested women too, but they are honest and say that they like big boobs better when their GFs are not around, that they wish their GFs were bustier or even that implants would look hot on the GF... my ex told me something like this once, and my male friends have also told me I'd look better with implants... so yeah, big boobs are really preferred by guys here.

    • I don't care what men prefer me to have, what I prefer is to have small boos. Unfortunately, that is not the case :(

  • trust me I'm sure SOMEONE is willing to have sex with you...

  • I also am a fan of small breasts and petite girls, if only because some women, such as yourself, think it makes them look less attractive.

    Everybody is different, some guys like 'em big, some like 'em small, some don't even care about boobs. Just keep a positive attitude, and you'll find tons of guys who like your type.

  • Stop thinking so much! If you just want sex then you are a slut, just like all the other guys. Obviously, you have no respect for yourself with that sort of thinking. Guys your age act like they know what they want, but they only want to dip their wicks. So, give it to them if that's what you want. Big boobs, or not, you will still just be another notch in their belt.

    • well put.

    • No, he's an idiot.

  • Nah man. a lot of guys even like small boobs in some cases...if a woman has other features such as a pretty face, feminine charm, self-confidence and/or a big ass then it don't matter how flat-chested she is

    • True, I can careless about a girl's small boobs if she has a nice waist to hip ratio. (Nice round ass!)

    • I feel you

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