Guys, how would you react if your girlfriend said she wanted you to control her in the relationship and make her your bitch?
Guys, how would you respond to that request? And any suggestions on how I should ask him for this lifestyle?
I just dont know if he would go for it. he's a great guy and seems to favor equality in relationships more. I try to showcase my submissive nature by taking care of him - I will come cook and clean at his place without him asking, I'll do his laundry, I massage his back and feet, etc. He enjoys it but he also resists it. I dont think he's used to it and he doesn't want me to feel taken advantage of. He always says I dont have to do these things, but I want to! I'm into much kinkier/rougher things, but I don't know if he would be into it. I would love it if he would grab me by the hair and slap me hard if I don't follow orders or do a task correctly, I would love for him to tell me to be on my knees when he gets home. I tried to start that by teasing him via text when I'm at his place, saying I'll be on my knees when he gets home and waiting for him to fuck me. But I don't know if he's getting the hint as to how dominant I want him to be. I want him to feel like he owns me.
Do you think he could ever change in this way? Be more dominant and aggressive?
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