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Don't some men who follow the pump and dump method know they shouldn't be proud that they are a lousy lay?

Please tell me if you use that pathetic method is it that you just sucked at sex in the first place so you have to stick it in and cum quickly before she realizes she's sleeping with a douchebag? 🤣🤣 I just don't get how a guy can be proud of being a minuteman.
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I want to make it clear I'm not talking about men that have one night stands or a friends with benefits. I'm talking about the losers that lie and make a woman believe he wants more just to f'ck her. I know most men are not like that and I want to commend you guys that value us.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys like that have—I hope—the minuscule self-worth that they deserve. It is exactly these guys who inexplicably find no joy in pleasuring a woman, that give *all* guys a reputation of being lazy, selfish, and uncaring in bed.

    No guy is perfect all the time, but prioritizing your woman’s pleasure is what makes a guy a great lover. It’s never about the number of conquests. That only impresses other guys in the locker room, and I’ve never had sex to impress a bunch of guys. I want her to come back for more; that’s honestly the most rewarding part of sex for me.

    These are the same guys who’ll tell you they think it’s disgusting to perform oral, who dismiss an experienced woman as a slut, and think that only a virgin is worthy of marriage. They’re too afraid of a relationship with an experienced woman. She’d never put up with them, and they have no idea what their missing.

    It’s not that there is anything wrong with a woman saving her virginity for Mr. Right, but when a guy only wants a virgin because he presumes she doesn’t know any better and hypocritically calls other women names… sorry, but I have no respect for that.

    • Omg! You are awesome. You so get it and I wish every man thought like you. Luckily these guys only make up a minimal part of the male population.

    • I’m heartened to hear you think it’s a minimal amount of guys, because it truly bothers me when women have that opinion of men in general. You see it here every day. Thank you, I appreciate the feedback. :)

    • Thank you. I've had enough life experience to know most of you guys are good.😎

  • It's not something I am planning on doing but I guess it is apart of the friends with benefits culture. I think the hard part when girls fall for guys that are not interested in a relationship. I think girls need to play a part too. Girls need to be careful with who they have sex with. Given it's not fool proof but they should find a way before sex to know that they are as committed as they are. Unless they know it is going to be a one night stand in the first place. I also fully agree that guys should not take advantage of girls like that in the first place.

    • I have nothing against men just wanting sex or a friends with benefits. It's the ones that deceive women into believing they want more just to f'ck them and disappear. Its especially the ones that do it because they think all women are whores and that's all they are good for. Otherwise even I've been down to having a one night stand or friends with benefits relationship. But in those situations no one was lying to the other. I think it's pretty pathetic a guy has to lie just to even get a woman to sleep with him.

    • Agreed It is pretty sad that guys do that...

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lol. I know it sounds that way but that's not what is meant. It's actually crueler. It means that they simply use a woman for sex and dispose of her.

    • However you define it. A guy said he pumps and dumps women because they are all whores. To me if a guy f'cks a woman with this mentality and doesn't care about her, he's not gonna care about pleasing her sexually. He's only gonna care about dumping his load and go. Therefore he's a lousy lay.

  • I don’t think they have respect for anyone willing to sleep with them in the first place.

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  • They have more to be ashamed of than being a minuteman- the pump and dump method is beyond pathetic in the first place, as is anyone who does it.

    • Thank you. It's good to see some real decent men on here.

  • Um the pump and dump method?

    • Oh, well those guys don't really care what the women think, It's about them right? They got what they want, to release their shit, and that's all they cared about. Also, just another notch on the bed post. It's all a game to them.

  • I don't know either. Fundamental misunderstanding about a woman's arousal. Or worse, just doesn't care. The latter boggles my mind since I think the biggest turn on is a lover's arousal and climax (es)

    • Yes. You get it. I've only dealt with one of these guys when I was young, dumb, and didn't know any better.

  • Unfortunately, we live in an era when men are proud to have voted for a pussygrabbing multiple-philandering douchebag for president. For such men, "pumping and dumping" is an honor since respect for women is not part of their psychological makeup.

  • I agree whole heartedly. PE needs treating, not encouraging!

  • It just makes it that much better when I have two hours of foreplay and sex with them.

  • Never felt any desire to attempt this lifestyle.

    • Because you are a real man. Thank you for that.

    • Thanks pm:) Appreciate the compliment.

  • Because
    1) women in his past never told him what a piss poor lover he is and never took the time to give instructions or
    2) he just doesn’t give a fuck and is only out for his own satisfaction

  • I know exactly what you mean, a couple of girls I met strung me along and then fucked me, and then left in the night/ morning after and said I was just a quick fuck for them nothing more. It's hard being pumped and dumped like that

    • They are not real women. No one should ever be tricked into sleeping with them. Sorry some women are douchebags too.

  • Never heard of this method

  • yeah but why would they care? they got what they wanted xD

    • They will care when it bites them in the a$$ someday. Or when he finally meets a woman he falls for and she dumps him because he only knows how to be a selfish lover. Women will not give him the time of day and he'll end up alone. He won't be laughing then.

    • Maybe he knows how to be a good lover but he doesn't care to be as long as he doesn't love her

  • "This guy must suck in bed because he's doing something I don't agree with."

    So typical.

  • My guess is that guys who pump and dump don't really care what their victims think.

  • They're not. That's why "the dump" happens. He couldn't bare to see you again

    • Sweetheart, I'm talking about the guys that go in it with the intention to f'ck her and disappear leading her to believe he wants more because he thinks all women are whores. I'm not talking about a one night stand.

    • So maybe some extra homework is required before getting physical. Turn the bullshit detector up a few notches too

    • That's very true. I was your age when it happened to me. I learned so it never happened again. Still it was sad that heartless men like that existed. And it sucks that we have to be careful and guarded. It just makes it harder for the good guys.

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  • I never knew it was something to be proud of. Seems kind of pathetic to me.

  • It's not right. I get the woman off a few times before I can in her and keep playing after.

    • You are one of the good ones. Sex is not good unless both are enjoying it. Pumper and dumpers don't know what they are missing.

    • Sex is best when you give a woman multiple orgasms before getting off

    • I feel women should get multiple orgasms before I finish.

  • No I might pump and dump all through the night. It's OK she will squeal like a pot belly pig. And like a good little piggy she generally comes back for more.

  • I wouldn't know

  • Never been that way always had long term girl friends in padt

  • They're uncaring buffoons. Even during one night stands I try my best to make it worthwhile. People who don't care about the pleasure of their partner are hollow inside.

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