Do you prefer condoms or the pull and pray?

[coachTanthony]

[Anonymous]

Well, seeing as I have gotten four women pregnant, I guess that answers the question about as clearly as anything could. Definitely in the "pull and pray" category.

Honestly, though, I just find condoms to be artificial and they detract from the sexual experience. Intellectually I know better, but the truth is that I like sex to be a raw and natural act. An expression of a man's - and a woman's - natural instincts. I don't mean rough sex, but a very animal kind of sex and condoms really do detract from that.

Again, intellectually I know better, but to me, the idea of putting my seed in a woman, in effect taking control of her naked body and potentially making a baby that is my flesh and blood just makes sex that much hotter.

Plus, and this is indirectly related to the question, I won't lie, but seeing those women pregnant and carrying my baby was really hot. Having sex with them just really turned me on so I didn't have, put that all together, any real incentive to use birth control.

Don't get me wrong, if a woman asked me to use a condom, I would do it. However, I found that sex somehow less satisfying. Not unsatisfying, per se. Just less satisfying than unprotected sex.

Oh, as to the babies, I am involved in my children's lives. Actually, I have four children, but with only two of the women. With the first woman - I was 19 at the time - she had a miscarriage. The second - the only one I deeply regret and resent, she had an abortion without telling me. I will never forgive her.

My girlfriend and I have three children together. I got her pregnant the first time and we had the baby. Then she got pregnant again and we decided to move in together and have lived together ever since. Our third child was semi-planned, but in any case I love my girlfriend and the little gifts she gave me - two boys, ages 11, 9 - and my little princess - age 7 - more than words can say.

With my oldest it was a bit more complicated. It was a one night stand and we really did not know each other. I got her pregnant but she only told me two years ago that I had a son when he was 12. He is now 14 and I love him as much as I do my other children and I am working - with the help of my loving and understanding girlfriend - to build a relationship with my son.

Bottom line, I want to be a man who has raw and natural sex. However, when a man gets a woman pregnant it is his job to love and care for the little gifts she puts in your arms. So it is, to my mind, less about prayer than about being a man and I have - with the exception of my poor little aborted angel - no regrets.

[Bricealan]

When I was younger - 20's and 30's and had an active sex life, I used the withdrawal method most of the time, and although I did not get any one pregnant ( most were on BC I honestly believe) I am not sure if that was dumb luck or exactly what saved me AND her.

[butterly248]

Pregnant that you know off

[butterly248]

Of **

[Bricealan]

@butterly248 Pretty sure no one got pregnant. Maybe a friend's wife.

[butterly248]

I'm confused lol

[Bricealan]

@butterly248 In my early 30's slept with a girl in my apartment complex in Ohio. I knew her and her husband, went to the same college as her husband. (Doing post Grad classes) Her husband was in the National Guard, and on a week when he was gone to Guard Camp, she and I fucked several times over the weekend he left. She told me she had "just finished my period" ... so no condom, and assuming no BC. I left Ohio and moved here that December. (We fucked in June) Next time I saw them was here in SF and she had a daughter. Have no idea if she might be my daughter.

[Screenwriter]

The problem with pull and pray is that it is also a fine way to get an STD. Pulling out is nearly worthless as pregnancy prevention. Failure rate is greater than 20 percent for EACH sexual encounter. So if you have sex three times in a night, you're rolling the dice.

In addition, every time a woman orgasms, her cervix dips into the well of sperm to suck it in! Isn't that convenient!

Since there are sperm in the pre-cum, long before a man ejaculates, but when he first becomes excited and erect, pulling out is rather late.

And when do women want to have sex MOST? When they are OVULATING! It's that awful biological imperative.

[pickles77]

That’s awesome lol

[Screenwriter]

@pickles77 Awesome and TERRIBLE. jeez

[Jamesier]

Men ovulate all year round.

[Screenwriter]

@Jamesier thats the general problem with you guys!!! Every three days another 100 million of fresh sperm made. Shudder.

[electromagnetic]

I’ve always been a Pull and Pray until my body decides to prank me back. Lucky no babies into 2024 (not yet anyways) but me and my contraceptive are going into 2924 confident.

[krugdog]

do you like creampies?

[dynamicyandere]

Keep sex within committed exclusive relationships and you won’t even have to encounter this dilemma. 🙂

[WhiteSteve]

What I prefer for sensation and what I prefer for responsibility are not the same, haha

[Jasmin01]

Neither the one nor the other. I'm on the pill so I'm not worried about getting pregnant.

[krugdog]

So you like feeling a man cum deep inside you unprotected? Filling you with everything

[HM1189]

And what about STDs?

[Lliam]

Neither. If a girl isn't on the pill or some other form of contraception, she has no business engaging in sex and I won't fuck her.

[Mr_twoface]

When you are young, as an active guy, you do a lot of things which you do regret later on. Among these was for me to have sex without condoms cause the feeling was just sensational and to creampie all those encounters who were willing to take it. I always took for granted that she was on the pill. Luckily I'm not famous and no one has yet to date claimed anything.

[OlderAndWiser]

Neither. Monogamous relationships only, we both get tested, and at my age, even the "younger" women are post-menopausal, so no worries about making bambinos.

[IslaTheWitch]

As a birth control I prefer something more reliable. But if it wasn't available for any reason then condom for sure.

I'm not a believer, so praying wouldn't work for me :D

[MasterKS]

@islathewitch ultimate rubber!

[Bricealan]

Yep, it never worked for me either!

[lightbulb27]

get married and let nature take it's course. even "control" doesn't work. the whole purpose of this is to make offspring... nature finds a way.

[HelpfulWoman]

should easily be the condoms, you know, the ACTUAL birth control method.
Dumbasses who "pull and pray" should be sterilised to not dilute the gene pool with their idiocy

[summiter]

Condoms any day... The pull out method does not work cause precum has sperm in it

[Apple1996]

I prefer just getting pregnant

[krugdog]

So you love getting filled with cum? The risk of impregnation and breeding

[Apple1996]

@krugdog yess I love creampies

[HM1189]

Yea, we can see that

[Apple1996]

@HM1189 I can't help it. Babies are so cute

[RebelinSteel]

If it’s a casual , random bit of sex I will always use a condom.
if dating then she will be on BC and it’s the usual messy fun.

[PeachyPie93]

Condoms

[NathanDavis]

I've never relied on either

[ShadezMcgee]

I have done both, but only definitely prefer condom if birth control is not being used by a woman. I only stopped using them with my current girlfriend, first amd only woman I have gone bare with.

[aceleon]

prefer pills and pray.

[WhitneySnow]

When I lose my virginity I will definitely use birth control and make my partner use a condom. I do not want to get pregnant.

[Texasgal95]

Condoms until we are ready to start trying for a family

[MasterKS]

@texasgal95 shitty rubber!

[Miristheiss]

We did nothing. Pure sex. We had 2 kids and I now have had a vasectomy.

Still have pure sex.

[lilBigPotato]

Inside. I trust science, no need to pray

[MasterKS]

@lilbigpotato risktaker!