If Your SO Has A Playroom, Is That A Red Flag?

[anon1903]

room full of sex toys like in 50 shades

[Alex8736]

regardless if he has a playroom or not it is only a red flag if you do not consent and he doesn't respect how you feel but if you were to consent then the 2 of you would have to come to an agreement of hard limits and soft limits and also have a safe word

[Alex8736]

@anon1903 Ty for the MHO 😊

[anon1903]

You're welcome

[anon1903]

Consent is the most important thing. Without consent, bdsm is abuse.

[Alex8736]

amen to that. especially when impact play is involved

[Rudon00]

I would love it but I'm not a fan of the bdsm lifestyle or whatever its call

[Rudon00]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Effably]

Sounds good to me. As long as they don't have Grey's level if immaturity, mental issues and irrresponsible behaviour.

I tried giving 50 shades a chance but yikes. They took all the signs that someone is a horrible dom and needs to see a therapist, or just grow up to be older than 15 mentally, and put them in one person. It is an amalgamtion of bad much like Hannibal Lecter, but not nearly as impressive.

[Guy13]

Those basements can be a good place as long as the girlfriend or wife is focus and purpose for the environment itself.

[RobT312]

Love it. About 6 years ago I had a playroom. My girlfriend at the time called me a freak for liking bdsm stuff. Eventually that relationship ended

[petitedollbabee]

Green flags all the wayyyy 🥰 oh how I wish I had a play room

[anon1903]

Me too! Except I'd have a nap room, with aquarium ceilings.

[petitedollbabee]

That sounds amazing too

[anon1903]

I'm glad haha

[studguy07]

What toys would you like him to have?

[petitedollbabee]

I could list out a lot, but honestly aslong as he or she has some bdsm furniture, and more than a handful of different types of toys, then it sounds like fun! I wouldn’t be interested if they were boring and only had like 2 toys and no bdsm furniture in a play room, lol.

[petitedollbabee]

And OP, obviously when I say green flag I mean only if they know basic hygiene and clean everything, and air out the room/use methods to avoid it smelling like sex. If they’ve got a play room, then they shouldn’t be an amateur ☺️

[studguy07]

Haha. Would you mind having a detailed talk in PMs?

[LazerBean]

Yes, iteans that he frequently sleeps around.

[SixOfClubs]

Green flag. I would enter that room with a bdsm pride parade

[Leopard23]

50 Shades is a complete fantasy. In real like Anna Steele wouldn't be marrying Christian Grey in the end instead they'd be fishing her naked body out of the Hudson River after being missing for 2 months.

[ElGato31]

No, it is only a sign that you need to communicate what you want in a relationship

[EmmaMary]

I know, I know this is not the "subject" you're referring to and therefore won't count, but I thought I'd post this anyway!

My husband is now constructing a huge Scalextric Racing Car circuit in our outbuilding in readiness for when our son is old enough!

I believe I'm right in saying that...Green = Go & Red = Stop! 😉😂

[anon1903]

That's wonderful

[anon1903]

And really sweet of your husband.

[EmmaMary]

@anon1903 I just thought of a "playroom" in an entirely different context. I'm so sorry to have perhaps spoilt your actual question. ❤

[anon1903]

Nah. I was actually thinking of a nap room with aquarium ceilings. My drive ain't high.

[EmmaMary]

@anon1903 An aquarium ceiling sounds a crazy but very therapeutic idea... One I should perhaps suggest to my husband, who just so happens to be an absolutely brilliant and successful architect! 🤔😂 Now, what are we going to do about your "drive" problem? 🤔

[anon1903]

Oh yes! I read it somewhere, a stoic character had it for his bedroom. I just knew that was ✨✨ awesome ✨✨

[anon1903]

I'm not sex obsessed, that's all I wanted to say. And I'd actually judge the person with a 50 shades room lmao.

[EmmaMary]

@anon1903 Fully understood and appreciated. ❤

[QuietVerbena]

They must be kinky and adventurous

[bean2k21]

The red flag isn't the dildo's, sex toys, and restraining devices themselves. But rather, the fact that he would call it a "playroom." Enslaving a girl is not a game. It's serious work that involves destroying them and then rebuilding them as a new version of themselves that is a more enlightened version than that which could be created by feminism, society, or probably even her foolish parents. @Реrverted_creep has a lot to say about unfucking yourself by not drinking the chemicals in the water that's worth reading, or maybe try playing your boyfriend subliminal messages at night:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/E85pctJ1byk

[Реrverted_creep]

That's right, the dildos and toys aren't the problem. They are sm essential supplement to daily and nightly affirmations.
https://youtu.be/hGNHPjtj3Wg

[exitseven]

I would wonder how I missed all the other red flags.

[anon1903]

If they're anything like Christian Grey, best of luck

[Luffy1990]

It’s super weird but everyone has there kinky side

[AsaKyo]

I probably wouldn't stick around and would just let him find a girl who suits his taste better lmao...

[anon1903]

Same lol

[MysticDevice]

I would be super intrigued and extremely curious.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol that would be a total turn-on.

[Quidthonian]

"Can I join in?"

[PointTaken]

That would be great to have. Everyone should have a playroom.

[TallAnon]

Depends whether you are into kinky sex as well.

[strlb]

Wow lol must love sex as much as I do