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Why do women hate mens' penises so much?

This really bothers me... they hate penises (or how they look anyway) and then they lie about it... why is this?
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This question was aimed at the girls, actually... >.>
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The reason it bothers me is because I could never, EVER have sex with a woman who didn't find me attractive... and so long as she like every other girl thinks a penis is ugly and never meant to be seen, ever, then I am not attractive because I'm male and thus have said unsightly genitalia. It's not fair to either side... and it really hurts knowing that I'm ugly.
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  • That organ is responsible for an overwhelming majority of the sexual abuse that happens on this planet -- that's what makes them ugly to me. It's less about the actual visual look of them, and more what they represent. -- And unlike you're original post, I'm absolutely not shy to explain this to anyone who would ask me. When men stop using that organ to traumatize other people, I'll probably look at it in an understandably more positive way. -- Yes, I do realize that not every man does these things, but too many do, and it carries that weight as a symbol. I imagine there are many other people -- of either gender -- who also feel this way.

    • I second this... and I'm sorry about how it makes you feel. I personally wish I could change the aversion I generally have for penises although I of course, been attracted to men. But its like this constant acts in everyday culture where men say they feel superior because of it, that it makes them better people, that what makes you a menbis proporcial to how many women you've cheated into going to bed with... I relate penises it to a general dissapointment and acts of violence however subtle they are.

  • Don't know if this post is still relevant cause i can't see a post date but i agree with a response i saw -about what it represents vs the look.
    On two separate occasions and without any encouragment whatsoever, i have had two riled up men come at me with boners! i was both terrified and disgusted!
    And finally believe what women mean when they say "men think with their little stick"! so now i pretty much have a hatred for penises i really can't stand the sight them and often fantasize about hacking them off!

  • I think all genitalia look a little odd, but I don't hate the way they look or anything. It's not unattractive, far from it.

    • Then how is it not unattractive?

    • Penises don't have to look beautiful to be attractive, they just have to be sexually appealing (which they are), and make you feel good (which they do).

    • That doesn't mean much... if she can't stand looking at it, then it's not worth it for me. I don't want to sound mean or anything like that, I just can't have sex with a girl who doesn't enjoy looking at me. I mean... if she thinks it's ugly... what's the point in me even bringing it out?

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  • I feel like people who think all genitals are unattractive have a problem with their sexuality. Not to say that they like either men or women, but that they are embarrassed, confused, or in some other way think negatively about sexuality in general. I happen to think my penis is very attractive and I've known many girls to agree with that, in fact just about everyone who isn't sexually repressed. Likewise I think there are a lot of attractive vaginas out there. That's not to say every penis and every vagina is beautiful, but they certainly aren't all ugly.

  • They hate them because they cannot have one for their own.

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  • I don't know what kind of girls you know, but I like penises. The only girls I know who hate penises are girls with sexual hangups in general, or lesbians.

    • this.

  • I don't hate penises. I don't hate how they look. And I'm not lying about it.

  • I love penises. But I guess you're determined that I'm lying, so why did I even bother answering?

  • Many girls really like penises.

    • maybe you just got a small ugly looking penis

  • All genitals are funky looking. Some look a little nicer than others, but overall, they're fugly. Bodily fluids and different odors add to the ugly. Has nothing to do with your overall attractiveness. To think that is ridiculous.

  • You're trollin, I'm lol'ing.

  • Penis has only one functional purpose (penetrative sex). Other than for that, it is totally useless and objectionable.

  • I find them sexy...they just aren't exactly pretty...I mean women are generally more beautiful than men but men make me wanna f***.

  • I love the d***, I need the d***, I adore the d***, I want the d***, I worship the d***, why else would I be suckin licking spitting on massaging kissing and treat it like its God? hmm.

    • You'll make a lot of guys happy with that attitude.

    • @justivisiting damn you're right

  • because guys use them to think with. and they usually end up in their personalities too.

    • I don't think with mine.

    • It's my other brain, what can I say?

  • mine is also bedazzled...

  • You wouldn't have that problem if you had bedazzled yours to be pretty like I did! :D

    • Yeah... cockiness and arrogance get us nowhere, pal. They only make us look more like a**holes.

    • Try another country it's 10x easier to get laid unlike America.

    • I don't want to "get laid." I want a girlfriend.

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  • this has never been a problem for me. I don't hate them

  • I use to find them so so ugly when I was younger but now not at all ! I mean in all honestly I don't think girls can say a penis is ugly - a vagina is ugly! what the hell is that!

  • Genitalia in general is ugly. Penis is ugly, and so is vagina. That being said, one can appreciate a nice penis. It's mainly for functional reasons anyway!

    • Yeah... but if my penis is ugly that makes ME ugly by default.

    • No it doesn't.

    • How do you figure that? Have you ever seen a man fully naked from the front WITHOUT closing your eyes? I have -- in the mirror. I'm ugly because I have a penis, which just happens to be ugly as well.

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  • Women only hate mens' penises if their small.

  • Most of these women think vaginas are ugly too. I find penises more attractive than vaginas ... not just because I'm straight, but because they actually do something.

    • And I find vaginas (and the women they're part of) far more attractive than penises.

  • If the girl hasn't seen a penis before then yeah it's going to be weird and kind of ugly for the first time you meet it. I was like this with my bf's penis but I got along with it just fine once I got to know it more. I started touching it and petting it and playing with it and I grew to love it :).

  • I like d***. And I'm not lying about it. I'm pretty sure of my sexuality. Can't get enough.

    • that's my favourite hardcore song, search this up on youtube: wasted mind - can't get enough

  • The first time you have sex they hurt you. :P

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