My boyfriend is into it. He doesn't let me put anything IN his anus but he does like some stimulation back there. I mean, it's perfectly understandable for some guys to like it since that's where the prostate is located.
However, it is possible to stimulate the prostate from the outside too, that's what I do with my boyfriend. It's like in between his testicles and anus, if you press and rub there, it feels really good to some guys, just from my experience. It's called an external prostate massage, you kind of have to press a bit harder for it though, I'm sure internal feels better if you can get the guy to let you go in there. Lol
It's called a prostate, for the guys who are confused. And yeah, it's in your male asses.
I think there are very few guys who would let you do that, because they're so scared of coming off as gay. Stupid, I know. So you'll have to do some serious talking with him. Explain why it's nothing to be scared of.
maybe we just don't want a finger in our a**. why is it OK for a woman to not like anal sex but we're stupid if we don't want a finger in our anus? please explain it? I'm just not into anal stuff (on me or her) in general...does that really make me stupid or scared, or I just have a sexual preference?
Well, first of all girls don't have a prostate in our anus, which means guys get more pleasure out of stimulating their anus than girls do. second of all, a finger up your ass or just getting fingered is NOT the same thing as having a big d*** thrusting in your ass, right? and finally, if I didn't let my boyfriend play with my ass id never bother touching his, but I do and I let all guys do cause they all love it, so it has work both ways :)
Yeh my guy loves it. I get to use toys on him. It makes him cum so much more
I think this kind of falls into the category of "don't knock it till you try it" lot. A lot of straight guys will say no right off hand only because somehow it is synonymous with being gay. However, I'm straight and my girlfriend uses a small vibrator in me while she gives me a bj. It stimulates the prostate and makes for an out of this world orgasm. It doesn't have to go in far and it doesn't have to be a dildo to hit the right spot. I think its just something where until someone tried it and kept an open mind to it, they will always be put off by it.
Now THATS more like it. I don't know why but it has ALWAYS tempted me to finger his ass but he seems so intimidated about it, and I think its ridiculous since a lot of guys, like you for instance, who actually has the courage to experiment can be honest and say that its nice. Thanks :)
Has he expressed interest in it? If not, try wetting your finger and running it around the rim and see his reaction. he may not know what to think at first but I'm sure he'll come around. I think sex is always the best when both parties can truly let loose and explore each other.
Well, he isn't really shy in bed if you know what I mean, to me it seems like he likes to try new things out, but the ass-thing just scares the hell out of him because he starts laughing and telling me to get my hands off of there, PROBABLY because he finds it embarrassing (in other words homophobia). He loves playing with my ass tho...lol. Ill try harder to make him loosen up.
G-spot in their anus, WTF?
The only g-spot I have ever heard of is in the female's vagina and even on that there's a lot of controversy if it even exists in all women.
If guys do have one up their crackhole, I think they should give it an appropriate acronym like
B-spot or GITFO-spot ( Get It The F***Out-Spot ) if you aren't up for that sort of thing, hahaha.
Talking as a guy, it does make me feel a bit gay, even if you think it doesn't.
So do you like it too when he stimulates you in your B-Spot?
Lol, I needed the laugh
Obviously I'm not the brightest in this area, but someone just corrected me saying it's called a prostate, so yes, you do have something down there which feels nice if stimulated. I understand if it makes guys feel gay but that's just my point.. I mean why? Just like I said before it's like I'd say I don't want a guy to lick me because it's a lesbo thing to do. Just stupid if you ask me. Sex is about being pleasured and if it pleases you who the hell cares init? You should try it :)
hehehe, not enough down votes. I need at least 50 to feel that finger up my butt hahahaha.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!As long as the girl gives the guy a heads up as to what she is doing, ass play is awesome. When done right, it can give a guy one of the strongest orgasms he's ever had.
Most guys aren't very open to the idea because they don't want to be considered gay. They are just missing out. There's nothing gay about it and there's nothing wrong with it.
I've had many different girls give me blowjobs or handjobs and stick a finger up my ass while they do it. The prostate massage is fantastic and leads to an amazing orgasm.
