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Men, when do you want a girl to cover up or not show her body?
Anonymous
My very first boyfriend who I am still with,I lost my virginity to and the first time we were going to have sex,I stupidly thought I should go out and buy sexy lingerie and ended up embarrassing myself because I know I have cellulite(on my thighs and butt) but still did it and he basically just told me to cover up so we have sex under the covers now or if he wants to do it from behind we turn the lights off.And one of my closest girlfriends told me her boyfriend told her to keep her bra on because he was turned off by her breasts although I like her breasts,mine are a B cup but she's like a D,we always say we'll trade one another because she wants smaller and she wears a bra every time they have sex.So what are some other things she should cover up for?
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What Girls & Guys Said
26 34At the diner table or around yours or my family/friends.
I have big boobs DD's and Id hate my boyfriend making me cover up.
Your boyfriend is either gay or an a**. Either way, you need to dump him, even Kim Kardashian has cellulite, would he make her cover up?
Sounds like those guys are really immature and shallow. To hell with them.
he is an ASSHOLE. would you make your boyfriend cover up anything? that is ridiculous. even if men are "visual creatures" they don't have to be flat out rude. you gave him all of you, and he treated you like dirt. dump the douchebag
May just be me but I think both you and your friend are with the wrong guys. If they don't enjoy your body then they need to move on. I'm not saying that my wife is perfect and I love everything about her but I love her for her and I enjoy her entire body. I don't agree with the whole lights off covered idea, Its your body and you should be proud of it if your not then you should do something about it but do it for you not someone else.
i can't imagine what I'd feel if a guy told me to cover up! sex is the time when you want to feel sexiest, make sure that he's making you cover up because of that, maybe he doesn't want you to see his body?!
? those guys are weird. guys are very visual. that's our first tool in getting aroused.
Jeez, that sounds like you got a piss-poor boyfriend and so does she. And this loser is your first? You deserve better than this guy; you seem like a really nice girl and you must be very attractive in a lot of ways. He's treating you like a sex object; don't stand for that. Dump him as soon as humanly possible and find a man who appreciates you as you are. And that's not cellulite, it's something to hold onto. :)
Let's put it this way. I'd ALWAYS want to see my girlfriend naked, as long as she wants to see ME naked too. But if she doesn't, and it's clear she really likes sex regardless, well... call me selfish or sensitive or whatever S word you can think of, but my attitude would be "Sorry! No sex for you!" The train can run both ways.
If you don't want to dump his loser ass for making you feel like sh*t, then just deprive him of sex. That's one of the worst punishments you can deal out to a guy and he'll show his true colors soon enough. Either way, you certainly deserve better than him, and there ARE better guys out there. Trust me.
once something like this happens , the relationship won't go long...wear a nice perfume ,be fresh , he won't be able to resist ...
ur boyfriend is a f***in douche I would dump that ahole he treats you like sh*t
if you got it - flaunt it! don't be a square man!
If a guy tells you to cover up you really shouldn't stay with him. If he doesn't like your body why should you let him have it. He's taking advantage of you for sex. If a girl told me to cover up when we were planning to have sex I'd be offended and would dump her ass
if he's so turned off by it, you shouldn't be with him, he doesn't love you.
hell yea! leave him
well I guess I don't believe that love and sex mean the same thing. but beside that point, I agree hell yesss. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't think you're beautiful. Also what kind of guy doesn't want to see his woman naked during sex? weirddd.
exactly, I didn't even consider my girl my type until we started going out, now she just looks so sexy, I want her body almost every time I look at her.
Usually I would only ask an ugly girl to wear a paper bag, but I won't make her cover her t!ts or puss, unless she was a fatass b!tch.
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Never. unless she's really ugly. but besides that just don't bother with clothes
guys like me NEVER want a girl to cover up anything... hell I wants em buck nekkid 24/7!
Never show me what you have your sexy either way
This is all very weird.. I want my girl completely naked all the time.. if your boyfriend is telling you to cover up.. find another one that appreciates your body
Oh man. That had to have wounded you two at some level. I'm sorry to hear that. It seems like these guys are just trying to fool themselves into believing a fantasy when given the option of a woman. They are far too easily pleased, and need to figure out what it is they are chasing before they start.
I'd punch the guy in the balls if he said that to me. He should be happy enough he gets to see you naked. If he doesn't like something, then he can forget the whole package. Asshole.
You can squeeze my balls and punch them and kick them.
LMAO.