According to you what sexual acts between a couple are degrading?

Also are there any sexual acts that you think are degrading but you still like doing those?
According to you what sexual acts between a couple are degrading?
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  • Maybe being pissed or crapped on. I dont mind anal, not my favourite but I wouldn't find it degrading. Blowjobs and handjobs I know some women won't do because they believe it to be degrading but I actually don't mind, often a good way to get my guy off quick with minimum effort if I'm not feeling it. Some say its degrading to have a guy wank off to you while say you dance or do exercise or talk dirty but I'm OK with this too.
    Might be degrading maybe to have sex in front of people if your not into it, a friend of mine was talked into threesomes by her ex but she wasn't into it.

  • Deep throating, forceful face fucking, anal, ass eating, cum on face are my pet peeves.

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  • Anything that a woman does not want to do, or I want to do that either has to be talked into. Example, anal sex is immoral to many. To be blunt the anus is not a sex organ. If people do it that is their business, but if guys like it better than regular intercourse that is degrading, masturbation shouldn't be wanted more than intercourse. Using this word> " fuck" or "fucking" is degrading. Guys say I need to take a shit, which is vulgar which is like I want to fuck my wife/ girlfriend... I think porn has warped some people.

  • Anal, throat fucking, you know the good stuff!

    • You mean you find it degrading but you enjoy it?

    • That is correct. The first has been performed on me with a dildo by my now ex and the other by me on, or in a few other females.

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  • For me it would only be degrading if either person felt forced or obliged to do something submissive that they didn't feel comfortable doing. I would imagine this could feel quite degrading for that person. If it's consentual then, for me, it's not degrading, because those people are only doing what they want and are happy to do! :)

  • I would say that nothing is too degrading as long as both parties respect each other and their boundaries. If it’s between consenting adults then it’s alright.

  • Nothing that is consensual.

    it is all about consent, I’ve done some fairly hard BDSM stuff, however it’s always without exception consensual

  • i don't think that anything is degrading per se. it becomes degrading once one of the partners isn't okay with whatever is going. consent and respect are both the most important things in the bed room

    • @ellanella exactly this

    • What will be degrading for you personally?

    • If it’s consensual nothing really I’ve done some dark stuff and as long as there is Trust, Respect, Communication, Informed Consent, then it’s fine. With BDSM, what porn misses out on is that the kink is for the submissive and not the Dom, you act as a safe space.

  • There's lots of sexual things my girlfriend loves that I think are pretty degrading. They're not degrading towards me. I think they're degrading towards her, but she still loves them. She likes it when I call her 'whore' or 'slut' during sex (she'd hate it at any other time, but for some reason during sex it's a turn on for her), she loves it when I 'make' her beg for me to do sexual things to her. She loves it when I 'force' myself on her and have my sexual way with her. She actually loves it when I act like Christian Grey during sex (and I think she's too embarrassed to admit it, but I think she gets a lot of her kinky ideas from those books). Moreover, whenever I ask for us to switch roles and for her to be the dominant (just to change things up) she becomes noticeably less interested in the sex.
    I think it's kind of weird she loves sexual stuff I think would be degrading so much, but that's honestly when she seems to get her biggest sexual pleasure

  • I'm not into water sports and although I tried anal twice with two previous gfs at their request even with a lot of lube we did not like it. I prefer the front door.

  • There are no sex acts that are necessarily degrading in and of themselves. It just depends on the spirit in which they are done. For example, lots of people here are saying anal is degrading but it doesn't have to be. It can be very intimate and loving too.

  • Cumming on my face.

    Why doesn’t this question allow anonymous!

    • In my experience when i allow anonymous opinions some people use that for trolling or saying rude things, that's why i don't allow anonymous anymore.

    • Yeah agreed. Not a fan of anonymous answers

    • @nice-girl that's a totally legit answer tho. it's mostly just another one of those things that porn has pushed as somehow being a 'normal' thing. of course some guys are into it, but in the context of a normal relationship i don't think most guys would expect it.

  • If both people are happy and having fun then nothing is degrading

  • When she sits on my face and tries to suffocate me with her vag while dhe gives me a handjob Quite degrading... But I fucking love it 😂

  • I think it is not about the act. It is about what each one wants.
    It goes beyond agreement. Sometimes people agree to something to please the loved one. If this is not something you want, then it is degrading.
    To me, the difficult thing is to identify when someone agrees to please or agrees because he (or she) wants it.

  • I think facials are degrading but will do it if she wants it, unsurprisingly not many gurls actually want it, although I've found a few, still not something I like that much.
    Spitting.
    Pissing on faces.
    Scat.
    Face fucking/throat fucking, although I do enjoy this if she likes it.

  • The only sex thing I think is degrading is anything to do with poop which is disgusting!

  • Only those that can cause health problems. Anything else enjoyed by both is fine.

  • None, what do you consider degrading

  • As long as it's consensual by both people there isn't anything that is degrading.

  • If both partners agree to it, it's not degrading. What's degrading is if one partner dies something the other doesn't want to do.

  • Deep throating and pegging.

  • Anything that involves human excrement.

  • Anything the other person specifically says they do not want. There are some acts that are included in roleplays that we pretend are degrading.

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