He begged me not to leave and to cum inside of me?

[Anonymous]

I have been seeing a guy for two months. The day he came over and was saying weird things he normally doesn’t say. We started cuddling and he said “i don’t know how you’re going to feel about this but... i have love for you” then about 20 minutes later he said “I’m not going to let you go. I’m never letting you go”
Then he asked me “are you going to leave me?” And i said “as long as you treat me right I’m not going anywhere”
Before the night was over we ended up having sex and this is where i got weirded out. While having sex he begged me three time to finish inside of me and each time I said “no” then he said “ please i don’t want you to leave me”
Later that night he kept grabbing my foot and putting my foot in his face and on his chest

[Anonymous]

Yeah, that's a huge red flag: he's trying to trap you by getting you pregnant (assuming you're not on any birth control and he's not wearing a condom). Or he sees that as a way of "claiming" you as his by cumming in you.

Regardless that's very unhealthy and controlling behavior. I would be careful of that guy.
If you're not on birth control, he probably figures if he cums inside of you, you'll get pregnant then guess what? You're trapped with him! Well not trapped but he will have to stay around to care for the baby.
The problem with that is, he might lose interest in you or realize he doesn't like you, then you will be stuck with a child and a reminder of him for the rest of your life.

Beware. I wouldn't see or sleep with him again.

[Asker]

I talked to him about it and he said “I’m sorry i was drunk”

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah right. Was he really drunk? I don't believe that at all... Seriously anon, be careful...

[Anonymous]

He seems a bit possessive and very thirsty to me. You’re probably right to be weirded out. If he doesn’t settle down and act normal very soon, I’d walk.

[Asker]

He said he was drunk

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he was, maybe he wasn’t. If you couldn’t tell, then I doubt he was. Just watch yourself.

[Levin]

Sounds like he has abandonment or rejection issues.

I would suspect this will keep coming back if he doesn't deal with it in a proactive manner (ie some kind of talking or therapy about the childhood events that may be responsible for this). Saying it's just being drunk is a nonsense, since being drunk is when all the subconscious thoughts get expressed.

[HypocriteJack]

Sounds like he is very needy and wants to knock you up. It feels like he has lots of trust issues and definitely needs help. You should talk to him about his behaviour if you feel that you don't like him anymore then you need to breakup. Its just 2 months, you need to know about his past too.

[Asker]

I talked to him about it and he said “I’m sorry i was drunk”

[HypocriteJack]

Lol didn't you kiss him and had literally sex. How couldn't you figure out he was drunk. And how could he be hard for so long that he came thrice. Make sure he is not fooling you. Drunk people can't hold their erection for long and also have trouble getting erections.

[Asker]

He didn’t seem drunk to me. But I’m not sure how he acts when he’s had a few drinks. He came once

[Rocco7070]

Ill say this, whether or not he cums in you is a very large part your business. Thats an ultimate concurring trip, an ultimate turn on, its very natural but you dont have to do it if uncomfortable , so...

[Meatunnel69]

Let him breed your ovaries and give life to his seed

[asshole_]

sounds like he's tryina get you pregnant

[Asker]

He said he was drunk

[asshole_]

doesn't matter, sounds like he was tryina get you pregnant, lying or not

[Asker]

Why though

[asshole_]

also, wouldn't that be rape? he was drunk, you let him fuck you while he was drunk. isn't that rape?

[asshole_]

why do you think

[Asker]

I didn’t know he was drunk

[asshole_]

i think thats rape

[Asker]

We talked about the sex and he said “I’m sorry i was drunk”

[asshole_]

any rapist would say that

[Anonymous]

Is there a question here?