There are some aspects, the most important one is that we are oposite to women, so in every aspect we are the oposite, we take less to get exited, we last less and our orgasm last less. Women need more time, their orgasm last long and they can even have multiple ones.
If we have a bad habit of masturbation in the wrong way we develop an conditioned reflex thats make us come faster because most of men masturbate to archive climax as soon as posible (most of times because we where afraid of being caugth when kids).
There is a muscle that is called PC and this one is the main caracter in the eyaculation, depending of how developed and how we control it we can control the eyeculation more or less depending on the practice, and with time we can even control when we come.
But is a hard thing, so dont judge because this has to be learned and needs to be work, normaly people think of sex as something that comes alone and we are good or bad in bed.
Before that think in how much effort have you put in being better in sex. Still is the man job to be a good lover.2 3 0 0I know the theory about PC muscle training, do you know anybody that can actually control their ejaculation?
Thanks for the MHQ
See I understand, & I agree guys get turned on so quick & us girls take more time. I just dont understand why! Like is there something a man can do to last longer?
Think of it scientifically: to procreate, the man NEEDS to orgasm. Basically, a woman's orgasm is designed to help with that process when he is taking too long (vaginal wall contractions, an extra release of lubricants, sometimes other physical reactions that trigger a release of endorphins in the man's mind when he sees or hears them). Basically, to procreate, the female orgasm is less necessary.
**I do want to express the fact that just because it isn't necessary for procreation does not mean it is unnecessary for sexual gratification. Men should still spend the extra time to give her her orgasm.2 2 0 0
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For the drunk thing - the opposite is true.
Because men are pretty simple when it comes to sex - women are physically more complex.2 0 0 0
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0 19It depends on how impulsive the guy is. As for the drunk thing, it really depends. There's such a term called "whiskey dick" for example which is when the guy can't get an erection due to the consumption of alcohol for example.
1 0 0 0Then it might be true But it won't be a good thing right?
If you're talking about the alcohol, not getting an erection means the sex won't really be happening. If you're talking about the guy being impulsive then no it won't be a good thing if you want the sex to last because it'll be a "race to the finish" for him and he'll just be a "minute man."
I meant the alcohol & about being impulsive thats exatly what i dont want
Almost everything on this site is explained in cave man's terms, so maybe the current male population was naturally selected, those who managed to plant the seed quick before the competition could catch/see them are our fathers...
1 0 0 0About the drunk part, for me it makes the best love session when I and the girl had a glass of wine. Why make love with some drunk guy? How can he express it to you? I would say it isn't important what performance drunk guys put out there ( I expect a lousy one ).
Yeah. Thats what I meant not dunk to the point where he can't even walk or somethin
Why? Because their body is different than yours that's all. We don't have the same level of hormones, the same sensitivity, etc.
1 0 0 0I have read that sometimes drinking actually makes a guy be barely able to get it up and erect in the first place.
0 0 0 0well for you the women you don't want to be laying there for about an hour do you thats why us guys have to finish quick because it just gets boring humping for an hour.
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