If you're boyfriend is scared of it, then respect his wishes. Or if you're into it, find another guy who is and date him.
People like you are a living proof that it's NICE and not emascualting or anything. Guys are obviously missing out cause they are scared of being seen as gay. Ridiculous.
People miss out on a lot of things because they are worried what other people will think of them. It's a shame really.
I'm am not in that stage of freakiness in my life yet. LOL.
LMAO best answer
I guess I'll get down votes because since it seems to be the trend in the question
but No I'm not into it, and not really interested in trying it.
everyone is entitled to their opinon. I don't down vote for that. But I will say you're missin out, Especially if your dating a hot kinky girl... fun times brother lol
a part of me wishes I could get into it.
No. Its emasculating in my opinion therefore a turn off.
Don't down vote me guys! There nothing wrong with guys that are into that just so I'm clear. Its just my opinion on how it would make me feel.
agree. not sure why we would get a down vote just for having a differing sexual preference
lol
eww, no this happened to me before girl was sucking my d*** and started massaging my balls (cool stuff everything is happy) then next thing I know she slips her finger in my a**hole I jumped up screaming what the f*** d*** hit teeth, that hurt she was like I thought you'd like it I was like hell no, just not a good situation at all, very unpleasant
I like it. But if he's not into it, my preferences really dont' matter.
im just curious if he is only just intimidated about it, even tho he might love it
It could be. But you wouldn't like him pressuring you to do things sexually you aren't comfortable with, so it goes both ways.
True but that's almost like me for instance saying I don't want my boyfriend to go down on me cause that's a gay-thing to do even if I'd love it if I tried it.
Most don't like this even though cosmo says otherwise.
Hahaha but Cosmo says so
No and hell no!
Why? And Have you tried it?
I'm a manly man, its for exit only.
A manly man as in and out and spray? Sounds like boring sex to me ;)
Honestly, I love it. And I think guys who say they don't either haven't tried it, or are too caught up in the ideology of "what it means to be a man" to give something amazing a try. Well, for their utter ignorance, they are missing out, lol
you would definitely need to chat with my boyfriend lol
i'll second that.
lol OK. But the guy kind of needs to make the choice to be ignorant or open minded on his own.
No, the last thing I want is something inside of my ass. I find it very violating.
Once you've been oil checked before, you might understand why...
No... should never happen...
No I don't but I love playing with my gfs ass
not much fun in there...
but if girl friend insists...would go for it...
Yes, my girlfriend has done it to me during blowjobs before and it does feel really good and makes the orgasm more intense.
No.
Absolutely.
However, I don't make it a habit of cleaning anything out, so she's going to be doing it at her own risk. Second, as long as she isn't rough with it, it's fine by me.
Yes!
I tried prostate play and it was wild; she wore a latex glove and worked her magic, and I came so hard it was like I was pissing all over the place. It was so intense that I was in paralysis for a brief moment afterward.
I will admit that I was very reluctant to try it at first, as if I was emasculating myself, and scared she might mess up and put me in the hospital. But it worked out and I'm glad I experienced what most men are too chicken to do.
Girl's are so lucky their g-spots are easier to reach than ours.
And to all of you who say ass play between a man and woman makes the guy gay, I have this to ask you: If a lesbian let's her girlfriend bang her with a strap-on, does that make her straight?
Haha love your answer!
I've tried to finger myself a few times. Don't much care for it to be honest. It's highly uncomfortable, the anus is designed to push things out, so forcing something into it feels unpleasant. Yes, stimulating my prostate does make my orgasm a little better, but it's not worth having my anus sting and burn for about a half an hour afterward. Not when I can achieve an equally good orgasm by teasing or plateauing.
I'd definitely try it
awesome
I don't get how guys think its gay. It's not a guys finger going in his butt lol
no I lose my erection if done so. once I had been to a full erotic massage and the girl started to give a penis massage. my penis was erect and it was just like a hand job. while doing it she also tried to finger my anus. but at that time I didn't lose my erection. it felt better. but still I don't want to do that again. it's not that I get intimidated.
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