He uses much prettier women to get off to?

So I hadn't been seeing him because I work a lot. But we had sex twice amd we both came a lot. Then I noticed on hos phone he had several images of girls on a site called imagefap and I guess he was looking at it before we fucked. Why am I not hot enough? He used these images before we fucked, I guess because it turned him on more than me?

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  • You had not seen each other for a while so he may have been under so much pressure that he would have come instantly which he could find embarrassing. Even for a young man it would not be best to jerk off just before sex, but rather a bit earlier.

    The important thing is that he should be able to separate fantasy and reality. Those are just images, so it's clear that the women should be as sexually hot as possible to have an effect. With a real woman it is always much better and she is naturally hot enough for her guy.

    For example, some man enjoy looking at rather extreme body types to jerk off to, but they can have a much better balanced taste in real life. It's not the same thing.

    • He was looking at these pictures while I was in the shower at his place... if he can't get turned on by me alone then what's the point? Why does he need a dozen pictures of a skinny blonde with big tits to fuck me?

    • It's like he needed these images to be able to fuck me.. he didn't jerk off and cum. I think he just looked at them to be turned on enough to fuck, which is a problem in my book

    • Like why would he need help from other women to get turned on by his real life girlfriend? I mean, maybe I'm too fat or something?

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  • It's not a preference. It is a visual aid/inducement. It's a means of making sure he's there for you.
    I like Yandex. as well.

    • It feels like he was looking at these images to get himself turned on by me. I see this as a problem. Like maybe he's not into me or. my body very much...

    • He was looking at these pictures while I was in the shower at his place... if he can't get turned on by me alone then what's the point? Why does he need a dozen pictures of a skinny blonde with big tits to fuck me?

    • Do you look at porn before you fuck your girlfriend too?

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  • Men that watch porn are trash

    • What about women that read erotica?

    • @Venymal they even worse. Like who still reads anymore? Lol

  • If Chris Hemsworth runs by shirtless are you not going to look?

    • Ok but I'm not gonna sit and look it up online right before he fucks me in order to get turned on by him either...

    • How do you know WHEN he was looking at it? Have you never watched porn together?

  • Regardless of his reasons for doing so, if he is looking at porn pics of other girls before being with you, it’s incredibly disrespectful.

    • Does it mean I'm not hot enough or not good enough in bed for him I guess?

  • sounds like there's some assumptions being made there, but everyone finds others attractive and fantasize about them. it's natural

    • Yes but why would he do that while I'm physically present and in the shower about to fuck him in like 15 minutes... kinda seems like he was using better women to be able to be aroused with me...

  • Bruh..

    He uses much prettier women to get off to?
    • It's like he needed these images to be able to fuck me.. he didn't jerk off and cum. I think he just looked at them to be turned on enough to fuck, which is a problem in my book

    • Read a different book

    • He was looking at these images while I was in the shower at his place getting ready to fuck him... why would he need help from other women to get turned on by me?

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  • Pretty normal to do, ugly ones are not going to do it for him and he is with you for more than just looks and obviously you’re not going to always be the best looking woman out there so that’s why but it’s all fantasy in our minds is all

    • So I'm probably kinda ugly then?

    • Be honest..

    • I doubt it , I had a beautiful wife and still looked at pretty women, it’s just what guys do, we are very visual, so that’s what usually gets us turned on, but we don’t know the woman in the pictures. That’s why we’re with the woman that we are with because we love them for other reasons besides their beauty

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  • A man jacking off to other girls does not mean that he finds them more attractive than you. The reason he would jack off to other women before you two have sex is so that he lasts longer in bed.

    • He didn't jack off to cum. I was in the shower getting ready to fuck him and he was just looking at them. Why would he need other women to help him be aroused for me?

    • Maybe he's not into my body as much anymore?

    • Physical attraction does not equal sexual attraction. I've been with girls who I found more physically attractive than others (prettier) but didn't arouse as much as other girls who I've found less physically attractive.

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  • he is just a man, that's all

    • So it's normal for him to edge to some hot woman talking about how she'd like to. be spanked and her pussy hanging out before he has sex with me? Like am I that bad that he has to get himself worked up to fuck me?

    • no it's not your fault, it's just that men are like that.

    • He was looking at these pictures while I was in the shower at his place... if he can't get turned on by me alone then what's the point? Why does he need a dozen pictures of a skinny blonde with big tits to fuck me?

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