Relax, just because you made one decision that you're not proud of does NOT mean you're a "whore."
Do you have sex with people for money? No.
Do you fuck anything that moves? Not from what you've said.
It's understandable that all that sexual tension would release itself once their was a viable opportunity after so long.
I would advise you to contact this guy again (if you can), explain that you really like him and then further discuss your relationship situation and that you'd like to get to know him better. You can smooth over the awkwardness with a glaze of "obviously I'm really physically attracted to you, otherwise I wouldn't have given you a blow job last time."
If the guy is decent, y'all can have a good laugh over it and hopefully start a make out session that brings you closer and takes things a little slower.0 1 0 0I agree.
Uh if he didn't call you back because he thinks you're easy, then he's a dumbass hypocrite bitch for letting you suck him off before cutting you off. No point explaining anything to that exploitative son of a turd. And I don't get you either, you didn't even get off, learn some priorities and don't do that again.
And yes you absolutely lose respect when you put out this quick. Sex is power, especially as a woman. Withholding sex is the best thing you can do for yourself if you're actually looking for a relationship.4 0 0 0
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Quite honestly, he sounds like a jerk. You can do better than him.
I don't see anything wrong with what you did. You acted in the heat of the moment. It happens. Life would be boring if we never did that. And he obviously liked it too, or else he would have stopped you. If he actually lost respect for you, then he's not only an idiot but also a hypocrite.
I advise you to contact him and talk to him about how he feels about what happened. Maybe he's cool with everything. And if not, you at least know what kind of person he is and you can get rid of him.1 0 0 0You're not a whore. Maybe bad judgement but all you did was give into your feelings that felt right at the time. You're regretting it now so you know that isn't who you really are. He may think of you differently but so what if you're never going to see him again. But if you are interested in him and still want to see him, maybe try to explain your situation and how you ended up doing what you did because it all sounds pretty reasonable to me.
0 0 0 0No, this doesn't make you a whore. However, I can't really understand how your sexual tension was relieved just by pleasing him as you don't seem to receive anything from this encounter yourself.
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9 25you're fine, just don't make it a regular thing because you will give yourself a reputation and that sucks. It's understandable, don't worry :)
0 0 0 0No don't beat yourself up I understand fully and of course you have so much to offer a man. Nothing wrong at all. Did you have any contact at all after. I suggest you don't mention it and just send a hi txt. Girls do sometimes think sex should lead to a relationship it doesn't Allways. He may of lost your number as simple as that. Don't mention the sexual frustration. Happy to discuss further if you want to message me.
0 0 0 1You don't have to justify yourself to us, if you like sex then go for it, although if the only thing you want is sex it won't work wonders for a relationship
1 0 0 0No, but I wouldn't suggest doing that too often.
0 0 0 0Yes epic fuck up, yes whorish, yes men lose respect in such circumstances. But the good news is if he was really keen that wouldn't have chased him away. But next time maybe try to resist
1 0 0 1Actually no it's not whorish, because a whore would've got paid
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