Do you believe there is really a sexual peak age?

[Anonymous]

I am 35 so supposedly I am getting close to my peak years. A guy is supposed to peak at 19. Is this science or just made up?

[kaylaS91]

not really.
Though again, it depends on what 'peak' will refer to. There's probably a range of years where women are at the 'peak' of their sexual fertility (meaning highest chance of a healthy egg being released during ovulation), as well as a cut-off date after which men's sperm will also become of lower quality and more likely to contribute to genetic abnormalities during conception.

If we're talking about sexual peak being synonymous with horniness or whatever, that seems hugely dependent on individual context. For example, you can't take a girl being raised in a male-dominated, super conservative culture, and a girl growing up in a super liberal area, and tell me that they'll share the same 'peak age' for openness to sex.

[Tamera952]

Nope i really don't. Seems like it's been all down hill

[blank_expression]

Uhmm what do you consider peak? At 35 you fertility is 10% of your 20s. Studies have stated men begin to feel tired at 59 while women begin to feel tired at 29. Now that study could be contrived but fertility and egg count are real numbers. If they weren’t then women wouldn’t be freezing eggs in their 30s and spending $10K a pop. However, of course, these facts are simply propaganda from the patriarchy dictatorship publications. You won’t really reach your peak until you are dead. That is why we have mirrors and airbrush on make-up. Maybe as you get close to your peak, formaldehyde, and string to prop up that gripped glass of wine to your taxidermist prepared body will stretch that peak out some.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Most people think that sexual peak is to mean how horny they are, but it's not. for men, sexual peak is a reference to their ability to get and maintain erections, amount of sperm produced, and force of ejaculation, etc.. Women's peak is their ability to self-lubricate, vagina elasticity, etc..

How horny someone gets is ageless.. Like the other guy said that he's like a teenager in bed - that's exactly true, but that's his brain, and his body certainly doesn't produce the same levels of the above as it does at "peak" which for men is around 18. For women, it's around 28.

[AustinMan]

There's some science but the good news is that for women, 35 is more of a rising plateau than a peak. A woman who's having frequent hot sex will maintain her drive, even through menopause. For men, it's a use it or lost it thing. A busy, empty prostate is a happy prostate.

Does that help?

[QooLipBite]

Does this explain why there’s this “mom and highschool college student” phenomenon?

Where women in their mature 30-40s ages have high sex drives and desire for young strong males to “satisfy” their needs. Is it just in movies and porno? Or is this also in real life?

[Asker]

I have more sex drive now than when I was younger so I guess that part is true, my body is also more sensitive

[QooLipBite]

Wait, so as an older women with a higher sex drive now, do you ever feel that you would seek a young man in their prime to sexually gratify you?

[QooLipBite]

Older *woman

[Asker]

Not a 19 year old but maybe 29 yes

[QooLipBite]

A man in his physical/sexual prime usually is around 19-25, but am I right in saying that you wouldn’t go below 29?

[Asker]

yes that would be too young for me

[summiter]

I think there is some truth to that. When I was 17-29 I could have sex many many times in a day (or jerk off) Now at 27 I can still go several rounds and like daily sex but it takes a little longer to recharge between sessions. I guess the lesson is for 35 yro women to have a 19 yro boy toy to play with at times!

[I-am-a-nobody]

It was 18 when I was young. I think the whole thing is baloney. Men get one year and women get 10 years, a plateau from 30-40 yo if I remember correctly.

In a lot of ways I enjoy sex more at my advanced age than ever. It's more meaningful and more of a bonding experience rather than a just a physical wham/bam thing.
I know her body and what she wants more than I did as a younger man.

[0112358]

Hormone wise most will peak late teens. Women are more likely to waste that peak with insecurity and some then hit a n effective peak later. Others despair that they don’t look like they did at 19 and completely shut down.

men seem to universally peak early and then vary in how much they slow down. Women peak all over the place depending on circumstances.

[oldguystillhasit]

That sounds about right for women. My wife when she was 38 to 42 she definitely peaked and wanted it all the time. I think though for guys It's closer to 24 maybe 25

[Asker]

So I can look forward to always wanting it in the next 10 years? lol

[oldguystillhasit]

Wanting it badly with a very happy partner

[Asker]

sex drive has gone up since my 20s its true

[humanearth]

Made up. bullshit, I'm 52 and still act like a teenager in the bedroom. I just last longer now

Oh yeah and I'm a thousands times kinky to

[magiusX26]

medically yes. but personally no

[Desconhecida]

The 30s for is girls

[reptocarl2]

Definitely. For guys it’s approximately 17-25. Dow women it’s 33-40

[Asker]

I do think I'm more sexual now than years ago but I can't get my mind around guys being downhill since 19.

[reptocarl2]

Women and men are totally different sexually. Guys in their peak have a constant boner you can bounce bullets off of and will stick it in anything with a pulse no invitation required while women become more vocal about needs and much less shy

[Asker]

😂 true but my desires have risen over the past few years too. I want more sex and orgasms in general than I did when I was in my 20s

[reptocarl2]

That’s my point. You desire it more too

[Asker]

yes but I don't have to have it. unlike a young guy I can control myself

[reptocarl2]

Can you?

[reptocarl2]

What’s “controlling it” mean?

[Asker]

yes, have gone a few weeks with nothing

[reptocarl2]

Do you still think about it? Desire it? Masturbate when you’re between it?

[Asker]

I meant no masturbating either. def 2 weeks maybe more. I doubt the avg guy can do that

[reptocarl2]

Again we’re different and I know you desired and thought about it

[Asker]

well yes, esp that second week 😂

[AmeerX]

You need to use it or lose it type of thing. It is like a red and blue pill. If you don't use it up now you will lose it forever

[TeddyGotT]

I think there is a peak but that it is entirely subjective

[Wise4myage]

I've never believed that, but I suppose its true for some people.

[KrakenAttackin]

You have a peak Sexual Market Value and at 35 your peak value passed several years ago.

[In_Trance]

I think it's made up

[OddBeMe]

Peak at what? Sexual partners or actual sex activity. I’m married, same age and we have a healthy sex life. I have older friends who claim to as well.

[Guardian45]

Medically, there is; however, in my experience it can vary substantially person to person!

[esotericstory]

No lol.

teenager = horny all the time no place to have sex, no peak
young adult = must work all the time to pay rent, no peak
older adult = have little children in the house, no peak
mature age, = children moved out but you are ageing so doing many other activities than just sex

[REDHOTLINE]

Its depends on person , conditions and also which persons you meet

[sri90]

As long as you have that urge n stamina everything is for peak