Do many guys like hardcore sex aka abusing their girlfriend during sex like in porn? Would you marry a person who does not like bdsm/rough sex?

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Am i the only one who think this is weird that people like getting abused during sex or that people like giving their partner pain. In my personal experience girls who are into bdsm have experienced abuse in their childhood or sexual abuse etc. I mean i dont want to judge but nowdays not wanting bdsm makes you prude and people judge you if you are not into choking during sex, facefuck, deep throat, blood play or humiliatimg bullshit like cuming on face. What is the next? Stabbing your girlfriend? Oh this exists too. If someones hurts herself/himself, people would think this person is mental ill but every shit is ok when it comes to sex. I really dont want to judge but i have enough of this douple standards.
Would you marry/date who is not into facefuck, choking, deep throat etc?
I may find bondage and some rough sex to an extent ok but blood play, facefuck, choking is too much

I could marry a vannilla person

Vote A

I could marry a person who ONLY like normal blowjob without facefuck/Deepthroath and like vaginal sex and some slightly rough sex

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I only date/marry person who is into bdsm

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+1 y

Ok abuse was not the right word. I mean Hardcore sex/bdsm. Bdsm looks to me like a consensual abuse although this makes no sense. Anyway ignore the word abuse- i use it to exaggerate a little bit lol. I am soo sorry

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Pete671 Guru
+1 y
I could easily marry a vanilla person, at my age I'm looking companionship more than anything,,,
Oh ok, maybe if we had a BDSM weekend once a month, and on Monday morning we both pretended nothing ever happened, anything could happen over this weekend, but always the wife who directs things and is in control, even having a TS Domme to stay and I am the sub to both of them,,,
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crmoore Guru
+1 y
I could, I think, but I'd rather date someone who is into bdsm. There are a good proton of people into BDSM who have had unfortunate experiences, but it's by no means all of them, likely not even half. People simply like BDSM. Not to mention, you don't know of those people who have had unfortunate experiences would have liked BDSM whether they had those experiences or not.
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likelyOK Yoda
+1 y
No I thinks really crazy it’s as prevalent as it seems sometimes that mainstream violence seems like it can escalate and agree with what you said. I think in the UK revenge porn or rape type porn is illegal and NEEDS to be here in the US
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The_Maphio Yoda
+1 y
If that was the case, dearie, nobody would marry anymore.
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kkirk4442 Yoda
+1 y
I'm not into any kind of abuse at all.
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TadCurious Master
+1 y
None of that kind of BDSM stuff appeals to me in the slightest. It doesn't have any connection to how I feel about sex.
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Ronald_25 Xper 7
+1 y
I'm not fond of abusing anyone during sex, though I've found many girls like a good spanking and specifically request it. I'm into hardcore sex without pain and have a strong reverse rape roleplay desire with the girls I date, if that helps 😊 vanilla sex gets boring for me.
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Alexandrubaschet08 Guru
+1 y
I can marry a valina girl.
But if they want me to be more hardcore, ther is no problem, i can do that as well.
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HawkPerception Explorer
+1 y
My desires would never be fulfilled. I'd eventually want out of the marriage.

I feel like a lot of girls say they're not into it at first, but then they try it and get really turned on and start loving it. I think the bedroom is the most primal instincts humans have and a place to really let go. Men are dominant by nature. And women are submissive by nature.
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s2firestar Yoda
+1 y
No, I am very vanilla.
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Pogi-Paddy Xper 5
+1 y
Sorry all the things that I have seen in porn I am not likely to try many of them on a girlfriend. It just isn't my cup of tea. 🌹
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MountAverage Guru
+1 y
Not me. Fuck that dumb shit.

I voted B.
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COMMODOREII Master
+1 y
I don't like abuse.
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JamieLoves Xper 7
+1 y
I need a women that’s a freak in bed.
Into everything.
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MrTaboo Yoda
+1 y
I'm a Dom. I. Not into pain and beating unless she wants it. I'm more into control and perverted fun things i can dream up
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rebeliouse Explorer
+1 y
@hi_it_is_me123
i agree its hard to understand why some girls are into bdsm

