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Sexual Health Guys, am I overacting to this? I found in my husband's google history that he had been looking at p*rn!
Lovemuffin31 Xper 4
So I found in my husband's google history that he had been looking at p*rn and other things for over a year without me knowing. I can let the p*rn stuff go, but 2 searches in particular really bothered me. One was 18 yr old in tights and the other teens putting on tights. I asked him about this and he said it meant 18 and 19 yr olds. And the girls from what I saw did look like they were 18+. I told him that p*rn sites will have 18+ but google will pretty much show any age and he said he didn't realize that. He isn't that computer savvy so that could be the case. He only searched this once and all of his other searches were relating to tights and pantyhose so I'm thinking it was more about that then the age. I am also bothered by the fact that he kept all of this a secret and also that he never asked me to wear tights if that was such a fantasy of his. I work in a office and I wear tights all the time and he never said anything. He did also search for anal virgins which I know it's just chicks having anal for the first time, but of coarse they were young too. This has bothered me to the point where I've been contemplating divorce. I just need some insight into a guy's mind about all of this. Is it common for men to look stuff like that up? What should I think about all of this? by the way, he's 42 and I'm 31. Been married 10 years and have 2 kids.
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What Guys Said
(23)In p*rn there are basically only two ages: 18 and milf. If you want to see someone younger than forty, she's "18"... So don't be too concerned about his searches
OMG! You're married to a human male! :) You're fine... he's fine... and he has a fetish for tights... not uncommon. I suggest you buy a few pair! :)
Okcupid did research with there users about the average age they are most attracted to and here's the result in a graph:
https://tinyurl.com/lohv485
It basically says that on average men find women that are 20 (or very close to 20) the most attractive, until they are at least 50. Also note that the study only included the age groups from 20-50, so basically (almost) all of the ages in the study chose the youngest possible option. So I wouldn't be concerned about him looking at porn that stars 18 to 21 years olds, because that basically makes him "normal"as the graphs shows..
Here's the one for women in case you're curious:
https://tinyurl.com/p9nqa6b
Don't overreact to it. He prob has a pantyhose fetish just like me. When my partner found out she wasn't exactly thrilled by the fact that I love gals in pantyhose that much. Slowly she's beginning to accept my fetish and now we even have fun with pantyhose. She'll wear it when we have sex.
Don't divorce him he doesn't sound like a bad guy.
What's the problem? 18 is legal, right? And tights? Still legal?
Does he like to wear your tights? Did you ask him that?
Actually he did admit to me that he tried in a pair of mine but didn't like it. Should I be worried about that?
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Your making a big deal out of nothing
I think that you can learn a lot about people like what they like and how to spice up you're love life
Seriously you are thinking of a divorce over just a few porn searches
What we men have as a fantasy is not what we want in real sometimes
I mean a fantasy is a thought where you can be a superhero etc
So it's just a fantasy you don't need to be bothered
And plzz watching porn is not cheating if you think it is (as some people claim to be) as I came across some questions stating it to be a case of cheating
You're 31 and only just found out guys watch porn? Well, each at their own pace I guess. Welcome to real life!