Does the way you behave toward someone who turns you on change after you’ve had an orgasm and you’re fully satisfied?

Like before you finish you’re all flirty and maybe even a little sexual and afterward you’re like “Stop it, I wanna read for a while.”
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I was thinking of a specific situation when I posted this. My girlfriend in high school was dancing with a guy at a teen club and they started grinding on each other. His dick was pressed against her crotch and she said she could feel his head rubbing right on her clit. After a few minutes she excused herself, went to the bathroom and rubbed off. When she came back he tried grinding on her again and she was like “Quit it, I’m not into it anymore.”
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II. Her defense, she was 16 and a virgin and had never gotten that turned on by a guy irl before.
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  • Usually it's the guy who does that !! Men tend to lose their interest after ejaculating, while women are capable of multiple orgasms and the first one barely primes the pump! So this is quite unusual.

    • I only have multiples about half the time. Usually when I’m super turned on.

    • As far as my point goes, it still is an anomaly if it happens to a girl. And at least you can HAVE multiple orgasms !!! LOL We can't.

  • That's a general human brhaviour pattern.

  • the difference between scratching an itch and getting a massage. fulfilling a lusty moment is just scratching an itch

  • I think this really has something to it. But it is different with a special person.

    I guess, having a "yes" from a girl is the same. When I was following this girl and she saying she liked me too, it made me to question my feelings for her. Tho with this girl, I felt so easy after she telling me that she liked me too.

  • Yeah but not when you love that person

    • A female friend of mine told me once: if you want to decide between two girls, pay attention to who you think of first AFTER you cum. That's who you want.

    • After reading your description, I'd say that yes, independently of if you love the person or not.

    • I totally agree 😊

  • In arousal, yes. In attraction, no.
    There's no point trying to turn your preference for arousal into anything else though.

    • Why do you draw such a sharp distinction between the two?

    • Those you are attracted to you want to hug after sex. Those you found arousing you want to dump/run away from. It's basic human behavior, not me making any distinctions. It's everyone else pretending that it's the same thing that's funny. And the endless arguments of women being turned on/aroused - and pretending they want a relationship - and then finding someone to blame him over afterwards so they can just dump him and find the next fuck. Which is all biology - fuck as many guys as you can to get the strongest sperm into your eggs. That part is fine, the hypocrisy over it is not.

    • I totally disagree

  • I do act different when my needs haven't been met in awhile

    • Same

  • Nope, it's never happened to me. It must be great to have sex though.

    • It is 😊

    • You don't have to rub it in you know...

    • I’m really sorry. I wasn’t reading closely and I thought you were being literal.

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  • Yes even when i jerk off after im done i say that's it im not doing it again its a waste of time. And if with someone that turns me on i will never get tired.

  • Not that drastically at all, but usually I'm thinking a lot more logical after an orgasm.

    • Yeah, me too

  • Not unless I'm sleep deprived for day's on end. In which case I might actually get some sleep with having to drug myself LoL

    • Without lol

  • I have had this experience before, I tried to overwork it though
    Or good lady and I will have had the conversation for post climax

  • No I wanna go until we pass out.

    • Nice!!!

    • To point I got a concussion.

    • Wow...

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  • I ask myself this question sometimes as well. My ex boyfriend used to be very touchy with me. After he would ejaculate, I felt like he didn't even want to kiss and I found that quite annoying.

  • Not me. I want to keep going. Once I reach that high sexual point, I’m there until I have had many orgasms and all out of cum.

    • Yeah, I have multiple orgasms too sometimes if the sex is really good

    • @WhiteShoulder Wow, bet we would do a lot of cumming together

  • No I'm the same way

    • Cool

  • Nope, she'd only have to spread her legs and I'd get my head down there like in a second.

  • not really unless I wasn't really interested in the person in the first place

    • Cool

  • I think In My regards I enjoy the afterglow and can lead to round 2 if she wanted. But I love giving oral to women.

    • Cool :-)

  • It happens a lot. Usually it stays the same with me.

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