Do you have any sexual hangups?

[Msputiton]

[DizzyDesii]

Mainly just torn about how soon I’m comfortable doing it. The first sexual partner kind of just ruined me when he knew I was trying to wait til marriage but used his manipulation tactics and pressure to get his way. And the second person I had sex with was the main one trying to wait til marriage but i had returned to celibacy so I was okay with that. Yet I felt like the reason we caved a year and a half in was because of me being a tease. I don't know like I’m not fully comfortable having sex before marriage so i try to fight the temptation as long as possible but when I give in, its over. I become such a downright dirty savage that i fuck without giving a fck. But afterwards, I feel crazy guilt for feeling like I disappointed the Lord. After that other dude, I stopped making the promise to wait til marriage and chose to just remain celibate until I feel ready. But, I dont think i’ll ever just be okay with this new motto because my mind continues to say the opposite of my body. And I constantly try to stop myself when closing in on the moment which pisses off the guys I date. So thats why i instead try to date guys who are also waiting. But then I feel like I’m going to be the one to ruin us and interfere with that. Lmao this is why I have no issue being single because i can't ruin either of us if i am. I just feel like if im gonna break a major thing like this again, i want to feel like it was truly worth it and with the right person, and that something like marriage/kids will eventually come out of it rather than just being told it will when the mfs know it won't

[mandyfire98]

I don't really have any major hangups I'd say. I'm not doing anything like internet freaky or kinky, like that shit that's super wild because the internet has desensitized people. I'm not into any of that but if we are talking just sex, like sex everyone knows about that isn't some weird fetish, then I have no hangups really.

[Msputiton]

We talked about this the other day. They almost purposely desensitizing our generation to be accept the worst person, and allow them to cheat, treat us bad. And just accept the bare minimum. They also convincing us to normalize sex as the most important thing, and dating is not a priority but racking up sexual partners instead.

[Leapfrog00]

I don't do Anal sex unless the girl asks, lol. My ex loved it and used to want me to do it all the time. With some girls though, it's dirty and gross. My ex though, kind of turned me away, lol. I know, I'm probably the only guy in the world that doesn't like this one!

[OfMiceandMen]

It freaks me out when her pets are on the bed while we are messing around. I come by it honestly though, one girl's cat bit me in the ass as he thought I was hurting his mommy. Now I have 👀 in the back of my head whenever there are pets present.

I feel like I'm being judged or they're about to attack/play something they should not.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I grew up being educated that sex is disgusting and should be done only for procreation.

I still believe it to some extent but I managed to let it go a bit and live that part of my relationships more serenely.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Well! I was born with Monorchism (Google it) 😁. And from war! I hot a scar very close to my joint and it caused some damage so i can not feel as a normal person and it took me time to get over it.

[Msputiton]

Okay

[Jaximus-Lion]

Oh! Did i make things be awkward now!

[DJB72]

Definitely. I'm on the submissive side. I spend all day, every day making decisions about other people's behaviour. When I get into bed, is it really so bad that I want a bit more freedom created by being "encouraged" and "rewarded" instead of making even more fucking decisions?

It's too fucking exhausting. Just tie me down and let me enjoy you enjoying me

[exitseven]

I don't want to do anything that involves human excrement.

[humanearth]

Gotta be kinky as fuck

[Msputiton]

Lmao

[Sparkie460]

I don't do anything that causes pain to either of you

[Reddy4it]

So so many…

[PointTaken]

Yes. No partner.

[Msputiton]

Guess that is a hang up

[Fuentes]

I dont eat booty I don't want booty fungus in my mouth.

[Msputiton]

I don't think that's a hang up. You just ain't nasty

[Fuentes]

Well I ain't doing it hahahaa

[Msputiton]

Same. I don't think i could even be with someone who does it🤢🤮

[bananathunder]

I don't do anything outside of the heterosexual zone... or nothing with blood or piss or shit lol

[Paulychicagoluv]

Since I answered the emotional question, yes. Since I have to be in sync with someone emotional to be with them sexually, then yes

[Msputiton]

Understand

[EaterPeter]

Yes I do. What is that?

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Xtendable]

Yeah, from when I was married

[Msputiton]

Understand

[Xtendable]

Thankyou

[Greenbins]

I don't sleep with ho's..

[Anonymous]

Anything anal