Girls, do you think sex is much better with an older, mature man, or with guys in their 20's and 30's?

Older men are much more of a turn on in my opinion.
I was with a man that was 59 and for the first time I liked being in bed with a "Man" and not a young guy with one hair on his chest.
Conversations after sex are much more enlightening that a young stud that just wants to hop off when he is finished.
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  • A very hard question to answer in a truly Objective way. Sex as a young person is really more exciting because it is "New" and invites exploration of another persons body. BUT the lack of some experience, and 'control' leads to disappointing sex. (At least for me it did) CASE IN POINT:

    As a 'young' guy when 19 -22, I was 'anxious' to the point of being impotent with an absolute drop dead beautiful girl in Daytona Beach not only ONCE, but three times!!

    Not only did she seem to like me very much she invited me to her home, AFTER spring break and both returning to our respective home state of OHIO.

    Point being, had I been a bit older, say mid or late 20's I would have know better than to let the 'Jitters' level me impotent with this very pretty girl, and at the very least would have responded with oral sex which she would have probably liked better anyway.

    The physical part of sex, is more exciting with a young, firm body, but yet, the lack of ability to handle that can be disappointing to both parties.

  • You are exectly right, older people love more, and care more, because they are matured and mentally compromising, less chance of cheating

    • @Cheerfull009 I believe that. However, I don't think there is an age limit when it comes to cheating. Seems like no matter how old a man is, he is still turned on visually and what's to stop him from going for it? I don't think there is an age limit on cheating. You can have a girlfriend for many years, be 65 and still go after it. Of course they don't always call it cheating, it was just fulfilling his sexual needs. 🙄

    • @sage2021, according to your age, may be you are right, with age sexual desire decreases, sex drive goes down due to old age

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  • I've had sex with the same guy in my early 20s all the way up through my 30s and I will say he gets better and better with age—though he was an absolute god to start with honestly. 😩

  • 100% older. They're generally more experienced and know how to please a woman. They're more mature in how they go about it and last longer.

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  • Conversation was probably good because you were with someone your age and have more in common with him. Also the older I get the more uncomfortable I get looking at girls my daughters age with lust on the mind.

    • @lova Yeah you don't want to be with someone that you have to raise like a child

  • I have to say that men in middle age are still young enough to be vigorous, but are old enough to possess the superpower of patience. …in addition to being more interesting. :)

  • Each has its benefits

  • mature or old?

  • 20s & 30s for sure

  • I'm better than I was in my 20s and 30s, although I was very considerate then.

  • Older men are probably better in bed but I prefer someone around my age.

    • I prefer women slightly younger than my age 20s-30 or my age 30. Im recently 30. I feel like it seems even if i had gotten luckier, I'd seem to have ended up with a woman who's maybe say 18-24 when I'm 26-30. Lol. Ah well. What could've been.

    • As in at 30, I'd have dated a woman who's 18 to 30. If i was 20 again, I'd like date a woman who's 18 or 20. If I was 25 again I'd date a woman who's 20 or 21. Lol 😆

    • True. That's just your preference. Totally understandable.

  • Earlier in my life when a girl showed a hint of moisture, I was in up to the hilt. I am more relaxed now.

  • Even in my younger years, I never wanted to just hop off. I'd stay in bed with her, kiss her a lot, tell her I love her and snuggle with her and then fall asleep with her in my arms.

  • With a mature experienced man.

  • It's better with older guys

  • What about if you mean that you Asker would rather be 20s/30s again either in your time era or in the modern era as 20s/30s yourself again. I imagine aging is not always all it's cracked up to be? :)

    • Just being curious 😁😞😀

  • Age does have some advantages to be sure!

  • Older men usually understand my kinks XD 💯

    • Lol indeed 😂

    • @jennz6 What are you kinks?

    • You're not asking me I take it sir? ♂️

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  • Older guys

    • @may_summers experienced matters.

  • How old are you?

  • Well I always make sure she is satisfied and we do last longer and longer foreplay is a good thing

  • I know guys older than me who are less considerate in bed than I. I know to give better than I get.

  • @sage2021 older mature men are better for me , well experienced and turn on.

    when I was young I mostly go for older guys

  • I would like to think that I'm better than men in their 20s or even 30s. Ans thankfully, I have been told so! :-)

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