i wouldn't say deep throat is hardcore though some girls can do it easily and enjoy it just as much as a guy
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- rebeliouse
  +1 y
  @hi_it_is_me123 follow me we can chat more
JesseCraft07 Xper 6
+1 y
They'd need to like BDSM otherwise I won't get my sexual needs satisfied. Plus it's just fun. The roughest I would go is maybe whipping
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- Asker
  +1 y
  You are fucking 17, you kiddo lol
- Asker
  +1 y
  How can you even reply. I thought gag dont allow people under 18 to reply to sexuality content
- Asker
  +1 y
  But thanks for your reply
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- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  You can answer sexuality questions but not make sexuality questions. I know the rules Also don't treat me like a kid, I'm in college and I'm 18 in 2 months. I deserve to be treated with respect just as much as you, so don't belittle me
- Asker
  +1 y
  I am sorry. I am not belittling you. It just shocked a little bit seeing teenagers doing hardcore sex. I personally think that you may be addicted to porn. If you already can't be satisfied at this age without bdsm, i am curious what you are going to do when you get older. You are going to want more and more hardcore stuff to the point it gets too harmful. I am just giving some advice. It does not sound healthy to me to want always hardcore sex to get satisfied. People usually do hardcore sex or rough sex not regularly. So what exactly do you mean with bdsm? Sorry for disrespecting you. May i know what bdsm practices you do?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Do you mean a lottle rough sex or do you mean hardcore stuff such as face fuck, blood play
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  When I mean BDSM I mean handcuffs, slight choking, spanking, face fucking or even orgasm torture, making her cum over and over again It's just a very fun thing and I can't wait to experience it with my future girlfriend, I'm a virgin. Been keeping it for my future girlfriend, I want to experience all of those sexual things with her Also thanks for apologising, I appreciate it 😄 by the way I would never even think of doing something that's really painful during BDSM, if she's not enjoying it too then I won't enjoy it either. We both need to have some good fun
- Asker
  +1 y
  Oh everything except facefucking sounds ok to me. I dont know how some girls do that without having painful gag reflex.
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  It usually takes training and the gag reflexes aren't usually painful, some girls don't even have a gag reflex. I'd probably face fuck for like 7 seconds then let her breathe for 4. That kind of cycle haha I'm very dominant if you can't tell haha
- Asker
  +1 y
  Lol wtf okk. Actually gag reflex is a body reflex to avoid getting suffocating. I dont understand why anyone would lose their survival reflex for some stupid sexual practice. Anyone each their own. It is weird to talk about bdsm with a teenage guy. Lol i feel like a pedo
- Asker
  +1 y
  Also be careful and gentle on your first time. Dont rush, learn it together with your potential girlfriend without hurrying up, otherwise you may hurt your girlfriend physically. Bdsm should be practiced carefullly
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  Again 18 in 2 months. Not a kid lol Don't knock it until you try it, you're making it seem like abuse but it's just sexual fun, that's it. The girl and boy is enjoying it when they do it, it's pleasurable and feels great for the girl if she's submissive because that would turn her on
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  Yeah don't worry, it will start slow. My first time will probably be regular anyway haha
- Asker
  +1 y
  So it is ok for you if your potential is older than you and it is not "pedophilia" since you ain't a kid?
- Asker
  +1 y
  The thing it is very normal if a 18-21 years old date a 16-17 in my country but i realize that people think it is pedophilia and attacked a girl just because she is 18-19 and her boyfriend is 17
- Asker
  +1 y
  On tiktok
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  Yeah of course, tbh it's not pedophilia if they're 16+ anyway, under that age is just creepy because they are a literal kid. But 16+ is pretty grown up at that point 🙂 So yeah I'd date a girl older than me, totally fine
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  Some people are just too sensitive really
- Asker
  +1 y
  Oh cool but dont tell anyone on the social media. I swear people literally attacked a 18-21 years old girl whose boyfriend was almost 18 on tiktok
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  Haha people get attacked on social media anyway. But yeah that's just ridiculous
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  Also I appreciate you listening to me about BDSM instead of you just hating on it and shaming me for it That's honestly very kind of you. So thanks for having an open mind about this 🙂
- Asker
  +1 y
  Omg thank you😊😆! You make me more open minded and thank you that you dont judge me for not being into bdsm This is so nice of you 🥰👍.
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  Don't mention it 😄 You're very nice 👍
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  I really appreciate it 🙂
- JesseCraft07
  +1 y
  @hi_it_is_me123 you can message me anytime, I'd love to talk to you 😄👍 Only if you want to 🙂
- ret04
  +1 y
  Dude, she does kinda have a point that you downplayed. You are young, inexperienced, and getting way ahead of yourself. For a guy who's never been with a girl, your desires sound sadistic and based off of what you see in porn. You are talking about trying things with an unsuspecting future girlfriend based on your own desires. You don't seem to realize when it comes to this stuff, it's really not cool unless a girl first confronts you with submissive requests to try things. Just because you get a girlfriend, doesn't mean you can just do whatever you want with her and even if she says you can, doesn't mean you SHOULD. Because girls, especially younger ones will agree to things they don't truly enjoy out of insecurity or blind loyalty. It's really not cool to spring this kinda stuff on a girl and make her feel like it's what she needs to do for you. You seem to only focus on what you want, and talk like a future girlfriend is your means to that end. That's not cool. You need to make sure that a woman has interests in these sorts of things independent of you. It needs to be her idea, not yours. Besides, you haven't had sex. How do you know what will satisfy your needs or not? You should start with the basics and not base your knowledge of what's what from porn videos. I hope you will heed this word of advice and not take offense because honestly dude, I'm just trying to help you realize some things.
Yellovv Guru
+1 y
But too many girls likes rough sex too, because they want to be dominated..
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Pulseofsulfur Xper 7
+1 y
If I was having rough sex with my partner I'd make sure to set a safe word and aftercare is implemented. I mostly like watching BDSM porn when I'm in a really bad mood idek why but that's how I am
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Anonymous
+1 y
I could marry someone that likes regular sex including oral without getting rough or anal
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