How to make a video of yourself masturbating?

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I want to make a video of myself masturbating for my husband. I've never done anything like this before and I'm kind of clueless as to what I should do. What should I wear? How should the lighting be? Should I have some music on? Please give me some tips!

DJ4856 · Accepted Answer

Just be yourself. You don't have a production team or anything so lighting isn't anything major. Enough to see you and to make you comfortable. He most likely finds you desirable anyway. It's not necessarily the act of you masturbating but the road to the experience. What I mean by that is take your time. I'd much rather see a woman in an attractive tank top and shorts the kinky kind. Leading to her taking them off. Touch your self gently and almost like the camera isn't ther. Just fondle yourself and make awesome love to you. Get into it. Don't act though. Regardless of what happens I'm sure he will like and more than enjoy the time you put into it! You could always watch some joi or joe type porn (jerk off encouragement) for sexy examples of being sexy without touching yourself

TheBootyChest · Accepted Answer

Most of the people are right let him see you being you when you are masturbating. Masturbate which every way makes you feel the best. It doesn't work if you are forcing something that isn't there. The sounds of you masturbating (or watching) is the right mood music for this video. If you have to wear something pick his favorite outfit and take it off on camera. If you are using a laptop with a camera you can use that instead of a tripod.

To give you something else to think about:
Try filming it from your POV. I know that is something that I find missing on lots of websites. You never know he might find that really sexy. So try that or do both at the same time.

linkywinky · Accepted Answer

Set up a camera and then forget that you set up the camera and go to town. That's basically the best advice I can give you. I feel like the music would take away from it, personally.

And unless you're doing a striptease type of thing beforehand then, honestly, the only outfit you need is your birthday suit.

thewanderingme · Accepted Answer

get camera. focus and aim camera in direction of "the action" push record.

FallenAngel92 · Accepted Answer

I'm sure as long as he can you see doing it the rest doesn't matter.

5k1nny · Answer

You make a video of yourself masturbating, like setting up a camera and getting all naughty with yourself.

matheus_mb · Answer

You can use a webcam, just be naked and put music if he likes it, if he doesn't I don't think it's necessary.

Klaatu51 · Answer

then have somebody else tapin u... although i'd not suggest it :-/

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

If you got a webcam you should be able to record yourself so take it from there

KDA20 · Answer

Get him to record it - Double the thrill for both of you - I wouldn't be a big fan of music bit like porn from the 70s.

Miphee · Answer

I hate to be THAT guy, but these videos have a tendency of getting out on the Internet. Why is it necessary to record these things when you can do it in front of him? Aren't you afraid that people might see it and you could lose your job? These things happen all the time. Just Google revenge porn.

Gooseman · Answer

Why for your husband? Just let him walk in on you it'll be hotter. Or is it for your bf?

colt_nz · Answer

easy just do it

I_am_repulsive · Answer

Using a camera tripods would probably help you there.

douride2 · Answer

No matter how you do it or what your wearing he will love it.

SurströmmingLover · Answer

-Set camera -Strip -Masturbate -Post it online (you can skip that part) wear sexy underwear and stockings. You could add some relaxing chill out or jazz music

DaveyBaby107 · Answer

You don't need to wear anything. You'll want a camera you can move. Finger yourself, rub your clit. Guys also love seeing pleasure in a woman's face. If you can recline to wear he can see your vagina and face that'll be great. Play with your boobs too. My girlfriend does this for me all the time. I love it.

Strider90 · Answer

ok, this is a film editor answering.
You don't need to really wear anything. Or maybe you can wear something that you will later take off, so don't think too much about this.
Place the camera in front of you, so that all of your body will be recorded. This is called a Full shot.
The lighting should be as clear as it gets. If you want to make it look more aesthetic, you can do it later in the post production (or maybe someone like me).
No music! The preferred sounds besides your moan are a vibrator (if you have one) and some porn video you watch while doing the job, but don't have turn the sound of it too high.
I hope this helps.

Dave_Jose · Answer

Jesus Christ woman

blondfrog · Answer

Get a video with a tripod to hold it then just fap away.

notverycreativeguy · Answer

Are you seriously that brainless?

Dantheman101 · Answer

Never made one so clueless

Anonymous · Answer

Go watch porn and replicate

Anonymous · Answer

Good lighting. Be sure it's behind the recording device.
Use a high resolution camcorder or digital cam on a pedestal.
No clothes. Reclining to get a closeup and also show boobs.
Plenty of lotion before you start. You want to be open and wet.
Mostly work your clit so your open V is mostly visible. Occasional fingering.
If you come, try to show your V and anus twitching. If not, simulate it with Kegels.
He may also like a little spritz of pee..

Anonymous · Answer

Just masturbate the way you normally would..

Anonymous · Answer

Google it.

Anonymous · Answer

Just record it?

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