How can I masturbate without impure thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Is there a way I can get the release without sinning? Only helpful answers please.

[Makeushiver]

Remove the word impure from your vocabulary- or at least apply it to water only. True fact, the clitoris is the only organ of any gender that exists purely to receive pleasure. I hate religious convos but the only way theologically.
If God created everything, including sexual desire and your lovely clit and you feel ashamed of it than you are sitting in judgement of od and his creation. You may be confusing religion-a political institution responsible for more misery than anything I can think of. God is a completely different matter, read outside your own religion. Spirituality explores pths to the unnameable, universal and infinite. Religion is practed obce a week and ignored for rest of time unless it's necessary to evoke war

[Trooper205]

I've tried this before, and it works! Simply wait until you're too Horny to hold off, and rub while thinking of a sweet song, or focus on something you're looking at. Now, it's tough... It's hard to masturbate and not focus on it. It takes a while. Maybe, instead of focusing on Sexual thoughts, focus on the sensation you're giving yourself!

[Asker]

Thanks!😊 I hope I can manage to focus all the time

[MyraAmmar]

Who said masturbating is a sin.. We were all born nude, took birth when our parents had sex so there’s nothing wrong to watch porn. Or imagine anything dirty..

[Orange_bb]

Masturbation is not sin. It prevents the sexual sickness, u wanted baby and regret. Just feeling yourself

[Red_Arrow]

To many, masturbation regardless of thoughts is a sin. But it is possible for many

[Asker]

So I have to live with this horniness until marriage?

[Red_Arrow]

My computer cut out before I finished. I was trying to say it is possible for many to masturbate to orgasm without thoughts of certain things. As I also said, masturbation itself can be considered by many as a sin. If you do not consider the actual masturbation as sinning, it is possible to masturbate successfully without certain thoughts. What do you consider impure thoughts? Thoughts on having sex? Just certain kinds of sex? What about just thinking of nude bodies? What is impure to you? Whatever your considerations, I think you are restricting yourself too much. You really do not need to suffer the urges of your body without taking care of them.

[Geminiheart69]

😎😎LMAO. Girl ur funny.

[Geminiheart69]

Well said @red_Arrow

[Mellontikos]

Wanting to be intimate with someone is not impure. Masturbation also is not a sin.

[Smashingdoozy]

Don't think of it as a sin. Masturbation is perfectly natural and great stress/ pain relief.

[ecfresh]

Fantasies are ok to experience without masturbation. Only if you got addicted to masturbation and it separated you from God does it become sinful.

[DanaeAdam5]

For fucks sake, masturbation isn't a sin!

And no I don't think you can

[archiz]

Nope

[broken_heart_at_48]

Why can't you fantasize about your future husband even keeping him faceless. Really though if masterbation is an unforgivable sin then everybody's going to hell or whatever your belief is. Heaven would be empty cause everyone would be masterbating down in hell

[Asker]

Well... isn’t that kind of cheating?

[chriscdi]

i dont think there's a way but you can always be forgiven

[julieboerd]

Wish I had a good answer except to say god understands all and will forgive

[Romeo0071234]

Good answer

[_SOARER]

You need to abstain. The act of masturbation is a perversion in itself.
Abstain until you find a man you can trust.
If you relapse thats ok, but know that masturbation is unhealthy.

[Asker]

How do you manage not to get horny?

[_SOARER]

You get horny, thats ok. Whats not ok is giving into the impulse every time. Early on, when you feel horny, its bets if you go somewhere public, so you are in a situation where you can't masturbate.

[arun934]

Share your feelings with a stranger. Assuming you are having pleasure

[Aakash_Hangargi]

What according to you is sin?

[Quidthonian]

Imagine that your partner is your husband.

[Meatunnel69]

Imagine your future husband?

[Asker]

Isn’t that kind of cheating?

[Meatunnel69]

Are you married now?

[Asker]

No. I don’t mean cheating on a partner I mean cheating as in finding a loophole in the rules.

[Meatunnel69]

Mountains out of molehills? Are you flicking your bean to another man whilst in monogamous relations?

[Asker]

No because I’m not in a relationship/marriage

[Meatunnel69]

What kind of impure thoughts thot?

[Asker]

Sexual thoughts obviously

[Meatunnel69]

Are you of religion that prohibits lust

[Asker]

Lust that is about your husband is fine

[Meatunnel69]

So future husband doesn't count?

[Meatunnel69]

Just tell yourself “ok that twink stroking his meat on youporn. com will be my future husband” then spin your bean problem solved

[Asker]

I‘m pretty sure future husband doesn’t count

[Meatunnel69]

Well well I become inflamed and “backed up” if you will to the point it is crampy and almost painful if i dont release every few days. If your creator didn't want you masturbating how is it possible to bring yourself to orgasm but not to tickle oneself? I have serious questions for a God who condems lust and I would think it is only for lust that leads to adultry and not lust for someone seeking love but i do not read the bible so who knows

[Asker]

The issue isn’t masturbation itself the problem are my thoughts that go along with it

[Meatunnel69]

Turn yourself into the thought police

[coffeewithcream]

Just think of lemons and magnifying glasses and balls of yarn. In that order.

[Asker]

I don’t get it lol

[coffeewithcream]

Not an impure thought in any of that. :) Or think of a video game. :)

[Asker]

I don’t play video games😂 but thanks:)

[Shamalien]

you can do firebreathing meditation

[AcidT0y]

There's no such thing as sin. And if there was, getting yourself off would be a stupid one that you can probably ignore.

[esotericstory]

think about your future husband.

[Asker]

Isn’t that cheating in some way?😅

[esotericstory]

why would it be?

[BulletproofNY]

I can’t even get it up without impure thoughts!

[BMWE46M3]

It takes a long time. Probably like 30-45 min

[Geminiheart69]

Have at. Jesus is gonna love u regardless, as long as he is in your heart

[beatcoock]

It is completely normal... Nothing is impure

[IndyZee]

Why is it a sin?

[Cryptic-Game]

I doubt anybody can do that.

[CloudsOFNeveermore]

Think that you are filled with light and love and you are in the universe and ask for it to get out over everything

[leoniscas3]

Without sinning? What do u mean

[Asker]

Masturbation is not a sin. Lustful thoughts are. How do I masturbate without lustful thoughts?

[Anonymous]

sorry comes with the package

masturbating is not a sin read the bible properly
but i understand

we think of dirty things when
we masturbate so yeah

BORN IN SIN :(
accept it

[Anonymous]

Taking the question seriously. I don't consider fantasies needed to get over the top impure so long as they don't have a name. But you do not have to agree with me.
There are devices available nowadays for both guys and girls that are so effective, you just set them and wait with nothing on your mind but your own pleasure. I can plug into mine, read news about covid19 and cum anyway.

[Anonymous]

What do you mean by "impure thoughts"?

[Anonymous]

You need to use a dragon dildo.

[Asker]

I just googled what that is. It was a mistake.

[Opinion Owner]

No impure thought then :)

[Anonymous]

Most sexual sins have to do with disease prevention. So since you can't get anything from masterbation I don't think that it is inherently sinful. I might be wrong, but that is what forgiveness is for.

[Asker]

I‘m not doing anything if I think it’s wrong in the first place just to ask for forgiveness later

[Anonymous]

It will not be fun without lustful thoughts. But if you feel sinful after masturbation then you can try to divert your mind just after masturbation like doing some exercise or something.

[Anonymous]

I personally think there is a distinction between impure thoughts. For example I would fantasize about a model or an actress but I wouldn’t fantasize about a good friend.

[Anonymous]

Girl, please 😒